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Cattywumpuss

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Morning all and greetings from cloudy AK. I was just wondering if anybody is comfortable sharing and discussing what they ask their caregivers (including Daddy, Mommy, etc.) permission for?

I’m curious about any and all actions that you get permission for. So for example perhaps you ask permission before:

- Fixing yourself a sweet snack.

- Watching cartoons.

- Spending time online.

And so on and so forth.

Thanks in advance for any replies and hope y’all have a great day!

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While I’ve read or experienced rules,  I’ve not been in a relationship where someone asks me permission to do something.

Common rules, but always different per every relationship include:

Going to bed at a certain time to get proper rest

Take meds as prescribed , see docs, 

Eat properly

Get exercise

Limit online time-don’t get overstimulated 

Journal

Limit porn/masturbation 

 

The list is endless, and as mentioned, is different-tailored for every relationship and needs of a partner. 

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Hi there!!

 

I don't ask my daddy for permission on most things... But anytime I want to buy something when I'm little I feel like I need to ask permission (even when I'm technically using my money) but that's just me personally 

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17 hours ago, Cebakes said:

While I’ve read or experienced rules,  I’ve not been in a relationship where someone asks me permission to do something.

Common rules, but always different per every relationship include:

Going to bed at a certain time to get proper rest

Take meds as prescribed , see docs, 

Eat properly

Get exercise

Limit online time-don’t get overstimulated 

Journal

Limit porn/masturbation 

 

The list is endless, and as mentioned, is different-tailored for every relationship and needs of a partner. 

Thank you for your reply, it was interesting reading. ☺️ I’m always curious about how other folks tailor their relationship dynamics and love learning. Nd getting new ideas sometimes as well. 

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16 hours ago, Tashers said:

Hi there!!

 

I don't ask my daddy for permission on most things... But anytime I want to buy something when I'm little I feel like I need to ask permission (even when I'm technically using my money) but that's just me personally 

Evening! 😊 Thanks so much for the share, and the explanation about you feeling the need to ask permission when you are little. 

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i like asking for permission to buy stuff, cause i wanna make sure i'm not buying something silly lol. i also like making sure i'm allowed to wear the outfit i picked out and that it looks cute! stuff like that. i tend to ask for permission as things come up! if there's stuff daddy wants me to ask for, i'd be happy to do so too.

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20 minutes ago, splendabae said:

i like asking for permission to buy stuff, cause i wanna make sure i'm not buying something silly lol. i also like making sure i'm allowed to wear the outfit i picked out and that it looks cute! stuff like that. i tend to ask for permission as things come up! if there's stuff daddy wants me to ask for, i'd be happy to do so too.

Thank you for the response! Very informative. ☺️

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I'm a very independent little. When Mommy doesn't give me attention I just rawr at the chat room and eat lunchables and watch cartoons. So the idea of being denied something is kind of baffling to me. I occasionally get jokingly told I'm not allowed to sneeze or something, but that's just because I have a super funny silly Mommy you see.

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12 hours ago, CompwicatedPwincess said:

I'm a very independent little. When Mommy doesn't give me attention I just rawr at the chat room and eat lunchables and watch cartoons. So the idea of being denied something is kind of baffling to me. I occasionally get jokingly told I'm not allowed to sneeze or something, but that's just because I have a super funny silly Mommy you see.

I can see how it would be baffling to some, but fun and an element of little / middle space for others. ☺️ I love all the responses and variety in approaches.

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23 minutes ago, Kittyara207 said:

Hmmm permission?  Maybe if certain people can be accepted as a friend or agree to be followed.

That’s one area where I can see how asking permission may operate, yes. ☺️

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5 minutes ago, Josey Wales said:

Perhaps the Daddy wants to protect until he is certain the little one can stand by herself? 

I can see how that would be one function of asking for permission, yes. 🤔

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5 hours ago, Cattywumpuss said:

I can see how that would be one function of asking for permission, yes. 🤔

Truth !  To protect the bond which one worked so tirelessly to create ! Just protecting the little one ! 

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Personally I would never tell a partner who they can be friends with or allow followers.  I would trust them and be confident enough to let them chat with anyone they want.  Generally people who approach others who are clearly partnered and not sincere in looking for friends, aren’t the brightest, and are losers.  If my partner needed guidance on how to handle this type of person, I would advise them.  

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  • 3 weeks later...

Today I wanted to use my jacuzzi, but because of my fall the other day I had some concerns. I asked if I could and told him about my concerns. He said he thought it too dangerous and that I shouldn't. 

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  • 8 months later...

I never asked permission to do anything. I believe I am a grown-up, and I am responsible for my decisions and actions. So, if I want to smoke a cigarette, I smoke. If I want to have a beer, I do. If I want to watch erotic content on https://x3w.com, I am. And I do not have to ask permission for all this.

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Agreed, Mommy and I’s kink involvement doesn’t extend to….pretty much any real-life decision making on any scale. Sometimes when we’re roleplaying she’ll make me ask for things like snacks or to use the bathroom, but that’s much more about humiliation in a kink-scene context than about permissions generally.

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Our rules in place indicate I ask for permission for ‘special alone time’ and if I need to change agreed upon outfits he chooses for me for example if he chooses a certain type of clothing and it’s raining and I need to switch it 🐼

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