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Hello, I’m a little who got ghosted recently and who is trying to heal :)) To avoid this happening to me again i have a two questions for the daddies/ caregivers here and thought i can ask them here : -What are some red flags i should be aware of in daddy doms? -How can i find an actual daddy dom outside of the internet ? Is there signs? ( I’m scared of liking someone new but them being disgusted when they find out about my little space, and i can’t be in a relationship where my little space is ignored) Thank you ☺️

Could you guys post your fav youtubers who talk about DDlg? And that dynamic, life style, ect?

Hello, I’m new here, it’s my first time using a forum, i hope i do it right:) Before starting this text, i wanna mention i have BPD and a lot of childhood trauma which will probably explain all the big feelings in this post ( also TW’s). I’ve pretty much always involuntary regressed but i only found out it’s an actual coping mechanism a few years ago. I only had two DDLG relationships experiences in my life, both online. The first one was extremely traumatic and was with a fake dom, i didn’t know anything about those relationships and fell into his trap, he ruined me and i refused to age regress or do anything related to DDLG for +1 year. Until i met a new dom, we have been talking for a few months and he’s been the absolute best, he’s been very kind and caring and we had the perfect relationship, I’m not gonna say a lot about him or I’ll just cry even more. We only had one problem, communication, we texted only when he wanted to, sometimes if he didn’t start the conversation i had no way of contacting him, i kindly asked him to have a conversation about that and it ended up with him refusing to resolve the problem and me having a panic attack. After that he completely ghosted me, and saying I’ve been fine would be a total lie. It’s been two weeks and I’m barely taking care of myself, I’m completely empty inside and started not going to work lately, i can’t sleep at night, i keep throwing up and crying and reading our old texts. During the day i take long naps to avoid having to live, i don’t even need them i just have no strength to live anymore. I told him everything about my mental illness and my trauma and he was so understanding and lovely, i never thought he could do something like this. I trust one person after years of not doing so and this is my reward, what always happened to me during my whole life. I feel completely broken inside and have no will to live anymore. I’ve hidden all my age regression related stuff and I’ve been rotting in my bed for i don’t know how long, i can’t even eat anymore and my whole body feels numb while my mind is screaming horrible horrible thoughts. I honestly don’t know why I’m writing this, i never did this before but if anyone knows how to help, what to do get better, please tell me cause i feel like my life is completely over right now. Everything is falling apart. Thank you for anyone who’ve read all this and I’m sorry for all the negativity in this post, i don’t know how to deal with this by myself anymore, I’m sorry.

