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Introducing DD/lg To Someone New


PeachyPantsu
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Okay so this is going to be weird posting something sort of personal.. Anyways. So I've recently gotten into a relationship with someone and although he's not a totally vanilla person, I'm not sure if he's into the DD/lg lifestyle. It's definitely sort of a kink of his, but it's nothing more than that. I kind of need help on how to talk to him about it to see if maybe he'd like it? I won't be upset if he doesn't and I'll survive without it because I can respect what he likes and stuff. But I'm just nervous and unsure on how to even bring it up. It's unusual to just say "Hey could we act more like Daddy and Little?" because I don't think he fully understands what that means besides calling him Daddy and letting him tell me what to do in bed. (sorry if that got graphic) If you guys have any suggestions on how to bring up this topic with him and talk about it, please post them.  :heart:

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First be very clear about what being little means to you. Your desires and turnoffs. Understand your hard limit (physicality, pain, degradation, humiliation and any other BDSM sub archetype).

 

After you understand what you need, show him some site or materials that demonstrate the various traits of the roles you want. Tell him that the content there seems fun and you would like to explore it. See what happens then.

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  • 4 weeks later...

Update: He told me it was weird and dumped me. So... yep. -_-

Be strong. You'll find your pleasure some day.

 

At least you found out early and didn't invest too much time.

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He didn't deserve you. He probably thought it was just daddy kink and didn't think enough to ask more about it or look into it. It's his loss.
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It's alright I suppose. I'm not super upset about it. There were lots of things going wrong in our relationship.

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