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Mixed Feelings Need Some Advice


Little Kat
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So, I've always found myself fitting into a Dominant role, ever since I was introduced to the BDSM lifestyle, I've always leaned towards the Dom side. 

 

However, the last couple of months...I find myself entering a Littlespace essentially. But I've brushed it off, because I've always enjoyed the Dom side.

 

I'm not really sure where I fit in...I guess I would be a Switch, but lately, I've no desire to be a Dom. At all. But I've been forcing myself into that mindset. 

 

I could use some advice of what I should do. 

 

In doing this I posted a Personal as a Mommy/Daddy with all intent on being one, but this conflict sorta presented itself, and I'm not sure what to do...

 

Any advice/help is appreciated. 

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Guest Elencha

Finally, an easy question.The answer: be who you are, not who you are accustomed to being. So you used to Dommy, okay. I used to be a teenager. I'm not anymore. What was was. Let it be.

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I'm new to all this, but as in everything I also prefer being and doing the things I prefer doing, the things I'm comfortable with. If you see that you are forcing yourself into being a dom and you prefer being a little then why not be a little. At least you would find someone to spoil you :D

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Guest BittyKitty
I think you should give it a try, I'm sure you'll learn some new and exciting things about yourself and why you're suddenly drawn to this side of the dynamic. If it turns out you don't like it as much as you thought you would, no harm done, and armed with personal experience of being a little, you'll enjoy your dominant role with a fresh perspective which will probably add a lot to creativity. I say go for it.
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Guest MaddMari
You can be both but your, sub/little side is coming out right now. I am a switch somedays I am more dom then sub. But I can do both roles. Just do what you feel is right.
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It can be cyclical for some switches. The dom(me) or sub side can be brought to the forefront Depending on the time of month, maybe even the time of year, other circumstances in life like the feeling of security and vulnerability. It may also depend on the partner as well.

 

And maybe sometimes you're just in one headspace no matter what and who you're with.

 

Soooo perhaps you're at a time and place in your life where you need to explore this side of you. Best of luck :)

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