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Help me explain what I want to my Daddy


LittleElvhen
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Hello, I'm a little who's been in the bdsm scene for two years but I've never had a dominant until now. My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I introduced him to DDlg about five months ago. He is a new Daddy Dom so he's still learning but so far, I'm having a really hard time going into little space. Part of it is because I think that I'm lacking the enthusiasm on his part. It's heartbreaking when I can't be as little as I want to be. How do i get him to be more excited about my little side?
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Here are 5 links I found that have a variety of different ideas for little space and how to get into it or what to do with it. The one on the bottom I have seperated from the rest since it is definitely something to help with getting into little space and you could contribute with your own ideas.

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2435-little-space-triggers/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4291-getting-into-little-space/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4050-struggling-with-little-space/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3961-sub-drop-and-little-space/

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4338-things-that-make-you-feel-little/

 

The general idea it seems is to embrace what makes you feel younger, childlike, and generally just carefree. The same way that many people may find themselves in a submissive mindset. If anyone else has any ideas, it would be awesome. I am just posting links to ideas others have had so far.

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If things continue to be lackluster, the two of you may want to explore why he decided to become a Daddy Dom. Like what things/concepts got him excited about the idea in the first place... Then build off of that. ^_^ People of any age usually enjoy kicking back with a movie and snacks. So, a huggy-cuddly play date with treats, cartoons, and pillow forts could be fun.

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