My first original work! I hope you like it! I'd love to hear from you and what you thought of this piece! Trigger warnings: somnophilia, hints of ageplay i.e. using the honorific "Daddy". He unlocked the front door, stepping inside and leaning against it with a huff as it closes. It's been a long day and it's well after dark, now. Work ran well over what it should have, and he hadn't even eaten dinner yet. To make matters worse, he was sure his little girl was frustrated with him for being late, as she'd stopped responding to his texts about an hour ago. He knew she was upset and he hated disappointing her. He reassured her that there was nowhere he'd rather be than home with her, but sometimes Daddies have much too much work to do, and don't end up getting home on time. Kicking off his boots near the door, he could hear the TV on in the living room and headed toward the sound. As he peeked around the entryway, there she was. He felt his heart skip as his eyes moved over her slumped form. She was wearing a pair of pajama shorts and a casual tee of his, one of her legs hanging off the edge of the couch as she's sprawled along it. Her eyes were closed and her lips were parted slightly with the deep breaths of slumber. On top of her tummy was her phone, facing downward. The corners of his lips turned upward into a warm smile. His babygirl. She'd fallen asleep between texts to him. Being careful as to not make too much noise, he slowly made his way over to her, picking up her cell phone and setting it on the coffee table beside them. "My baby." He whispered as he crouched down in front of the couch, his arms slipping underneath her knees and neck. He cradled her against his chest, making his way toward their bedroom to lay her down. She stirred only slightly, a soft moan and she was right back out while he pulled the covers over her hips. He leaned down and kissed one of her rosy cheeks, then the other, then her freckled forehead. Slipping out of his work clothes aside from his boxer briefs, he pulled another one of his tees over his head and cautiously climbed into bed beside her. Sighing heavily as he sinks into the mattress, his eyes find her again. He studies her every movement: the way her lip twitches, the way her eyelids flutter, the way her toes wiggle. After missing her for so long throughout the day, he finally felt home; not when he walked in the door, but now, as he lays beside her. He hated being away from her. She keeps him sane while driving him wild. As happy as he was to be reunited with his love again, he couldn't help but want more. He missed all of her: her laugh, her voice, her moans...His hand began to creep toward her on the bed as he adjusted himself to be on his side, leaning on his elbow with his body facing her. His callused fingers made contact with her soft skin as he slipped his hand underneath the hem of her shirt. Her skin was hot to the touch, her stomach rising and falling with deep breaths. She sniffed in her sleep, then her head turned to the side. His eyes burned into her. He trailed his fingertips around her navel in circles, feeling her muscles just beneath the skin occasionally contract. His breathing was starting to pick up, his palm sliding up her sternum. He splayed out his fingers in the center of her chest, then firmly rubbed a large circle against her skin. His palms brushed over her nipples and he would swear he heard her sigh in her sleep. He was hungry for her, all of her. He needed more. His hand proceeded downward, now. He paused as his fingertips met the hem of her pajama shorts. Does he dare? The hesitation was short-lived, and his fingers disappeared underneath the fabric. He bit his lip to stifle a groan, his hand forming a cup over her entire sex, only the thin fabric of her panties between them. He felt her heat, starting to move his hand forward and back, his unblinking eyes locked on her face. She let out the softest moan, he wasn't even sure he'd heard it or not. Is she waking? Should I stop? He couldn't stop now. He leaned closer to her, his lips brushing the corner of her mouth, and then lower, starting to gently suck at the side of her throat. His fingers moved back, getting hold of her inner thigh and pulling it toward him to urge her legs apart, and then he plunged his fingers inside her underwear. His middle finger moved between her slit, stroking its entirety up and down one time, feeling how wet his girl was for him, even in her sleep. He couldn't stifle his growl against her neck, but lifted his head to watch her face as his middle fingertip started to gentle circle against her clit. He noticed a slight furrow between her eyebrows, and her next inhale was more sudden. Biting his lip, he started to smile, dipping his middle finger a bit to coat himself with her arousal, bringing the finger back to her clit and starting to circle her little bud even faster. Her own fingers twitched, her nipples poking against the fabric of her tee. Her leg kicked slightly. Did she just spread her legs even further for me? A low groan in his throat and his hand was out of her panties. He quickly moved down the bed, hooking his fingers into the waistband of her shorts and panties, pulling them down her pale legs simultaneously. With urgency, he was between her legs, his firm hands gripping the tops of her thighs as he wrapped his arms around them. His tongue laps at her slit, causing her to shudder, and then his tongue finds her little clit, lightly flicking against it. A quiet, but undeniable moan escapes her parted lips, and it only makes him more determined to continue. "Mmph..." She whimpers as she starts to wake to his tongue, her hands sliding down the bed and finding his atop her thighs. He squeezes her thighs in his hands, keeping her right where he wants her as his tongue moves unrelentingly around her clit. Her head tilts back with a gasp of pleasure. She's not sure if she's having the best dream of her life or if this is really happening, but she doesn't care...as long as he doesn't stop. "Daddy..." She breathes, eliciting a growl from between her legs. Her toes curl at the sound, and she captures her plump bottom lip between her teeth. He suddenly moves his hands to the underside of her thighs, effectively folding her knees to her chest and flicking his tongue against her clit, making her jump. Her toes are curled tightly in the air and one of her hands fly to her mouth, stifling a squeal. He knows her body like no one ever has. She was his. His babygirl, his love, his toy. As his tongue danced circles around her clit, her thighs tensed in his grasp. His nails started to bite into her skin as he held her with force, his tongue refusing to relent. She moaned loudly into her palm, the other hand wrenching at the bedsheets. Mere moments later, her back was arching with a cry of release, her knuckles white with the sheets between each of her fingers. He continued for a few seconds after she orgasmed, knowing how sensitive she gets. She squealed and tried to clamp her thighs together, but with his stern grip on her, she wasn't wriggling away so easily. "Daddy, please!" She whimpered, her face a new shade of red as she gasped for her breath to return. Her poor clit was twitching from the intensity of the orgasm, but his tongue continued its assault. When her feet started to kick in the air and her hands frantically grabbed at his arms, he released her with a sinister grin, licking his lips. With her half-asleep orgasm having left her feeling like Jell-O, he moved up her body, replacing the kisses he'd left on her face earlier with new ones. "Daddy..." She murmured in exhaustion, blindly reaching for him. "I'm here, babygirl." He assured her, pulling the duvet over the both of them and pulling her against his waiting chest. He could feel her head slump against him between heartbeats, her nose burrowed in the crook of his neck. He lightly scratched her scalp with one hand, her messy curls wrapping around his fingers. He sighed contentedly, blinking slowly before his eyes fall closed and he falls asleep, at peace knowing that his world is safe in his arms.

