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I’m always scared that I’m too weird and not enough. I don’t feel like I can get into little space easily. It’s hard especially if I’m by myself.

I do love stuffies, my paci, coloring books. I’ve always wanted a Daddy who’s okay with cooking for me and giving me food on cute princess plates and I want sippy cups. I want to be able to wear cute dresses and do my hair and feel pretty. I honestly want my Daddy to be okay with me wearing diapees. It’s embarrassing but I do have issues with holding it sometimes, so I pee myself every once in a while but not often. I just like diapers because it makes me feel safer. But I want Daddy to tell me it’s okay if I do have an accident and even help me clean up or change me. But I only want daddy’s help if I pee or if it’s my big girl time of the month. No other stuff, that’s embarrassing.

I feel like I want too much. I feel like I’m not enough because I do like sex but I’ve had a lot of bad experiences so I just get scared about sex sometimes.

Not really sure I’ll ever find someone.

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There are definitely Caregivers who enjoy all of that and would be happy to fill that role, but I think it's important to remember it's also your responsibility to give and fulfill their needs that you can. So if you meet any Caregivers remember to let them know what you're able and willing to give and fulfill for them. Also it's helpful to be compromising and understand that maybe they can't meet 100% of what you want, so decide if you can compromise or if you really do need all of those things. The more you're willing to work with someone and meet them halfway the better luck you'll have.

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Vampiress is correct, there are caregivers who would absolutely and willingly meet your needs and not be weirded out.

 

When my babs revealed she wears diapers for her period I thought it was so cute (and kind of practical at the same time, lol). She then told me she wanted me to clean and change her, feed her and baby her, and I was just overwhelmed with how adorable that was. How much she trusted me to reveal that. Sure, there's going to be some internal embarrassment about these things. But with the right person, who genuinely cares about you, they will just see it as an opportunity to show you how much they truly care about you. There is no greater trust than between two people who share such an intimate and otherwise societally taboo thing. It's worth seeking, and for greater reasons than the activity itself.

 

If my babs decided she wanted to wear diapers for peeing, it would not weird me out one bit. I love seeing the most vulnerable parts of her mind accepted and engaged with in a positive way. We are out there I promise. I know it's hard to find someone like that. But just know they are out there and your search is not in vain, because when you find them, you'll be sharing something far, far more intimate than what most couples do. And it will feel amazing for both of you.

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Guest mrfahrenheit451

I'll chime in and add; Not weird at all. 

There are lots of companies that make adult diapers with cutesy patterns and designs for all sizes of littles.
There are whole subsections of littles who call themselves AB/DL that do just that.
Adult Baby, Diaper Lover, two separate but not mutually exclusive identifiers for some folk. 

Its not weird. The littles I've cared for have all mostly liked diapers and its not nearly as uncommon as you think. 

Might I suggest that when you are ready to look for a CG, put in your ad that you like it, and the ones who are okay with it, will still message you. 

 

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Diapers really aren't that big a deal. My Daddy isn't just ok with me wearing diapers He actually LOVES it and changes me into diapers every night at bedtime. As for wetting He actually keeps me in diapers in the morning until I wet then changes me out of them so I can shower. If you're honest about liking diapers you'll be happily surprised how many Caregivers love their littles in diapers.
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On 10/22/2021 at 12:17 PM, sunflowerxprincess said:

I’m always scared that I’m too weird and not enough. I don’t feel like I can get into little space easily. It’s hard especially if I’m by myself.

I do love stuffies, my paci, coloring books. I’ve always wanted a Daddy who’s okay with cooking for me and giving me food on cute princess plates and I want sippy cups. I want to be able to wear cute dresses and do my hair and feel pretty. I honestly want my Daddy to be okay with me wearing diapees. It’s embarrassing but I do have issues with holding it sometimes, so I pee myself every once in a while but not often. I just like diapers because it makes me feel safer. But I want Daddy to tell me it’s okay if I do have an accident and even help me clean up or change me. But I only want daddy’s help if I pee or if it’s my big girl time of the month. No other stuff, that’s embarrassing.

I feel like I want too much. I feel like I’m not enough because I do like sex but I’ve had a lot of bad experiences so I just get scared about sex sometimes.

Not really sure I’ll ever find someone.

I know this is a older post but I haven’t been  on here for quite a while, but trust me when I say this… your not along in how you feel and honestly our state has a pretty solid community of like minded daddies/littles etc that are ok with diapers and wetting etc ! My little is included in the diapers and wetting side 😂 feel free to vent if you need to ! 

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Guest DarkFantasy

Hey there! i read your post and know that daddies like us exist, i looooove cooking and i'm not very sexually demanding haha, keep looking, you aren't "too" weird, you can only be yourself and there is no wrong you

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