There seem to be a lot of people who feel the need to quantify their little age, which is fine if that's what they want, but you shouldn't feel pressured to pick a little age. If picking an age helps you then by all means go for it but if it stresses you out then just let it go. My Daddy and I dont define my little age, although it tends to be younger, it can fluctuate between about 2 and 6. Rather than picking a strict age we go more by my behaviour at the time. One day my behaviour may be more toddlerish, the next more little girl. We adjust based on the moment. To be fair, there are times my Daddy is stressed and we've found at those times a younger, more physically affectionate age seems to help him and that seems to be where I naturally gravitate when I see he's stressed.
As for discovering your little self it really is just that, a process of discovery. Try different things with your boyfriend and find out what you enjoy, he enjoys and you both mutually enjoy. There really is no one process or guide to follow as it is very individualized in the end.
My Daddy and I have certain go to activities, like a nightly story before bed, that we've discovered by trying things out. If you try something and it doesn't work for you both then leave it behind and try new things. It isn't a race 😉 enjoy the journey as it can be as much fun, if not more than the end destination.
Edited by Little kaiya, 04 March 2019 - 03:34 PM.