Hi anyone reading, I specifically joined the ddlgforum to ask for advice from people the most likely to have the best insider knowledge, and best equipped to answer honestly whilst being well informed. The issue I'm facing is I'm in a several year long relationship with a man I love dearly however he's not all too interested in ddlg (a massively important part of my life) however, in every other way we get on great and are on the same page. He knows about my little self and is even 'into' ddlg and being a Daddy except he never initiates anything or entertains my regressed self when I do manage to get into my headspace without any external help. I personally have tried to teach him and communicate my needs but he always assures me he understands and will do better but then nothing changes. I love him but I feel like I'm neglecting a huge part of myself and that it's become a seriously unmet need that's demanding I make some sort of change. Does anybody have some suggestions or advice regarding what they think I should do? I appreciate the time you've taken to read this and any replies you have!

Hiiii(⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤ෆ⁠╹⁠ ⁠.̮⁠ ⁠╹⁠ෆ What is youw favewit fing to heaw when joo in widdewspace? I love hearing praise, and hearing my daddy being super sewious on the phone and I love love love hearing my daddy when he weawizes I did sumfing bad(awtho it can be a widdew scawwy sumtimesh) and I wuv heawing daddy showing how much he cawes about me. But hmmmm I fink my favourite thing to hear him say would beeee "Does princess want nuggies?" What's your favewit thing to hear your caregiver say?❤️(⁠ ⁠╹⁠▽⁠╹⁠ ⁠)

wondering about having a strict cg (specifically daddy)…. personally the idea of having a ton of rules and a very strict cg sounds very stressful (tho that could be trauma-related), but i’m also curious. other littles, what appeals to you about stricter cgs? and also cgs, have you been with littes who want you to be stricter?? probably a question that’s been asked before but still, just curious

My S/o and I have PTSD related to child abuse and we both refuse to call him Daddy. So far, I've nicknamed him Boss or Lifeboss. But trying to find something that fits us Does anyone else use something other than Daddy? Xx Thanks in advance xxxxxx EDIT: As of May of 2018 -- we are starting to come to like the Daddy term

Hello, I'm Arti, i'm a little, I'm 21 years old and I'm new here and in general in the Ddlg/Mdlg although I've been in Cgl for years. I am looking to learn and meet people, make friends and maybe find a Cg or Mommy/Daddy who knows Hola, soy Arti, soy una little, tengo 21 años. Soy nueva aquí y en el Ddlg/Mdlg en general, pero he estado unos años ya en Cgl. Busco aprender y conocer gente hacer amigos y tal vez encontrar una Mommy/Daddy o Cg quie sabe.

