Guest TxRedheadedangel Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 (edited) So, I am a 33 year old that feels a little lost. I have a successful career, a masters degree, and a house of my own; however, I just don't feel like I've found my place. I am great at being an adult, but I fill unfulfilled being an adult all the time. I feel that I am constantly seeking approval of others and I crave the attention of someone who truly cares about me and my well-being. The thing is, I can't stomach the little talk. I just can't make myself do that. I would almost consider myself a brat in some ways because I like to test authority and push my boundaries; but, I don't know if I do that to get the attention or if I do that because I truly enjoy it. I know for a fact I'm a sub, and I enjoy that very much but it goes further than just sex. This is something I want to live and crave 24/7. I want to serve and please my Daddy. I want to be cared for and loved, and I want to have my ass spanked when I do not do what I'm supposed to. Can someone with more experience help me try to decipher all of these feelings? Can you be a mixture of all? What's the best way to navigate all of this? Thanks for your help! Edited October 21, 2018 by TxRedheadedangel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NPC Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 (edited) Mostly just boils down to personal preference. Gotta find out what you like/dont like in a significant other/bedroom matters like any other relationship. Edited October 20, 2018 by NPC Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TxRedheadedangel Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 I agree. I just don’t know how to know if I’m a little. I mean parts of it turns me on but I don’t know how to know for sure Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleGirlEmilia Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 Research. Read the forum Find out what type of little you are, or if you relate to more than one type. Maybe figure out an age range you relate to to help you understand yourself more. Eventually you'll take all the info in and become you're own little. Nobody is the same here so there's no true way. Just your way. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11032-types-of-littles/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12490-age-play-101-0-4-years-old/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/13507-age-play-101-4-10-yo/ Then figure out what sort of dynamic you want. Rules or no rules? Punishments? Rewards? Are you the boss or is your partner the boss? How often do you want to do this? 24/7 or once a week? https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/27958-rewards-and-punishmentsfunishments-ideas-charts-etc/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/34554-making-littlespace-your-space/ Don't forget to research together sometimes and ask him questions. What does it mean to him? What's his ideal dynamic? Then it all comes down to experience. You won't know if you don't try. Good luck. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SifuTheWolf Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 As Barbie said, there is no "one way", every relationship is different. At its core I believe littles want attention, to be cared for and looked after, and Daddies want to be needed, and have someone to care for. Age regression or age play doesn't even necessarily have to be involved, neither my babygirl nor I am into any type of age play but we are definitely DDlg. I know of some couples were sex isn't involved in the relationship. It all boils down to what you and your Daddy want and if your needs/desires are compatible. There is alor more to it, but for right now, I think you guys need to focus on what you both want, what you want to receive and give in order to be happy, satisfied, fulfilled. I wish you both the best! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Arc Posted October 20, 2018 Report Share Posted October 20, 2018 I'm a sub and not a little. I've had a daddy before. I understand how scary it can be and how you can feel like you're letting them down, but you really just have to be true to yourself. If you're not a little that's completely okay. Don't force it. In my relationship with a daddy he didn't care that I wasn't a little. My personality tends to be "young and playful" anyway so we were able to find a balance of things that work for us. At first I was absolutely terrified because I knew I wasn't into the abdl side and I was winding myself up thinking that's what he wanted, but when we discussed what he liked and what I liked we were more compatible than I thought when I was looking into ddlg. Do you know what your daddy likes? You should discuss what he wants and needs as well to get an idea of what you should be looking in to. Everyone does things differently and you just gotta find a balance that works for you both ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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