littles who are slaves

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I am looking for advice from littles who are also slaves. How do you balance the two? Do they flow relatively smoothly together? I've also considered myself a submissive but lately have been intrigued by the concept of slave. I have very little knowledge in this field and no experience. I am married to my Daddy, who is more than willing to explore Master slave with me, but we are both in the dark on this. Any and all advice appreciated.

[Daddy'sBrity]

I'm my daddy's masochistic sub but still a little. It's more paying attention to the signs and knowing when you need to be little and the things you are comfortable with while little... with Daddy and I I'm always his sub. Even when little I have big girl rules and things I'm supposed to do. Daddy has control in day to day and with pain and sex but we even have boundaries sexually When little most of the time unless its needed we dont play sexually. When I feel little I'm aloud to be little unless he doesn't think it's good for me at the time. There's also times where daddy makes me little cause he knows I need it. It's just finding what works for you and makes yall happy. I know me and daddy don't see ourselves as a typical D/s couple. There's no one way things have to be.

[TwilightSparklez]

Check this topic it might help 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/16527-are-any-of-you-littles-slaves-as-well/

 

Do you have a Fetlife account? This question was addressed really nicely in one of the groups. If you don't have an account message me and I will send you the transcript. 

 

Some things to consider is are you willing to give up that much personal power and invest that much trust? Are you willing to never have the final say so or the ability to say no? I have slave tendencies and in service to/being guided by a Master who allows me to express those slave tendencies while understanding, I am still learning aspects of submission. All decisions go to him. If I am struggling with indecisiveness in school of whether I should type or write my notes and he tells me to write them then that's what I do no questions asked. For me, it's very cathartic not to have to think so very much. But it's all about finding your happy balance first and foremost.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Thank you! I will check out that topic and I do have a fetlife account.

 

Right now my Daddy makes all major decisions and his say is final. We may discuss but the ultimate decision is his. This works well for us. Sometimes though I struggle with the not questioning part and total submission as I do have a brat side as well.

[TwilightSparklez]

Thank you! I will check out that topic and I do have a fetlife account.

 

Right now my Daddy makes all major decisions and his say is final. We may discuss but the ultimate decision is his. This works well for us. Sometimes though I struggle with the not questioning part and total submission as I do have a brat side as well.

Lol join the club! I never said I wasn't impish but I do try to be good. I will find the link on fetlife later and post it here.

[TwilightSparklez]

https://fetlife.com/groups/24183/group_posts/7536456

 

https://fetlife.com/groups/24183/group_posts/6126543

Edited September 21, 2017 by TwilightSparklez

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Thank you so much for these posts! Very helpful!

[cutelittlevixey]

i am both little and slave. i feel that the two can flow freely.

Daddy has rules for me, and i have to follow His commands and wait on Him as He desires.

He can use me for sex or pain as much as He desires. And yet, He cares for me and snuggles me and is amused by my sweet cuteness... it just works. ❤

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

i am both little and slave. i feel that the two can flow freely.

Daddy has rules for me, and i have to follow His commands and wait on Him as He desires.

He can use me for sex or pain as much as He desires. And yet, He cares for me and snuggles me and is amused by my sweet cuteness... it just works. ❤

My Daddy isn't much of a sadist. Recently I've had some emotional issues regarding physical punishment, for no apparent trigger. I've got those worked out and am okay with physical pain again, either for punishment or sexual purposes. This is allowing Daddy to get back into Dom mode, whereas I think he had shut it off. My emotional health was down the drain recently so I really really just needed the soft cuddly side of Daddy for awhile and couldn't handle any Dom. Now my submissive is craving structure again.

[Guest LeftyGuitar]

I think it is possible to be a little and a slave. In terms of BDSM a slave gives themselves up to their master/mistress. In this sense a little would give themselves up to their daddy or mommy. Thus the daddy or mommy making the decisions and the little being submissive. Of course it doesen't have to be this way, but it can. There's really a lot of variability when it comes to BDSM and ageplay. As well how people view themselves and the roles they take on. Also, forgot to mention that the master/mistress would take care of their slave too.

Edited October 2, 2017 by LeftyGuitar