My daddy went away to the big house and I'm feeling really small but I'm all alone and I don't really know how to process. It's taking a lot to post this. Is there a CG willing to help me figure out what this feeling is. I never really felt it before cuz he was always here and now he's not and I need some helps. I'll take any advice. From another little or CG. Pretty please?

I’m always scared that I’m too weird and not enough. I don’t feel like I can get into little space easily. It’s hard especially if I’m by myself. I do love stuffies, my paci, coloring books. I’ve always wanted a Daddy who’s okay with cooking for me and giving me food on cute princess plates and I want sippy cups. I want to be able to wear cute dresses and do my hair and feel pretty. I honestly want my Daddy to be okay with me wearing diapees. It’s embarrassing but I do have issues with holding it sometimes, so I pee myself every once in a while but not often. I just like diapers because it makes me feel safer. But I want Daddy to tell me it’s okay if I do have an accident and even help me clean up or change me. But I only want daddy’s help if I pee or if it’s my big girl time of the month. No other stuff, that’s embarrassing. I feel like I want too much. I feel like I’m not enough because I do like sex but I’ve had a lot of bad experiences so I just get scared about sex sometimes. Not really sure I’ll ever find someone.

Hi everyone my name is Momi and I'm a Little from Europe. My little age its 12 but biologically i'm 25. I started having an interest in the DDLG 3 years ago and right now i'm still a newbie but i'm trying to educate my little self! I'm very shy and need a lot of reassurance and attention. I really like learning things expecially about animals and insects. I love going out with my friends and dogs to explore the nature. I also love books, expecially someone reading a story for me and videogames. I currently have a job. I hope that here i finally won't feel wrong! Momi 🐶

Hiii yall, I'm an European little/middle who loves baking and cooking (as well as many homemaking activities), fashion, makeup, science and academia, reading, exercising, and more things. I'd say I'm quite ambiverted and I'm looking to get to know all of you! Thank you for reading 🫶🏼

So while I've been on the look for a new person to call my daddy/Dom. I've come across a lot of dudes an what not being made at the fact that I have some. Kind of preference for either age or even heights. Like me personally I don't want an you get daddy; nor do I want a very large age gap. I don't care too much on the height either but still. I keep getting really pushy dudes, more so very immature regardless of age (but alot of the 25 and younger group) and I'm sitting here thinking, "am.. I the issue? Is my preference an issue?"

So, I am a single Little, so whenever I wanna be pampered, no one is around to apply stuff on me so I have to do it myself. Which I don't mind. But, when I'm little and wanna take care of myself, the only thinks I can think of is baby shampoo, baby body wash, baby oil, and baby lotion. And there is baby powder and even baby cologne (by Johnson's) too. Essentially, the only "little" skincare/bath stuff I can think of is Johnsons and baby magic. And Aveeno for babies. Basically all baby type stuff. But, what about other stuff? As an adult, I need more than just baby soap and baby lotions and baby oil and stuff. So, what do littles use for other skincare? And, I don't just mean the normal stuff that you use. I mean stuff that still gives off a "little vibe". Like I want all my skincare to be lowkey littlefied! Any ideas?

Namr: Request Age: 26+ Gender: M Country: Germany Role: Daddydom Status: Single and seeking Character: Open-minded, Caring, Loving, Gentleman Interests/Hobbies: -Photography: I am very interested in photographing landscapes and great scenes. Soon I will be the proud owner of a Fuji T30 Mark II. -Music: Not an hour goes by when I'm not listening to great music. From classics like AC/DC or Gun N' Roses to modern music, it's pretty much everything. -Languages: I'm in the process of teaching myself Japanese and kind of Korean, as I find both languages and the cultures of both countries to be very interesting. -Anime: I grew up watching PokitoTV since I was little. From Digimon to Detective Conan, and I still absolutely love masterpieces like SAO or Sing Yesterday For Me. -Gaming: I love to dive into the creative and exciting world of video games, starting with the N64 and CRT TV to PC and current consoles. Either alone or with friends. -Movies: I love going to the movies and watching movies on the big screen, whether it's Marvel, DC or comedies, movies are a great entertainment medium. CGL/DDLG: As a daddy I am two things, sometimes gentle and kind, sometimes strict and dominant. It all depends on what my little one prefers. If she is more of a normal little, I am more of the soft and gentle daddy, if she is more of a brat, I am more of the dominant and strict daddy. Since I am looking for more of a sexual DDLG dynamic with a Little, you should want that too, as I am not interested in a non-sexual DDLG dynamic. As a Daddy, it is also important to me to set up rules with you, even non-sexual rules like always calling me Daddy or always being honest with Daddy or sexual rules like only pleasuring yourself when Daddy is on the phone with you. Depending on how my child is, the rules can be stricter or looser. But it is also very important for me to always be there for my little one, to accept her the way she is, to build a close bond with her and to accompany her on her way and to build something with her in the long run. After all, I love my babygirl more than anything and I always want to be at her side. Please be at least 18 years old!

