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How to Chat with a Potential Daddy online?


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Hello, my question is I feel it is quite hard to look for someone right online, as the information usually it is kind of limited by reading their online profiles. And you don’t even know how they look like. Sometimes you get a pic of their faces but you don’t know their figure, height, weight something. If you are thinking seriously, maybe even need to know their jobs. And it is kind of rude to ask away these questions in the beginning. I would will feel a little guarded if someone ask me a lot of personal questions when I don’t know them as well. So how do you deal with the limited information when you are chatting someone who maybe your potential daddy. Is it more about patience or more being direct? How to balance it?

 

What I feel worst is when you flirt with someone (or they do) and you guys kind of get along online. But when you get to know them more, you found you didn’t like them. It is just a little bit guilty also not feeling good.

 

Is any way to avoid it? Or it is just common for online dating.

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I say ir kind of depends on your style of getting to know eachother. Asking for individual measurements like height, weight etc. Can definetly come across as crass but a full body picture on the other hand is perfectly reasonable.

 

When it comes to occupation, it's one of those things that tends to come up in conversation naturally one way or another. It's perfectly reasonable for example, to ask about someone's occupation after they offhandedly make a comment or a reference about their job/education.

 

I think that at the end of the day we need to tailor our approach (however slightly it may be) to the person we are talking to. Good luck out there and I hope this helped a bit!

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If you are searching for a Dom and have specific preferences , post in the Personals section stating exactly what it is that you want. As far as judging someone's character/personality goes, the best was is to look through the posts they made and topics they've started. That's the initial veting process for me. It says more about the person than anything they could write on their profile. 

If you see that the person wasn't really active on the forum despite being on here for a while, then he/she is probably just jumping from one DD/little to another, trying to fish. 

 

As for your other concerns, it's like that with any kind of online dating. You just have to hope for the best, and bring your pepper spray just in case.

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Everyone on either side is different. I don't know anyone that is adverse to a polite, well mannered message or introduction though. Even if they are, maybe they're just not the right one. 

 

Nothing ventured nothing gained. I've always found the best partners, when I'm not even looking. 

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hii, I think everyone has a set of things they are looking for and that's totally fine and valid. I haven't had any significant issues getting my questions answered online as long as I am in the correct place to do so. Someone else mentioned putting a personal out there (in the personals section, of course) because you can detail exactly what your open to and what you want, and then maybe you'll have more of the ones that you are actually looking for coming to you. Everyone has their own pace, and remember you are dealing with another adult human on the other end, it's okay to ask questions, that's what vetting is all about. Best of luck to you <3

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