Bringing out the Little

[Guest DuckDaddy66]

Today I was looking at my little and telling her how cute she looked  when she shook her head in that shy way.  So what I wondered what others have said or done to bring their little out of her shell. 

 

Things I have said:

You have a cute smile

I love your pigtails  ( her sign that she is being little )

Daddy will take care of everything (and her trusting that I will)

Various compliments of little clothing 

I am giving you my kitchen  ( * see note below )

 

 

Things I have done:

Updating and fixing her computers (various times)

Fixing her truck ( rear brake job that cost about 200 in parts that could have been 800 bucks in her home town)

Making her coffee in the morning

Brushing her hair ( I actually love doing this and it's a huge non-sexual turn on )

Financial Support 

Answering the various "how do I fix this" questions 

Non-Sexual Physical contact that different from a hug such as petting, stroking, reassuring touching. 

The "Daddy Look" in response when she questions me or acts a little bratty 

Small gifts such as egg poachers ( unannounced from amazon )

 

So please share what you have done or said that makes the little in your little to come out. 

 

* Kitchen Story

The first time she came to visit me ( we are still in a LDR ) she asked if she could have my kitchen.  She is a very good chef and I am a decent cook. I have been cooking since Jr. High. In most of my prior relationships I have been the primary cook.  I am the kind of cook that can improvise on a recipe.  So I love my kitchen and it was a very big deal for me.  She did not realize it at the time. 

 

I understood her need and I gave it to her. She wanted a way of giving back to her Daddy, and to be able to shine at something she excels at for me. Each time she cooks it is her gift to me.  I love her very much and wanted her to feel welcome each time she is in her kitchen, so I made a sign for her.

 

[Little Illy]

I absolutely love this and love hearing about you two.

 

I have no internet due to our recent move, but when we get net, I’ll make Daddy reply to your answer.

[Guest DuckDaddy66]

I was hoping that other Daddy's or littles would share their own words or actions here. 

[PrincessBean]

I'm new to being a little but the way you described your relationship with your little is something I dream of. Aside from having my own kitchen, but the dynamics and the sweet things you do for her are what I want in my own daddy some day.

[Guest hurtlocker]

Sounds pretty good. But if you are asking the initial question, that means you feel the list is not enough to bring her out of her shell? Which leads to an immediate thought of why exactly do you need her to come out of her shell? What is missing? It sounds pretty great to be something missing.

 

Anyways, I think I can add one thing to the 'Things I have done':

- Regularly (not that much though, to keep it special and fresh), organize a "different" get away with some special unique feature attached to it. It can be a whole day or weekend at a theme park of an IP which is special to her. It can be just a few hours to that store she always wanted to go but never did. It can be the hotel with best view or the best food or that art deco she likes. It can be the sold out concert which you managed to get tickets anyway. The best gift is the time spent together, building unique memories which show that you always listen. Just keep on giving it and that shell will crack.