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    #1 Artemysterious

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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 01:25 AM

    There was something I was reading about a while ago where someone else was asking is there a type of person such as a littlesitter to like watch there littles in a completely SFW kind of way and take care of them and watch them while their caregiver was away.
    Something with set rules and clear boundaries stating that this person is not the littles mommy or daddy but just there temporarily.

    Someone who could either stay home with them or take them places with a clear spending budget and schedule.

    I really wanted to know is this something that is going on or just an unexplored concept.

    I feel like if there was a caregiver who had to be gone they would like to know someone could look after their little especially if they had to work overtime or their little needed to do something and they where busy like they had to go to work but their little needed to go shopping but still wanted to stay in little space it’s not fair to have to force them to be big.

    I am new to the community so I might just be spouting nonsense. I am also unsure if this was the right place to post this.

     

    I just feel like this concept would also be great for people who do not have CG’s at all and just want to be in little space while being around another person. Anyway I don’t know if this was a thing but I wanted to ask.


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    #2 Alaskan Daddy

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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 01:41 AM

    Hi and welcome,

    I have a been a caregiver to a few littles as a baby-sitter while their daddy was not available, so what you have described does happen, maybe just not completely in the way you described. The times I have done it has been long distance. I hope this points you in the direction you are looking. Good luck


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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 06:33 AM

    No knows if dis hewp, bu Ewwi fwatmate watch obew hew when she ittwe, cos Ewwi no gots daddy. She kinda ittwesittew fow Ewwi

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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 09:17 AM

    It's definitely a thing. I think I've even seen Binkie Princess on Youtube with a babysitter. I do think that there needs to be a definite ruleset slightly different from a CG/DD, as well as an agreed procedure on a babysitter disciplining a little, if it's needed. Hecken, I'd even like to have a littlesitter, but I wouldn't want them to be long distance.


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    #5 Artemysterious

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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 09:32 AM

    Hi and welcome,
    I have a been a caregiver to a few littles as a baby-sitter while their daddy was not available, so what you have described does happen, maybe just not completely in the way you described. The times I have done it has been long distance. I hope this points you in the direction you are looking. Good luck

    I wasn’t thinking of something long distance I was thinking something more hands on like doing crafts together while your in the same room with them and shopping with them, bringing them snacks helping them with there daily chores or activity chart. Something that a CG or single little can preset before the littlesitter comes over so the little can have a fun supervised day without having to focus on their big lives. Either staying at home or going out and about. Like shopping for little items and other things that make littles uncomfortable like something completely normal like going to an overcrowded cafe or something having a littlesitter there and knowing someone is there for them could be super helpful when they want to be little for a while.

    #6 Artemysterious

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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 09:35 AM

    No knows if dis hewp, bu Ewwi fwatmate watch obew hew when she ittwe, cos Ewwi no gots daddy. She kinda ittwesittew fow Ewwi

    I’m so glad you have someone to watch over you so you can be little being little on your own can be pretty hard and many littles have voiced that they can’t stay little or have problems staying litttle without a supervisor of course not all of them but a lot. You where very helpful thank you Elliana.

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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 09:44 AM

    It's definitely a thing. I think I've even seen Binkie Princess on Youtube with a babysitter. I do think that there needs to be a definite ruleset slightly different from a CG/DD, as well as an agreed procedure on a babysitter disciplining a little, if it's needed. Hecken, I'd even like to have a littlesitter, but I wouldn't want them to be long distance.

    Yeah I totally understand why having a LD littlesitter would be stressful. To me it would be pointless what if a little decided to bake a tray of cookies while being little like excuse you mister/missy across the ocean you aren’t my daddy/mommy I’m gonna do whatever the heckin’ I please and you can’t do nothing about it sept tattle on me. I feel like a little could easily be injured this way. Yes I know CG/L LDR are hard and anyone who’s been in a LDR will attest to that who want the added stress of a LD sitter how is it any different from the CG not being there. There are bratty Littles and more obedient ones just like kids so what is the LD sitter supposed to do half way across the world if a kid decided they are going to break all the plates in the house or hide all the couch cushions in the backyard or worse play hide and seek with no seeker.


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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 10:51 AM

    absolutely!

     

    i've been a sitter before, and i'd had a sitter before as well.

    there are actually a few topics on this subject as well. 

     

    https://www.ddlgforu.../?hl=babysitter

     

    https://www.ddlgforu...ter#entry183698

     

    there are also quite a few personal ads for babysitters. 


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    Posted 03 December 2019 - 08:23 PM

    That sounds very awesome.


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