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[LittlePrincessRae]

Hello! My name is Rae and I’ve known I’m little for a long time now but I never tried to explore or discover that side of myself out of fear of judgment from others. Recently though, I came out to my boyfriend about my little side and he has accepted and embraced the idea. He’s trying very hard to learn everything he can about being a daddy and is doing a great job!
But I find that I’m not even sure HOW little I really am and want to know what I can do to start to really discovering my little self. I have 2 kids (8 and 2) so I don’t have a whole lot of time to myself...Anyone have any advice? What kind of things do you do to feel little? How did you discover your little self?

Edited by LittlePrincessRae, 04 March 2019 - 01:30 PM.

[JayJayBiscuit]

Well I'm no little but the fact that you have children I feel would be a great way to express your little side.. especially with your youngest. When they play around you can join them and interact with them as a little. Just my opinion but I'm sure there will be others who can help out more

[Little kaiya]

There seem to be a lot of people who feel the need to quantify their little age, which is fine if that's what they want, but you shouldn't feel pressured to pick a little age. If picking an age helps you then by all means go for it but if it stresses you out then just let it go. My Daddy and I dont define my little age, although it tends to be younger, it can fluctuate between about 2 and 6. Rather than picking a strict age we go more by my behaviour at the time. One day my behaviour may be more toddlerish, the next more little girl. We adjust based on the moment. To be fair, there are times my Daddy is stressed and we've found at those times a younger, more physically affectionate age seems to help him and that seems to be where I naturally gravitate when I see he's stressed.

As for discovering your little self it really is just that, a process of discovery. Try different things with your boyfriend and find out what you enjoy, he enjoys and you both mutually enjoy. There really is no one process or guide to follow as it is very individualized in the end.

My Daddy and I have certain go to activities, like a nightly story before bed, that we've discovered by trying things out. If you try something and it doesn't work for you both then leave it behind and try new things. It isn't a race 😉 enjoy the journey as it can be as much fun, if not more than the end destination.

Little kaiya

Edited by Little kaiya, 04 March 2019 - 03:34 PM.

[LittlePrincessRae]

Thank you both! :3 I definitely love playing with my son so I’ll try opening up to my little side in those moments. And I will talk to Daddy and decide with him what kinds of different things we could try like you suggested kaiya. Everyone here is so supportive and encouraging, and I really appreciate it <3