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Hi everyone! So I just told my hubby about my little side and he is totally supportive and wants to learn more. Pleeease give him any advice you can.

 

Here’s a message from him::::


Hello all,

I would like to learn how to become a Daddy-dom, and learn more about this lifestyle and/or fantasy (I know that it could be either, depending on the person). I would appreciate if someone could perhaps point me to some reading material.

Thank you!

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First off, congrats mv1205, you have a man who cares enough to try.  ;)  Lucky you!

 

This is a very broad question so I would recommend a daily routine of spending 30 minutes searching, reading, and discussing it. It can take awhile to become a good Daddy Dom, even if you innately all ready have many of the characteristics. Especially when you add in that there are so many forms a DD/lg relationship can take.

 

The big key is the concept of being a caregiver. The Daddy Dom is in control, but for a purpose. That purpose is the social, mental and physical care of your Little.

 

There are a ton of discussions on this site that tackle this issue very well and show many different opinions on the subject. Look under Caregiver Cafe.

 

This is also a decent summary article on the subject:

http://adultlittlegirl.com/what-is-a-daddy-dom/

 

Good luck and if you have any question, join the site, and start a thread asking your questions, or send me a friend request.

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First off, congrats mv1205, you have a man who cares enough to try.  ;)  Lucky you!

 

This is a very broad question so I would recommend a daily routine of spending 30 minutes searching, reading, and discussing it. It can take awhile to become a good Daddy Dom, even if you innately all ready have many of the characteristics. Especially when you add in that there are so many forms a DD/lg relationship can take.

 

The big key is the concept of being a caregiver. The Daddy Dom is in control, but for a purpose. That purpose is the social, mental and physical care of your Little.

 

There are a ton of discussions on this site that tackle this issue very well and show many different opinions on the subject. Look under Caregiver Cafe.

 

This is also a decent summary article on the subject:

http://adultlittlegirl.com/what-is-a-daddy-dom/

 

Good luck and if you have any question, join the site, and start a thread asking your questions, or send me a friend request.

 

I can agree to this, would he mind making an own account, i would love to talk to him personally. I think it works best to find someone with the same interest, researching does get you far, but talking with people gets you further. So that is all i'm suggesting for now, just talk to people, and this btw, is a great place to do so.

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Hi;

 

Being a Daddy Dom for about 3 years and now having a new Little to care for, i approach it the same way i would look after a 'real' litttle girl this age (not in a biological daddy/daughter sense though)

 

I care for her, guide her, teach her, dicipline her when needed, and of course, nurture her Little Side as much as I can by providing the things she might need. For my little, its lot of cuddles watching cartoons, coloring with her, or getting her new coloring books. Bathing her and washing her hair, then brushing it when shes done. Basically, treat her as the little girl she is! Not all littles are the same of course, and each ones needs are of course different. This is something you will have to learn with your little as you go. Go slow, COMMUNICATE everything! And best of all, ENJOY her Little self! 

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I have to agree, You do need to do some research on your own. This site has many great topics as well as a bunch of resources in a few of the PINNED topics. 

I would also have to agree, if he wants to create his own profile on here, it helps to have other Daddies to talk to and ask questions.

 

There will be a long trail and error phase in the relationship as both of you Start down the journey of a DD/lg relationship. Go Slow, Over COMMUNICATE, It will seem like you talk a lot, but make sure you talk a lot, especially when you are trying something. 

 

Be very Supportive and do not down her little side, and enjoy it all you can.

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