My thoughts about wanting to be a daddy / caregiver

[ABlackKinkster]

Although I am not currently looking for a little, I wanted to honestly vent about desiring to be a daddy / caregiver

I have always seen myself as a ‘daddy’ or ‘caregiver’ material. Personality-wise, I have always volunteered my time to the causes of others.

However, I do acknowledge that I may not be deserving of the title until I earn it from a little. 

Weeks ago, I made a post asking questions on how the daddies / mommies / caregivers in the sub approach their roles. I have learned a lot since but my self-reflective journey continues in fully understanding the simplicity and complexity of being a daddy and what that entails physically, emotionally, psychologically, mentally.

If I am ever granted the role of being a daddy or caregiver, I will not only cherish it as a sign of humbling pride, but to selflessly ensure that I keep it. Loyally and faithfully, I will make my little exceptionally happy, comfort them in the darkest moments and cherish them in their happiest ones.  I will text them good morning and kiss them good night. I will adore them with hugs and embrace them cuddles. I’ll support them in person and hold the in spirit. Finally, I’ll unreservedly accept them for who they are, faults and all. 

If you are out there, oh little one, this is solemn promise to you.

[MissNMTX]

What a lovely post.

[Josey Wales]

I’ve always been of the mindset that a man has Daddy qualities from the very beginning , perhaps discovering the dynamic later in life but the qualities always being there. I think wanting to be a good Daddy is half the battle , you should approach it with confidence and an open mind to learn and experience. Littles can overwhelm, just watch out for the little munchkins to not hijack your posts, especially if you see them wearing ninja masks and suits 

Edited November 19, 2023 by Josey Wales

[Kittyara207]

Hey, it was just the one post.  You should have seen it coming.  But yeah there might have been a better place.  But your post got lots of views and ummmm lots of attention...but it wasn't right we are sorry.  

As for the poster here as gigi has pointed out never let one person or even just a few have too much control over whether you are good.  Time is a great teacher I have said that many times it tastes horrible but it's true.

And as says Josey open minds is a good way to approach anything.  Things can change so quickly in life.   Confidence is important helps others feel more relaxed and helps you relax as well.  Being fully honest about what you are and your experience is important.   Some Littles don't always know exactly what they need or want and some have only read fairytale books on the dynamic and are not willing to accept not perfect.  Lots of amazing advice and I added nothing new.  Oh well.

Next time you won't see it coming we have invisibility suits...you won't know what hit ya.

[Josey Wales]

I didn’t read that last sentence 🧐

[beanbean]

As many people even tho you can learn from others the best place you can search you heart and mind and learn about what kind of daddy you are always keep an open mind about what others say but also trust your feelings 

[ABlackKinkster]

Hi everyone, 

I appreciate all of the comments and constructive feedback on my post. Every day is a new opportunity to absorb new knowledge and learn from others on these types of perspectives. While it is simple to envision such a fantasy, it is more realistic to incorporate them with the realities of others. Communication is key.