Thoughts about brats.

[Hunnybabygirl]

The breaking the rules part of being a brat. We dont go out of our way to break them that's simply disrespectful but I love finding loopols , not out of disrespect but cause it makes my daddy dom laugh and it's all playful. I'm bratty with the aim to make it fun and him laugh or to get a smile out of him.

 

I went too far once because he didnt have experience with brats, but after a night too cool down we had a talk about it and he drew a line which I fully respect and since he loves my playful brattyness even if it's something new to him and he isnt use to handling. But i dont ever try to make him disrespect or uncomfortable

[Shy baby]

so like PERSONALLY i love being a brat, but i'm not trying to upset the caregiver. (currently no one has this spot) I am a smartass by nature, everyone in my family is, I talk back, I even talk shit but NEVER about da daddy. my main aim is to please, so as soon as i realize it's bothering them and making them upset i resort back to sweet babygirl. when i put someone in the place of daddy, that means they are what my world revolves around. i'm masochistic and sadistic. but when i'm bratty it's purely to bring out some aggression (having my hair pulled or being choked while being told to behave is just a turn on. i'm sorry if you don't agree but it is what it is.) I'm only brattyy when i'm sexually frustrated, or when i don't get something i want. but i get over it. I hate how people just ASSUME we're trying to make life more stressful. 9/10 times we just want your attention. 

[Shy baby]

i think usually I am bratty either because I am hurt or because I feel great which makes me feel spirited. I think brattiness in me is more of an 8/9 year-old thing, and if I can be coaxed into a littler mind, it evaporates for a while. But just like there are daddies out there who don't want brats, I wouldn't want a daddy who couldn't appreciate it at least be mildly amused by my brat side.

 

I don't think it's spoken about much here because this site is really focused on a different dynamic but not all littles are submissive and so I think that plays a role too. I read a pretty interesting blog post recently by a dominant little who was tired as being interpreted as bratty.

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[SmolAetherr]

my little i dont think i could describer her as bratty, she has a mouth on her but rarely chooses to use it

she worries often that she is too easy like she is supposed to have a little bite, personally i dont mind bratty or not bratty

 

not bratty gives of the feeling of an innocent "good girl" little somethig i've found to be extremely endearing and cute and attractive but on the other hand a brat can and does often surprise you with what they say and how they get around your rules as a dom

 

i like both but right now i prefer my innocent little, she is my good girl, the best girl and she loves to hear that as many times as i can bear to tell her in a single day

Edited October 23, 2019 by Aetherr

[Kosmosis Jones]

Brats are the absolute best. I will reiterate what others have said though. Someone that is spiteful, hostile, and flat out disrespectful is not a brat and they are giving brats a bad name. Those people are assholes. Fuck them. Now back to brats and all their wonderfulness.

 

I adore brats cause it's a challenge. I love the witty banter, the smartass comments, getting caught off guard by a well placed quip, the attitude that just screams "Put me in my place and show me you are in charge". I love the fierce independence they have while at the same time relying on their CG to keep them safe and in line. 

 

I like to consider myself a Brat Trainer, not Tamer. Cause I don't want to tame a Brat. I want them to be bratty so I can put them in their place, be it over my knee or in a big hug. I do however like giving them advice on how to be playfully bratty. I have been described by more than one little as a Bratty Daddy, and I love the title. One of my big things in life in general is my words. I say what I mean and I try my hardest to word things exactly how I want them,this is especially true when giving commands to a sub cause I am a Lord of Loopholes. One of my favorite lessons to give brats is one on getting drinks. If given a vague "Make me a drink." Go and make the drink, but leave it where you made it. Come back empty handed, happily exclaim you did it, and wait to be asked where it is. Then tell them it's still in the kitchen cause they never asked you to BRING it to them. Just make it. Or if asked for a cup of something. Measure out a cup and bring them exactly one cup of drink. Then you can say you did exactly what you were told. You can even bring it in the measuring cup to prove you have done as you are told. Ask for a glass of water. Bring it back hot. They never said cold water. Playful things like that. Make your Dom think about what they are saying, make them work for your submission, and have fun. But also read the mood. If it's been a long or hard day for your Dom, cut them a break, help them relax so you can both enjoy the teasing fun of being a brat.

[Brattitude]

Well, I suppose my username really says it all. I agree with the general consensus that there is a VERY big difference with being a brat (little and just being mean, selfish, catty, vindictive and hurtful, and pushing people away with very distasteful behavior, attitudes and actions, and a Brat (big who likes to test limits and boundaries in a teasing, playful and spunky fashion but will NEVER directly or intentionally disobey, disrespect or damage the DDlg bond with their Daddy/Mister/Master/Sir/etc. I consider myself a little Brat and enjoy testing my Daddy’s limits, but am always quick to ensure that I have not overstepped my bounds and am receptive to punishments and consequences for my bratty behavior. To me, that is what being a good little Brat is all about. I hope this helps to answer some questions about little Brats.

[LittlePupRune]

I am of the mind that brattiness, as any other role, should be negotiated. Personally I'm ok with a bit of sass as long as the little is still obedient, but am not interested in someone who calls themselves a brat or wants that dynamic. My ex little was a brat and tended to use that as an excuse to be a straight up asshole or abusive, so I know I don't have the energy or desire to put up with anything remotely similar. I like obedience in most dynamics except primal scenes. I know some people enjoy a push and pull, however its all negotiated beforehand to know what boundaries are solid and which can be played with.

