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Daddy Space, with no Little? How do you relax..


DavCentral
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So I've been trying to get my head around this for a while..

 

What do you do to satisfy that Daddy Space desire if you have no Little to share that time with? 

 

 

I am single and really miss having a Little and being in Daddy Space in general.

 

I have plenty of hobbies and things I like to do, so with work as well I can always distract myself and keep busy, BUT! I can't just constantly try to ignore how I feel.

 

I find it relaxing, it's a comforting mindset to be in & have things to focus on, and distract myself from outside stresses. It's something I enjoy but I don't know how to find an outlet on my own.  :(

 

Who's got some tips, tricks, past experiences to share? 

 

Thanks!!

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Guest Mittens

Plenty of tips. Alright lets see, I get into daddyspace by being around littles in little space. Talk, roleplay if it's online, just imagine everything in your head that is said and it can put you there. Look at little space things at stores and objects and imagine the things you'd do and their reactions to it ect.

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Maybe read a good fiction about ddlg?would bet wattpad has tons of em.

Perhaps you could write your own? I write when i feel little and in need of a daddy. So writing helps me imagine how things could be, or things i wish to be.

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I know of a single daddy that has a blog on tumblr to assist littles with questions, tips, and advice during hard times. Perhaps getting into something like that would help fulfill some of your needs?

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This has now made me really curious as to if there's any writing pieces specifically intended to get a daddy into daddy space. 

 

So for example with specific scenarios; 

 

-You go to the funfair with your little

-You buy your little a new stuffie

-A whole day in bed with your little

 

etc, etc. 

 

I know there are things like this for littles but I'm not so sure about daddies. If you... Or anyone is interested in this, please message me. It's actually something I have interest in writing now. 

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thanks everyone :)  those are some brilliant suggestions I've noted down and will look into next time I've got that urge!

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I know this won't fulfill the sexual part of you desires, but maybe you can get a pet to nurture. Even if its just something small like a fishy. Something cute that needs your care! There's something about animals that make you fell loved and needed, even if they are dumb like fish.

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thankya blushangel :) I have 2 pugs!! they're my babiiiieees! but ive also had them for a long time so.. they dont want my attention so much now (example: theyre both flat out asleep snoring right now) haha.

 

 

Side note: SO funny how you basically started that, NOT SEXUAL, BUT...  :lol:  :lol:  :lol:

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Yep, just wanted to make things crystal clear  ;) Didn't want it to come off like I was telling anyone to shag an animal. 

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It's so interesting to me that a daddy could miss being a daddy.  I had to figure out how to nurture myself after my daddy left and moved three hours away.  He unfortunately moved to a very populated area with lots of kink options.  I however am in a rather quaint beach town with a small population...and I have two little girls from my marriage.  I had to learn to do things I'd never done before, get a teddy bear, wear soft jammies, make sure I drink and eat enough, keep my house the way I want it...that's the little end of the spectrum though.  I don't know what is on the daddy end.  I suppose only you would know but I do think that even writing to littles is a nice way to stay connected.  

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I've found opportunities everywhere to feed my daddy side even after losing the most amazing bbg ever (I know, that is my opinion). There is nothing that replaces the intimacy of the sexual aspect of things, but there are tons of opportunities to care and encourage and even coach and guide right here in Forum. Answer posts. Interact in chat. The other day several littles were bored and whiney so I broke out virtual playdough and we all played. All it took was a little effort and imagination. I LOVED being a daddy. It is what I am. One day I'll have my bbg again. Until then, I'll keep working to develop my daddy skills anywhere I can, so I can be my very best daddy for/to her. Edited by DPsEverWolf
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