I'm a little who's ex daddy shattered her heart

[lil.jester]

Hello,

Has any other littles have a daddy shatter your heart twice... I let him in twice. I loved him so much and he broke me. I got sick of doing things I use to love to do when I was with him. And I just was wondering if any others have been like this. I am honestly ready to move forward. So I'm keeping my head up.

Thank ya

-Dakota

[Guest Purple_Panda]

Yeap, he abused me and did unimaginable things to me... everyone thought he was this nice guy, but behind closed doors...he even lied about having a mental illness. how it ended?  he cheated on me and told me over facebook on Christmas day lol, but that was the least hurtful thing he did to me.. he was a poor excuse for a daddy dom though no wait a person.

 

Things get better mind, I've never been more comfortable with myself i've had so many amazing things happen to me i got a job/ lost 5 stone/ i have a social life now and thats just a few examples.

 

Keep your head up honey, it might not seem like it but time is an amazing healer, as you grow you will learn to be hurt less about it.

 

Keep smiling too because you never know when your knight in shinning armor has decided that his armor is shiny enough and comes looking for you lol <3 <3 <3 

[Guest Purple_Panda]

And true daddys don't shatter hearts, they treat them like the worlds most priceless treasure <3

[lil.jester]

And true daddys don't shatter hearts, they treat them like the worlds most priceless treasure <3

Thank you. Yeah he broke up with me twice the first time tried to convince me he had never loved me... Edited May 27, 2016 by lil.jester

[LoralieHaze]

While I wouldn't say that my heart was shattered, it was definitely hurt multiple times by my last daddy. He would call me silly when I would get emotional, constantly talk about his wife, ignore my needs/requests, etc etc. What was most painful was when he asked about something that I didn't ever want to talk about and then he abandoned our conversation for about a half hour after I answered him. That devastated me but I foolishly forgave him and continued with the relationship. The final straw was when I woke up to an email one morning that said he didn't want to be my daddy anymore because things were too intense and he would rather just be flirtatious friends with me. I broke off all contact then and there.

 

Please do keep your head up. This guy obviously wasn't the right daddy for you and it's better that you know this now instead of letting him hurt you a third time. As for the healing process, let yourself grieve. Cry, and mope, and listen to all the sad music that you want. If you skip this part and move on right away, your sadness may pop unexpectedly down the road. Once the last tear has dried, remind yourself that just having or not having a daddy doesn't make you more or less of a little. It was a huge help for me to know that I had been a little for a long time before I met the guy that hurt me and that I was going to continue to be a little whether or not he was in my life. Don't stop doing the things that you enjoy. Don't stop being who you want to be.

[A&Ω]

It's sad to see how cruel some people can be. Use it as a learning experience and build bigger and better from there.

 

Men who don't understand the delicate nature of these relationships should do some research.

 

Maybe interview the next daddy you are interested in. Ask for his definition of what a daddy role is and some real world examples.Keep pushing. Keep using the words "that's an interesting perspective. Can you share more with me?" Pretty soon you'll be able to tell the real stuff from the fluff.

Edited May 27, 2016 by A&Ω

[DDevilRuSS]

It's sad to see how cruel some people can be. Use it as a learning experience and build bigger and better from there.

Men who don't understand the delicate nature of these relationships should do some research.

Maybe interview the next daddy you are interested in. Ask for his definition of what a daddy role is and some real world examples.Keep pushing. Keep using the words "that's an interesting perspective. Can you share more with me?" Pretty soon you'll be able to tell the real stuff from the fluff.

^ This! So much this! Learn from your past experiences, do not cast them aside with nothing gathing from such. Learn from those experiences as well as all this community holds, plus the knowledge within.

 

Interview the next Daddy. Don't jump into a relationship despite the yearning desire to be in one. Take the time to lay the fundamental building blocks of a strong relationship. This goes for all you, Littles, as well as can be applied to Bigs. It is unfortunate that such a lifestyle which houses a lot of amazing people can be filled with so much hurt. Do not give up hope. Stay strong. No matter how little you are, you have the power and right to choose.

[Guest AelaPiggy♥]

Hello,

Has any other littles have a daddy shatter your heart twice... I let him in twice. I loved him so much and he broke me. I got sick of doing things I use to love to do when I was with him. And I just was wondering if any others have been like this. I am honestly ready to move forward. So I'm keeping my head up.

Thank ya

-Dakota

My previous Daddy kinda abandoned me.. So I kinda relate. Things will get better, as some people say. Hang in there.

[Guest little_bunny]

yes, I can relate to that - especially not wanting to do things anymore that you once enjoyed but now can only connect with him. but as time goes by I realized some things are just part of who I am; and learned to accept and enjoy them again. and hopefully, one day there will be someone cherishing you and actually deserving your trust and love. somebody that is not able to do so has no right to call themselve a daddy.... it took me way too long to learn this.

[Guest Lullaby Moon]

My last daddy cut me off, left me for his ex, and just...didn't love me I guess..