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This truck reminds me of something my uncle had when I was a kid!

I so mentally exhausted with everything that my physical exhaustion is at its peek. I have no where to go and I feel like I'm not wanted anywhere. I just want one person to talk to

hi, i'm new here and only a little but sometimes when i feel very alone it's just great to talk to someone so please if you just want to vent, you can do that with me ❤️

Good morning, good afternoon or good evening to wherever you amazing beautiful people might be on this gorgeous planet we call home. I wanted to come on here and ask you all how you came into the DDLG community. If you all have read my post you will see one about my journey on becoming a Mommy Dom. I had been a Mommy Dom for over 20 years and had the opportunity to meet with some of the largest BDSM organizations in the world. I have traveled to conferences for BDSM and have also been to several BDSM clubs. I entered this world when i had to take care of my ex husband who became extremely ill. It opened my eyes to the 1950s housewife and I loved waiting on him hand and foot. Now that is still something that has stuck with me. I absolutely love waiting on people and taking care of them. Even when I was a Mommy Dom I loved the idea of waiting on someone, obeying them and doing as they asked. When I joined this site in March I was a Dom and now I sit here in front of you all as a Submissive with Dom tendencies. So I'm a mixture and I have absolutely loved meeting all of you amazing people on here. I found this community by chance and it has been something that I absolutely have loved. I can honestly say this has been a wonderful decision to join and I'm so glad I found all of you. So my question to you all is how did you come to find who you are in this crazy place? And if you are still figuring out who you are that's okay too, I would still love to learn how you stumbled upon our beautiful community. Until next time remember you matter, you are loved and you are worthy of being loved 💕

this is one of my fav plushies!! her name is angel and she is all soft :3 i sometimes put nice perfum on her or glitter dust ✨she is an alíen *-*

I just wanted to let all the littles know that Clare's jewelry store has a whole bunch of new clip on earrings that are absolutely adorable. If you're like me and can't get your ears pierced (for any reason, whether medical or religious or otherwise) Clare's has just rolled out a new line of animal themed clip ons! They're so cute and I just wanted to share!

@NR_Daddy No importing British treats.. or non healthy pre made food...got it Ok, so what then? You like cakes and strong teas, but not biscuits or chocolate?

Yum to both :3 ramen?

Raspberries are always fun to play with. They make good finger hats!

A cat enters a library and walks up to the counter: "I'd like some tuna please." The librarian leans forward and says: "Sir, this is a library." The cat says "Oh sorry" - whispers - "I'd like some tuna please."

I met my wife when she was 26. She's over 40 now. I'm over 50. So you are not alone.

There are soooo many littles over 40 it's really silly, but we kinda hide coz most daddies want littles who are younger, in their 20s or early 30s. It's difficult to hear all the time, so we don't talk about our age, instead we build friendships and see what happens. Best of luck in your searching!

I loved reading this! Thank you for sharing Thats what my partner tells me...kind of "You LARP pretty well as an adult most of the time"...although I am more mid-teens as my middle.

This is exactly how I feel I feel I dont really have a specific age, but more of a range or a developmental stage.

I love carrots and veggies cut into cute shapes like little flowers and stars!

nuggies!!!! all the nuggies!!! *giggles*

Dino nuggies, happy meals and juice boxes, just to name a few. Or just regular food served on kiddy plates or stuff from kiddy lunch boxes.

Sweeties in general but my favourite for a little mood are Smarties, I loved them when I was little. For those outside the UK, like M&Ms but... flatter and softer?

I was a Mommy Dom for over 20years and I promise there are so many mommies on here they are just in hiding that's all

