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I was looking for perspectives from both sides of the spectrum, both littles and daddies. I know a large part of the community is active on tumblr and I myself don't have a tumblr for that part of my life, just a personal one with random junk. For comunications and comunity reasons? Would you recomend me make one? Or are those pages unescary?
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To be honest though, the DD/lg community is going down there and turning very hateful so use with caution. People get offended easily and most Daddies and Doms are accused of being abusive or "Tumblr Doms" if you don't cater to their (the littles) ideal DD/lg image.

 

This is on top of the fact that the non-kink community is definitely prone to making lots more jokes about the DDlg community due to the fact that people will reblog non-sexual images (screencaps of movies, etc) and add their own commentary (See: Monster's University "Daddy's Pockets" post that is basically the most notorious of them all).

 

Just be advised that while it's your blog and you can post what you want, the hostility of the community you may be joining can be overwhelming if you're unable to block it out.

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What they've said. As I've come to learn, as generously taught by the community of Tumblr? The fact I was born as, and identify as a male, was born to a white family by white parents, measure as 0 on the Kinsey scale, and enjoy kink, BDSM and DD/lg? Why, I'm worse than the spawn of Satan!

That being said, I've maid several wonderful friends from Tumblr. I actually met Sae there! But, the good parts of the BDSM or DD/lg community are fading away. It's harder and harder to talk to anyone there without being accused of abusing or objectifying someone. It's up to you! (My tumblr now is just cute stuff and random things I like. I don't even participate in this community there anymore!)

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Definitely be aware that you're likely to get hate because a lot of Tumblr is easily offended or is just looking for a reason to be pissed off. But I enjoy having my own Tumblr for my little lifestyle. 

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You know, I'd say just keep your personal one. Yes, a lot of daddies have a Tumblr, but a lot also don't have Tumblr. In fact, I know more Daddies who don't have a Tumblr than one's who do. But then again...I know older daddies...

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Tumblr is the worst place. Everyone is so hostile and rightfully on alert for 'Fake Doms', the problem is if you as a Dom don't totally conform to their idea of a Dom (which my in your eyes be a bad way of being a Dom) or make one wrong move they get angry at you. 

 

Twice I've had bad experiences when going to people for help on Tumblr with kink stuff, because they've misunderstood a message from me and then turned nasty. 

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I have.

I've been approached by radical feminists who have called me a pedophile and that I advocate pedophilia, incest, and rape, because they're too lazy to actually read up on the dynamic with an open mind and educate themselves. I've also been called racist by SJWs for drawing a request interracial couple, where the black girl was the submissive and was leashed and collared.

 

Yeah, my biggest concern with tumblr is the hyper politically correct crowd that looks to attack everyone, and that sucks, im sorry you had to face that kind of ignorance 

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My tumblr isn't DDlg specific and tends to be more centered on darker, less politically acceptable kinks so I'm used to people attacking me. Still, it is interesting when actual people in BDSM do it.
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I have a "normal" one and one for my ddlg side. I think the worst part about tumblr in regards to ddlg is coming across extreme radical feminists that you have all talked about. Not only does it make me feel terrible, I actually sent some anons to attempt to reason with them - which just made me feel worse.

 

The best thing you can do is just block them and carry on with your day. I mostly use mine for sharing pictures and thoughts with kittycandy

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I don't think it should scare you away from Tumblr though! This is where I discovered about the cgl community and I'm very active on there. Actually I've made very good friends that I talk to everyday (both daddies and littles) and I still never had any negative comments on my lifestyle !

 

I think what you will see of dd/lg community depends on the blogs you will follow: If you ever hear something like "Littles can only be girls" or that kind of non-sense, just unfollow. Personally I never heard such negative comments !

 

Have any of you littles been approached by people with non bdsm lifestyle blogs?

 

Yes, in fact the three daddies I am talking to (they're friends) have non dd/lg blogs !

 

That being said I have yet to find a daddy blog that isn't made of porn... I think Tumblr is probably not the best place to find a daddy!

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I have a Tumblr page that I set up shortly after discovering the lifestyle, but I've only posted a few times so far. I actually found the forums by following a link here.

 

I haven't been attacked by the feminists yet, but I'm sure I will at some point. There are some really great blogs on there though. I learned a lot about DDlg and power exchange relationships from Dominant Life. He has compiled a ton of great articles there.

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I have the two separate blogs for my vanilla stuff and then my little blog. Thats how most of the people I know are. :3

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I try to make a mixture of NSFW and SFW on my tumblr.  I like spanking, so you'll probably see a lot of that on there.  But, I try not to be too overly BDSM/Sexual/Sploogie (if you know what I mean).. I'm not offended by it, I just think if all you do is post HardCore DOM stuff, maybe you're more a Dom than a Daddy.. that's just my own opinion.  I hope you understand that's just how I like my tumblr.

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I have two, one normal and one for the kink side. I don't really put much on there, mainly reposting some stuff I like. Occasionally a writing I make ends up on there. Run into a few antiddlg blogs, but haven't had much issue since I tag all my stuff as nsfw and my blog is 18+ so that kinda covers their main concern (thankfully none of the extreme ones have found issue with me yet). I think if you want to make one go for it! Just keep in mind there might be some hate, but that can be navigated around usually.

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