[Guest Minister Judas]

She's Brat, she's Baby. I accept and love both sides of her. I wouldn't give up any experience with her, no matter how vexing it may seem to be when she acts out. I'm Daddy. I am made of patience, care, and control. She is who she is, and that person is who I love in every aspect.

[Guest Daddy Judas]

Yeah, what I said in my last comment before i trashed the account like a rental^

[Daddy4Princess]

Some bratty behavior is one thing, but I don't have patience for someone who is contrary all the time, just to be contrary.  

 

There are Daddies and caregivers out there who specialize in dealing with big time brats.  They call themselves "brat tamers".  I'm not a brat tamer.  I have a firm hand but I much prefer to dote on a little and have cute cuddly time instead of bringing her to heel constantly.  That doesn't feel like a relationship.  It feels like a long term fight.

 

But I like cheekiness.  There is a cuteness to some contrarian behavior.

Edited June 20, 2020 by Daddy4Princess

[Kitten&Spice]

I myself am a brat but I honestly wouldn’t like to be involved with what you described as a brat. I think that it all depends on what kind of brat you are ok with dealing with.

 

For me personally I play and get “cheeky” as a way of teasing and messing around. I don’t say anything harsh and for the most part I listen. But when I know we are both in a good mood I try my best to pick things up with the “no” and “you aren’t my dad” responses. I in a sense do it as a way of messing around. I do quit often with even family members to get a laugh and to have fun.

 

However I don’t need to be put in my place often. I think of it like being a puppy. They don’t listen and they play around but they love more then anything! I play and bark back but I don’t like to make things hard. And I think that if a brat is not keeping things balanced and always running away then I don’t blame a dominant if they move on or find that behavior intolerable.

 

I am not sure if this helps any but that is just my take and understanding on it! I hope you didn’t mind!

[Wolfie.5]

Brats I don’t mind, it can be fun to have to out loop their loopholes. But there’s a difference in being a brat in a playful way and being a brat to be disrespectful.

[Little_princess..]

From a brat's point of view~

 

I see many people here divide brats into two categories, but I don't think that's accurate - there are as many "brat types" as there are brats.

The stereotypical "nightmare", foot stomping, needy, spoiled princess could be some daddy's perfect little one.

Being manipulative and genuinely hurtful however doesn't equal a brat, that's just an abusive person.

 

As long as I've been part of the community, I've identified as a brat. I'm not apologetic about it and I make it known.

My bratty behaviour is heavily linked to masochism. I don't get my kicks out of being praised, I'm there for the punishment.

I enjoy questioning my caregiver's authority to keep them on their toes. I don't like to submit, I like to be forced into submission.

 

Like with all types of relationships, compatibility is important. For instance, I would be best matched with a brat tamer, a sadistic daddy.

We would both benefit from each other's personality traits - my cheeky attitude and mischief wouldn't be an issue cause my partner gets

his thrill from punishing me for it, while as I happily deal with the consequence to my behaviour. 

 

Some additional things I'd like to point out:

• Nothing I do is done with actual ill intent.

I don't actually hurt or insult my caregiver when I act up.

• There are general rules and then there are serious boundaries.

Breaking a rule could be staying up past bedtime, for example, which I will be punished for in some form - that sort of rules I might break. 

Crossing a boundary however would be something that I know is inexcusable and I would never do it. 

• I'm not always bratty. 

​There'll be moments of surprises when I actually do what I'm told and it can feel like an achievement for the caregiver.

I feel this i am exactly the same

[Guest mariposa]

From a brat's point of view, for me it's mostly two reasons. When im a brat, it's either because I want a bit more attention or I just have a burst of energy that I don't know what to do with. As much as I love being a brat, I never mean nor do I have the intent of it coming across as mean or malicious. I think there's different lines between being bratty, being outright mean, and being playful by nature. Sometimes I'm just bratty because I want to be put back in my place. It really all depends on the mood, but being a brat is quite the fun adventure for a submissive :x 

[Frost Evergarden]

brats are the best

[junebug0325]

Princess Katie (DaddyJsPrincess) can be QUITE bratty at times...lol

 

But, from my experience...the "brattiness" is their way of telling you that they want...or, more accurately, NEED..more attention. It is their little way of saying: "Hey Daddy, pay attention to me!". It's not really so much that they want to be reprimanded, just that they want your attention and if it is at the hands of a spanking or whatever...so be it.  (Being an actual father of three children, I have learned this quite well).

 

Littles...as with any child...needs structure, rules and LOTS of attention...if they aren't getting them, they will act out. It's just the way it works...lol.  So, if you aren't sure what they are trying to get your attention for...simply ask them.

 

Yesss! From a lot of these previous comments, I can see now why brats get a bad rap. Sure, are there people that are very high maintenance? Yes. But that doesn't mean that brats are bad or that they aren't eager to please. Usually it just means that they want attention (whether that be cuddles or funishments).

 

From my experience as a submissive/little/brat, I'm not purposefully trying to annoy my Daddy. It's a way my little self can show Daddy that I need more attention, because when you're in a toddler headspace, words can be hard. It's not unusual for me to be bratty in the morning or right before bedtime because I'm exhausted and cranky. It also happens a lot when I'm hungry, too. However, I am still a good girl and I'm still eager to please my Daddy at all times. Even when I'm being bratty because I'm tired and/or hungry, I am always wanting to please him. I am still a submissive and I'm still a little and that doesn't change even when I'm being bratty.

 

Obviously, everyone is different but I thought I should just put my two cents here. I hope this helps!

 

 

 

 

Junebug x

[Guest Daddy Judas]

I honestly enjoy snooty arogance, In enjoy almost everything

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