Age (Your Age Required): 19 Little Age: unsure Name: Sisi Role: little/sub/pet/puppy Location: USA (California) Sexual Orientation: Pansexual Looking for: I'm looking for a caregiver/dom that is patient with me at the time being since I am very new to this. I want to learn and have a caregiver that will be there for me sexually and nonsexually. I need someone who is understanding, kind, and not fatphobic. Relationship preference (Polyamory , Monogamous , or other): open to all Number of partners I have: 0 -------------------------------------------- Hello!! I'm new to this community and the littlespace aspect as well! I'm looking for a caregiver, regardless of gender, sexuality or even if you're in a relationship! (As long as its not cheating because I don't wanna be in the middle of that.) Im 19 years old, African American,a bit on the chubby side and 5'6 in height. My hobbies are: Drawing, watching cartoons or anime, playing games (mostly on my phone since I have no console) and swimming! I've recently came out of a poly relationship that didn't go well and I'm trying to heal while also getting into this new life style with someone or a couple, and other people who are the same as me. I hope I can find a loving caregiver on here and some new friends! ^^

Hi! nice to meet you, i’m nanami! I’m new here and in general in the subject, i would LOVE to know more about it, i’m 21, i live in Italy, and it’s been a few weeks since i discovered this world! I love it, i hope to make new friends!! kisses and blessings!

Hello everyone! I'm new here so I hope I'm doing this right. I (24M) am looking for a Little (20sF) in the Houston area. Any tips on how I can get started?

Me and my colouring pic 👆Look👀 what I coloured 4 daddy❗️ I used Gel pens 🖊

I wanna make friends with people in the community!

