CG Please

[SwayzeeSweetheart]

My daddy went away to the big house and I'm feeling really small but I'm all alone and I don't really know how to process. It's taking a lot to post this. Is there a CG willing to help me figure out what this feeling is. I never really felt it before cuz he was always here and now he's not and I need some helps. I'll take any advice. From another little or CG. Pretty please?

[Vampiress]

I'm not sure what the big house is (I have a guess, but I could be wrong), but I hope he can come back to you soon. In the Clubs section of this forum there is a club called Knowledge is Power and it has a thread about being your own caregiver and self-soothing. I'll link it below so you can check it out.

In my early 20s I was dating this guy who was going to be gone over a month somewhere that he didn't have phone or internet access, and I made a seperate e-mail account to send e-mails to that account (he had the password as well) and he could read them when he came back. So I e-mailed that account at least once a day. Maybe you can send him letters or write in a journal for him until he comes back if you cannot send him letters. Maybe in the letters or journal you can talk about what's going on in your life, things you wish you could be doing with him in the moment, or plans you want to make with him when he comes back.

You could designate a stuffie to be his representative until he gets back. If you have any access to  his stuff maybe keep a hoodie or a shirt or something you can wear or snuggle up to that smells like him.

 

 

[beanbean]

Yeah what you feel extra little because your lonely letter your daddy or a journal might help a little 

[MasterPhotog]

Hope your Daddy comes back soon. In the meantime, staying active here will help you feel being among friends. 

[LilTommy]

*hugs * I sorry 

What helps me for being lonely and alone with this whole situation I keep a journal and write down everything I think about any idea any emotion everything.  I also made a chore chart,a homework.chart,and a self care chart . and when I get them done I reward myself and If I don't I punish myself 

 

Rewards stay up later, a treat ,buy Mt self something 

Punishment..corner time ,bed early I get nothing special ! I hope your ok and I hope he comes back I'm so sorry and if you ever need anything my box is open !!!