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Losing your little side


Lostlittlekitty

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I'm not sure if here is the right place to post this. But I didn't know where else and I don't know what to do... Have any of you ever lost your little side/Kitten side? I think I have and I am utterly distraught. I don't know what happened, or how to fix it. My daddy/master/sir doesn't know how to help. And feels like there's nothing he can do. And that it's something I'll have to fix on my own... if anyone has any suggestions I would be so grateful to hear them...
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Focus on what's stressing you out and nip it in the bud. Focus on work only then will you find your little self. I went through this myself.
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Guest Aurora_dev

Hi there!

yes stress can be a very important factor. and if you have to be a grown up for a long time i could imagine that you 'forget' your little side. i for my self 'lost' my little side a long time ago because i had to be strong and grown up...since this is what the world tells you right?! you learn to be strong and independent...and your little side has no place in the grown up world you are living in.

maybe you could try to do little things to remind you of your little side..like wearing cute socks...or going to the playground...

find things that could spark your inner child...?!

i wish you all the best!

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i mostly lost my little side for years after having babies. i still desired and missed it, but i didn't know how to bridge the gap. i passively kept hoping my Daddy/Master/husband would encourage it to come back, but He didn't... at least not for a long time. And at that point i had to confess to Him that i needed that dynamic back.

 

For me, when i read this forum or look at DDlg stuff on Pinterest or Polyvore i connect with the desire to be little. Sometimes i find it hard to cross over in reality with Daddy when the end of the day comes and W/we are finally alone. i think i may have mental blocks and insecurity about having to be the initiator when i feel little. But it is really important to me and i am working on releasing those blocks to feel more natural in little space. Before babies it was very easy to get there and stay there. i MISS IT!

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