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Hi everyone!

 

I'm a 20 y/o little and I'm trying to introduce my husband into the DD/lg community. He's very clueless about everything, and I've always kept little me to myself out of fear of scaring him away. So basically, I'm trying to get answers from everyone for the following questions to help make things easier for me to explain to him!!!

 

Littles' -

1. What rules do you have to follow?

2. What kind of punishments do you receive for breaking rules?

3. What are some of your favorite rewards for good behavior?

4. What are your favorite things to have in the bedroom?

5. What advice do you have for a new daddy?

6. How would you explain "Little Space"?

 

Daddies/Mommies -

1. What rules must your little follow?

2. What punishment do you give your little for breaking the rules?

3. What advice do you have for a new daddy?

4. What are your favorite things to have in the bedroom?

5. What is your favorite part about being a DOM?

6. What are some of your favorite things your little does/says?

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I hope I am not too hard.

At least you like your own post.

The questions you are listing are more or less thread titles that all exist; You are very welcome to comment on them. You are more likely to get any help needed,by taking a bit more time to place your questions on relevant topics (use the search field,up right) than by appearing to behave like a consumer making a list that's very difficult to answer just as it stands.

Thanks ! 

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My pleasure ! I am not speaker for the site; Perhaps a moderator will have a different view. 

Regarding searching,I have noticed that you can read the most relevant section (for example general discussion) with your subject of choice in mind,but in fact find the answer that will speak most to you,in another section because these topics can be seen from different angles.

Lots of reading to do here. Personally this forum is my idea at the moment of what "a good book" would be if only I had more time

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1. What rules do you have to follow? ~ Mostly general ones that deal with my health. Eat enough, drink water, take my medicine, ones I usually do on my own but he reminds me :) So they're less rules and just.. reminders?

2. What kind of punishments do you receive for breaking rules? ~ Since I don't exactly have rules, I don't have any punishments. He's tried (spankings :p) but that fell through... can't punish with something I like! xD

3. What are some of your favorite rewards for good behavior? ~ Hm... Cuddles, watching movies, going out for dinner. I get most of it regardless but yeah >,<

4. What are your favorite things to have in the bedroom? ~ My toys. Mostly my collar/cuff play set though.

5. What advice do you have for a new daddy? ~ Ask questions and don't be afraid to mess up! It's the only way you'll both learn.

6. How would you explain "Little Space"? ~ A kind of carefree mind set. I'm a lot more bubbly, goofy and happy in my "Little Space" than I typically am around most people.

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I never had a Dom before so I can only try and explain what little space is! For me at least.

 

In my case, little space is a head space (a state of mind) where I don't have to think about real life. I don't have to think about school/work, I don't have to think about paying bills, I don't have to think about everything that's going on in the world like racism, poverty or famine/starvation. Little space is a time for me to only focus on the positive things and let my little kid out. It's also the time where I show how needy, clingy and attention seeking I really am. It's a time when I don't hold back.

 

I really hope I helped somehow?? Little space is really hard to explain, especially because it's different for everyone!!

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What rules do you follow? I dont really rules. Just things that are common sense like holding daddys hand in parking lots/crossing the street, brushing my teeth ans going to bed at a reasonable time when i work the next day

 

What kind of punishments do you receive? Spankings normally

 

What are some of your favorite rewards for good behavior? I dont get rewarded for being good. It's just an expected thing. I like when Daddy surprises me with candy though!

 

What are your favorite things to have in the bedroom? my stuffies!

 

What advice do you have for a new daddy? If you are in a group chat and a Little calls out "Daddy" she is NOT talking to you.

 

How would you explain Little Space? The most funnest thing ever!!

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I attached my rules-not including "I must wash my face and brush my teeth every morning and evening". I'm punished by getting spanked on my bare bottom (which hurts a lot haha). I'm always good, so besides a colouring book I got for acing a job interview, I don't really get rewarded (I get pretty much whatever I want though). I guess I'd tell any new daddies to always have open communication and honesty. Little space for me is my usual state (I'm super short and tiny so others figure I'm a kid anyway) so I regress both in public/wherever but I've attached an image that I think defines it pretty well. (Especially for those who aren't 24/7)

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