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    #1 SquishyDomme

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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 04:50 PM

    My little is a bit embarrassed about his littleness and doesn't really get too far into age regression. I agreed, diapers and pacifers aren't my thing. But stuffies, sweaters,and cuddle disney movie nights are!

    But lately I've been looking at onesies. Not the type you buy Hot Topic or Walmart, but the ones on LittleforBig, I thought about my little maybe wearing one of these and my cheeks turned pink from the idea.

    But, I'm afraid to ask, what if it's too pervy for him? How do I ease this in while telling him it's not a 100% sexual thing for me. I just want to see him all cute and baby-ish gosh darn it!

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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 05:10 PM

    I can think of three ways to do it.

     

    First is by purchasing and surprising--and seeing the reaction. (Probably not recommended, given his embarrassment levels.)

     

    Second is just outright asking if he'd be willing to wear one for you--because it would make you happy. You could probably negotiate by doing this. But it also might shut your little down if they're that shy about that side of themselves.

     

    Thirdly--is to have said website up when he's around, point out the ones you like, and ask him if he likes any of them. That can slowly ease you both into the conversation where you point out that you think it would be fun to see him in it. And really, this is the one I'd suggest trying because it will warm him up to the possibility without putting pressure on him immediately.

     

    Hope that helps.



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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 05:32 PM

    You are not a pervert. You are a beautiful soul that found out what she likes, found another consenting adult that likes the same, and you are past the hard part of having that relationship already. 

     

    Also you found out you really liked it. I think you are partially dealing with cognitive dissonance (that image you have in your head of what you should be as per society/upbringing/mental image of that) and that you liked the onesie, which you didn't expect. 

     

    Also, you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself, in the sense that you are stressed due to considering yourself a pervert and maybe getting rejected by your little. 

     

    Just be kind to yourself, and make peace with that the onesie turned you on. It might be that your little won't like it as they too are dealing with cognitive dissonance if they get embaressed. Be gentle, but be open. Share yourself with them because at the end the deepest love you'll ever reach is by opening yourself up and being accepted by your SO so its a risk worth taking. And honestly, you've already come this far. 

     

    I wouldn't put the onesie out in isolation. I would print out 5 or so different styles of clothing that you might want to get them and then one by one, point them out and ask what they think about each one. 

     

    That way there is less pressure, and you can see their reaction without them seeing that the onesie is the piece of clothing that you want them to wear most. 

     

    Best of luck! There's nothing wrong with you. 


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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 05:47 PM

    the only way to know is ask. 

    sit him down, and read him this post, if it's easier. look at onesies together.

    communicate openly & honestly.

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    #5 DragonAllFather

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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 05:48 PM

    I doubt there is a perversion there. But being communication the key of any relationship, I think you should ask your little about it during the proper moment and see if there is an agreement. It should be as easy as that. I wouldn't recommend to buy before talking about that, because you would be wasting money if he doesn't like it. 


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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 06:08 PM

    I would choose OnesiesDownUnder over LittleForBig. They also have cute overalls, paci clips and other cute stuff.

     

    Definitely ask him about it first. Let him know you think they're cute. Maybe browse them together if he says he's cool with the idea. That could be fun for you to do together.

    Most littles wear them without diapers.

    And ODU has plain colour ones available too. Grey, blue, black etc. So those might feel slightly less childish for him but equally cute to look at for you.

     

    It's not pervy though. It's not much different to people liking men in uniform and that kinda thing. It's aesthetically attractive to you.



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    #7 SquishyDomme

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    Posted 29 November 2019 - 06:11 PM

    This is all really good advice!

    He's never said no when I sprang something babyish on him before but I feel like a whole onesie is much more committed to the kink. Imo

    I think I will sneakily ask him and see his reaction before I buy one, maybe ask him what color or style he'd prefer.

    Thank you, all! <3
    Feeling a little less perverted about it too lol
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    Posted 30 November 2019 - 04:28 AM

    Pervy and proud!







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