LittleElvhen Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Hello, I'm a little who's been in the bdsm scene for two years but I've never had a dominant until now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I introduced him to DDlg about five months ago. He is a new Daddy Dom so he's still learning but so far, I'm having a really hard time going into little space. Part of it is because I think that I'm lacking the enthusiasm on his part. It's heartbreaking when I can't be as little as I want to be. How do i get him to be more excited about my little side? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrBonesWildRide Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Here are 5 links I found that have a variety of different ideas for little space and how to get into it or what to do with it. The one on the bottom I have seperated from the rest since it is definitely something to help with getting into little space and you could contribute with your own ideas. https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2435-little-space-triggers/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4291-getting-into-little-space/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4050-struggling-with-little-space/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3961-sub-drop-and-little-space/ https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4338-things-that-make-you-feel-little/ The general idea it seems is to embrace what makes you feel younger, childlike, and generally just carefree. The same way that many people may find themselves in a submissive mindset. If anyone else has any ideas, it would be awesome. I am just posting links to ideas others have had so far. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest XxRWBYxX Posted October 11, 2015 Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 i think bones explanation is right on point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleElvhen Posted October 11, 2015 Author Report Share Posted October 11, 2015 Thank you, these are a lot of good ideas (: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Posted October 12, 2015 Report Share Posted October 12, 2015 If things continue to be lackluster, the two of you may want to explore why he decided to become a Daddy Dom. Like what things/concepts got him excited about the idea in the first place... Then build off of that. People of any age usually enjoy kicking back with a movie and snacks. So, a huggy-cuddly play date with treats, cartoons, and pillow forts could be fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrbeardman Posted October 13, 2015 Report Share Posted October 13, 2015 Pillow and Blanket forts are a great idea. I recomened blanket fort movie night with a neat littleish dessert item you can make with your daddy like these http://www.thefunplace.com/recipes/00503.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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