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My daddy and I are long distance and sometimes it drives me crazy. I'm the kind of person who loves being cuddled and snuggled and having almost constant physical contact except it's impossible to get those things when he's on the other side of the country, but it feels even worse when we have no contact at all.  

 

My daddy is almost always asleep, or at least says he is, and with the three hour time difference it makes it even harder for me to contact him when he's awake. He also always falls asleep while we're texting without any warning and when we skype he seems to take it as the opportunity to fall asleep. I've tried to talk to him about this but every time he gets annoyed and I'm too scared to push the topic on him because I'm afraid it'll make us break up before he has the chance to move to be with me like we planned.

 

I just really miss him all the time and even though he says he isn't I sometimes feel like he's ignoring me and it really hurts. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I should do?

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I am really sorry that you are feeling like this. I wish I had some advise for you. I know how hard it can be when the one person you want to be with is unable to be there for you. Maybe having some "little" outlets will help fill that void for you. like if you have any other little friends you can play with and talk to. I know this forum has helped me a lot just in the short time that Ive been here. I think talking with your Daddy is very important too. I would tell him how you feel, he might not realize that its hurting your feelings this much.

Good luck and lots and lots of (((HUGS)))

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I had a relationship kinda similar sounding to this: (SO was distant, difficult to talk to, and when they were addressed about it, they got defensive) a while back... I know how it feels <3

 

I wish I could tell ya more to help, but without having more info, I really don't feel comfortable advising ya any further. If ya need someone to talk to about it, don't hesitate to PM me~

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Hi! Communication is the key to any relationship, especially LDR, you both need to talk to each other and get an understanding on how the other is feeling! 

Also, you could always take up a hobby, likeeeeeeeeeeee coloring or playing video games to help pass the time when your daddy is asleep :)

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