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    #1 vanillababy

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    Posted 09 September 2019 - 02:00 AM

    hi everyone ! ✨

     

    i have been, what can i say, small for quite a while now, i say small since i don't really see myself as doing the usual 'little' things...

    i'm childlike in my mannerisms and my hobbies, but i don't really have any pacifiers, binkies etc ya know ?

    i like to watch kids shows and movies and have kids snacks and i love kids toys !

     

    however i have a really close friend of mine that is very dear to me, he takes good care of me and is always considerate of my feelings...

    i really want to tell him that i have this side to me but i'm scared he would think i'm weird or childish or gross.

     

    i really think he'd be a good caregiver too... like a platonic one. we've both established with each other that we're just friends, so the cgl relationship would be platonic.

    he's very nurturing and accepting of my childlike nature, but i'm unsure if that will also mean that he'd be accepting of my little side altogether! 

     

    if anyone has some advice as to how i could reveal my small side to my friend i'd really be grateful, i'm so nervous ! ❤


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    너를 사랑하는 찌질이 찌질이
    그래 나는 머저리 머저리
    난 너한테는 거머리 겉절이
    이 세상 너 하나면 돼
    "my baby!" - yan an, 2018

    #2 SleepyKitten

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    Posted 09 September 2019 - 04:52 AM

    You could maybe start up a conversation about ddlg as a subject and see how he reacts to that? That way you can inform him about what it is etc so that he won't get a negative idea. You can start by saying "I saw something about this thing called ddlg on the Internet the other day..." or something along those lines.

    I am sure he wouldn't judge you for it, you are close friends after all and he already seems to be familiar with how you are and how you behave anyway.

    If he doesn't seem to take the ddlg thing very well and you can't change his view by talking about it and educating him on it more, then you can choose not to tell him about yourself and your little/small side.

    Its hard to know how he would react about being a platonic daddy. Some people are up for giving things a try and others not. I think you would need to play that by ear a little more just based on how he reacts to everything you say prior to asking.

    I hope this gives you some ideas on how to tell him :D I hope it goes well
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    Posted 09 September 2019 - 05:33 AM

    You could maybe start up a conversation about ddlg as a subject and see how he reacts to that? That way you can inform him about what it is etc so that he won't get a negative idea. You can start by saying "I saw something about this thing called ddlg on the Internet the other day..." or something along those lines.

    I am sure he wouldn't judge you for it, you are close friends after all and he already seems to be familiar with how you are and how you behave anyway.

    If he doesn't seem to take the ddlg thing very well and you can't change his view by talking about it and educating him on it more, then you can choose not to tell him about yourself and your little/small side.

    Its hard to know how he would react about being a platonic daddy. Some people are up for giving things a try and others not. I think you would need to play that by ear a little more just based on how he reacts to everything you say prior to asking.

    I hope this gives you some ideas on how to tell him :D I hope it goes well

    thank you so much for your advice, SleepyKitten :D  ❤

     

    ill try slowly making it a conversation and seeing his reaction, i hope it goes well too !  :blush:


    • vanillababy likes this
    너를 사랑하는 찌질이 찌질이
    그래 나는 머저리 머저리
    난 너한테는 거머리 겉절이
    이 세상 너 하나면 돼
    "my baby!" - yan an, 2018





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