I am a little who had experienced ignorance from biological father and sought for father figure online. The unlucky thing is I haven't got every support I wanted. Good things is, besides A major one, I got the rest. call me mean or something but I will continue till I finally get it either from him or someone else. x means me d means him u just want to get spoiled so u feel like im investing in u.. i understand that.. but i want u to be able to take care of urself and put u in a position where u can choose to stay or leave me as u like.. that is real love ok? after feeling real emotion with him. I am thinking about something offline and I am asking for finance support. d: Ok. Look i will give u food.. place to live and it includes taking u to places and occasionally giving u gifts. But it will be much less than what u want. So u better work x: Well u rather see me do jobs I hate? d: Im going to work with u to find something u are good at U are not even listening to me to study. U are preventing me to even see what u can do Ok i will give u one more chance to say something. I will answer once and then we stop talking about this for awhile Ok. I will say this. If i fail to make u more capable of earning money we can talk about this more d: I understand. Im sorry. Unfortunately.. giving u everything u want is not as good as u think it is Having need and hunger and desire is part of having a good life. I know u dont understand that If u get exactly what u wished for that is just as bad as not getting anything at all Please just wait... Lets see how study goes and we can talk about this again. I need you to have some hunger So u cant have everything right now.. u will be bored soon and ask for more but still not truly happy x: Maybe U are right But how can I know u love me a truly d: Just please wait. Listen to me. I promise i love u, i want to change ur thinking just slightly so u can be happy So, trust me, u have to change in a few ways in order to feel better So u cant expect to feel better unless u change some ways of thinking to more positive way. Ok. Well we can try to deal with that but that problem slows down ur recovery The problem is something to overcome.. not to think too much about Just please. For the love of fucking god, can u just study more and stop worrying? If u complain this much instead of stufy of course u will fail So when i tell u to stop complaining and work a bit more. You just have to accept. There is not other way to say it. If u dont study u will be a failure d: u just want to get spoiled so u feel like im investing in u.. i understand that.. but i want u to be able to take care of urself and put u in a position where u can choose to stay or leave me as u like.. that is real love ok? I still think if he wouldn't do this, he is not truly serious love me and I cant trust him fully. x: what is love d: Just... Love is like this.. love is like u care about someone else like they are a part of u x: then I don't think I love anyone d: So instead of trying to be burden to someone just so they can prove their love.. u want them to feel good and u know they will make u feel good too x: maybe at some moments I have d: Its like ur left hand doesnt need to be a burden to ur right hand Ok. U are emotional up and down that is ok But anyways.. u have anger and guilt and so on Part of u dislikes ur parents for not being there for u in alot of ways.. but other parts feel like they do sometimes help u. So u feel guilty u are burden U feel conflict and that conflict causes anxiety that u can not easily solve U are right that they neglect u.. so that part is right. U are right that u should try to act better so u are less gulty. But u dont know the right balance U rather leave ur home and not worry or think about that balance anymore. And that is understandable x: I want you to be my parent d: Ok I'm working on it. d: U dont understand how complexly im thinking about u The problem is this.. let me be completely clear with u Here is what i need to do. 1) i need to help u figure out something u can be successful at. This will take a lot of time. Not just because of u, but lots of people need a lot of time to find out what they like enough to work at 2) i need to take care of ur emotional problems. U need alot of attention and care and i can do that. But the other problem is.. u might feel something on one day but feel different the next day. So i have to be a little bit flexible with my approach too. Im not breaking promise or being inconsistent.. u are also inconsistent due to emotions so i have to keep adjusting. The goal is to get u normal.. it doesnt matter how i do it 3) your overall stress and anxiety. U worry too much but the problem is u get stuck on things that are hard to solve. So u have to create a fuller more balanced life so u can ignore unsolvable problems but still be disciplined enough to follow up x: daddy, why do you love me d: Ok. So while im doing all of these things..i also have to teach u better manners and so u can deal with people in a better way. But if i dont help ur emotional state and discipline.. u are not ready to play well with other people. So on one hand i say they goal is for u to meet other people.. but for right now i say.. u are not ready yet. So this is also complex.. i dont want u to think im creating u only to listen to me U have some good heart and u have a lovable spirit inside u. But just u are too sensitive and emotional but outside just looks like angry and bratty but its not. So i understand u totally.. i love u and i feel connected because i can read u so well Ok so if u understand everything i wrote. U will understand 99% of future issues we will need to deal with I really appreciate meeting him because he did most jobs of a real dad does. But the financial support stuff is something I wouldn't overcome. I am kind of stuck on this problem. besides that, I feel way better than before in most aspects.

Hi everyone! I want to crochet a baby blanket, but then bigger. I found this pattern online and wanted to share! I've just started on it and I want to make the edge pink. https://moderngracedesign.blogspot.com/2012/09/baby-blanket-free-pattern.html xx Lis

Helluws ! I am Crybun/Cinna from Germany - and i was wondering how many people here are also from germany or speak german ! ( my dada lives in switzerland ) I am thinkin about a german cg/l-discord server - but not sure ! - - - bin auch offen für DM Chatting /Gruppen hier auf dem Forum Zum Austauschen von Erfahrungen; Erlebnissen und Ähnlichem !

I was wondering if there's in ddlg sites that sell ddlg clothes for trans people I go into a state of a 5 in little space I'm trying to find stuff that I like to buy to wear when in little space if any one knows of any sites I will be so grateful to have them sent my way