The following is a rather objective piece, gathered from many forum posts of people who do not know what to do or know what their relationship has become. Nature of DD/LG The nature of DD/LG is to guide and enrich both the lives of the Dominant and the Little. This is not a one sided relationship. This is not a relationship that is meant to be used to control or manipulate someone. Many posts on here allude to a relationship that is more fitting of a Master & Slave Dynamic. This is fine, as long as the consent is there. While manipulation and abuse is often seen as a man abusing or manipulating a woman, we must accept that abuse and manipulation can happen to anyone from anyone. While a majority of Doms would love for their Little to rely on them for every mundane task, this is not feasible nor is it healthy. I very often see insulting and ridiculous comments such as: “Littles should not do x.” “You are a Little, you cannot do x.” Littles are adults, they are fully capable and functioning human beings. As a Dom, once again, your task it to help nurture and enrich your Little. Don’t encourage them to become mentally and emotionally reliant on you, this is counterproductive and at times abusive. Help them become the productive members of society you know they can be. As a Little it is also up to you to gain independence. Being a Caregiver is a very difficult and draining job. You cannot expect someone to make your every decision for you. This is equally draining and abusing what a Caregiver is. If there is some part of normal life you struggle with (making phone calls, socializing, doing school work) talk to your Caregiver about how they can HELP you with these things. Note that being a helpless damsel in distress is fun for play time and Little Space but not something that should be encouraged for daily life. Consent Consent is the most important aspect of any relationship. Consent is when both parties agree upon something, this relates to rules, punishments, daily interactions and sexy time. Just because you have consented to something it the past does not mean you have to consent now. Just because someone consented to something before does not mean they are obligated to consent now. Feelings and situations can and will change. If you find yourself uncomfortable with something you once consented to, use your Safe Word. This is a wonderful and informative video on consent, please give it a watch (NSFW) Click here. Safe words A safe word is something that needs to be created in the beginning of a relationship. Think of a safe word as your Life Raft. This word/term means it is time to pause the dynamic. This shuts down whatever play is happening and allows the two of you to discuss what is going on. If you are uncomfortable or nervous with where a situation is heading, use your Safe Word. A Safe Word must at all times be honored. If someone uses a Safe Word, it is your job to discuss that with them. Do not blame yourself or the other person, do not get angry, listen to them and respect their decision. Positive reinforcement vs control Punishment should fit the crime. Punishment must be agreed upon by both parties beforehand. Punishment should fit the crime. Punishment must be agreed upon by both parties beforehand. Punishment should fit the crime. Punishment must be agreed upon by both parties beforehand. I really hope that has sank into any one reading this. It is that important. Harsh rules or punishments that were not previously agreed upon. Different strokes for different folks, many may like the following punishments and that is okay as long as both parties agreed to it. Examples of controlling and abusive punishments Taking away the right to bathe or shower Taking away the right to eat Taking away communication (with partner or anyone else, this includes friends or family members) Taking away lights Taking away clothing Taking away the right to use the bathroom Taking away social interaction (ie going online, going to a friends house, visiting family members) If it takes away a basic human necessity, it is abusive. No one can foresee the future. There most likely will come a time when you see a new rule or punishment should be implemented. That is okay! But first you must talk to your partner about it. You cannot decided to enforce a new rule without your partner knowing, people can’t read minds, they can’t possibly know what they did wrong and cannot be expected to accept a punishment added for no conceivable reason. Manipulation Tactics: Threatening self harm. This is a popular trend in all forms of relationships, it a powerful and usually successful. Using a threat of self harm is not okay. It is abuse and it is a tactic for controlling someone. You should be able to talk to your partner if you are feeling upset, hurt or depressed but bringing it up as a way to keep someone around is NOT okay. “If you do x I am going to do x to myself” “If you ever leave me I am going to x” Verbal abuse. When you tell someone something enough, they will start to believe it. Never underestimate the power of your words and the effect they can and will have on others. This can work in a good or bad way. “You are ugly”, “No one will love you”, “You are stupid”, “I wish I never met you” Vs “You are beautiful”,”I love you”, “You are intelligent”, “I am happy you are in my life” Making you feel guilty over commonplace and simple, small things. Guilt is a powerful emotion and can have a person doing things they wouldn’t ordinarily do to please someone. If you find yourself no longer able to do normal things like see your friends, visit family, go out, enjoy healthy hobbies you previously had, etc without feeling overwhelming guilt from your partner, this is not okay. Gas Lighting. Gas Lighting is very common in any type of relationship. It is a gradual process with devastating effects. It essentially causes a person to question their feelings, emotions and sanity. For a more in depth look at Gas Lighting please read this article. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/power-in-relationships/200905/are-you-being-gaslighted Getting angry about small things, or things beyond your control. If you are in an abusive relationship, close proximity or LDR help is out there. National Child Abuse Helpline: 1-800-422-4453 National Domestic Violence Crisis Line: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) National Domestic Violence Hotline (TDD): 1-800-787-32324 Center for the Prevention of School Violence: 1-800-299-6504 Domestic Violence Helpline: 1-800-548-2722 Healing Woman Foundation (Abuse): 1-800-477-4111 Women’s Aid National Domestic Violence Helpline: (UK Only) 0345 023 468 Sexual Abuse Centre: (UK Only) 0117 935 1707 Sexual Assault Support (24/7, English & Spanish): 1-800-223-5001 Relationships Australia: 1300-364-277 Rape Abuse & Incest National Network or 800-656-HOPE (4673) Abuse Not: 0808 8005015 (UK) Women’s Aid National (UK) Domestic Violence Helpline 0345 023 468 (UK)

The following is a bit about Long Distance Relationships or LDR's! A big thanks to Admin MellyBoo19912015 for tolerating and answering my questions to help make this resource possible! How to maintain a healthy LDR Any relationship takes a lot of work, communication and trust. LDR's, arguably, take even more. The following are some ways to keep your LDR healthy and long lasting! Contact ~ If you live in different time zones, this can especially prove tricky. The first thing you want to do is establish your time difference and schedules. When can you actually talk? Is messaging each other thru school, work or sleep okay? Thankfully, there are so many lovely and FREE apps and websites to help you and your significant other stay in contact. (see below). Trust ~ Establishing and keeping trust is so important. Stay honest with your partner and communicate. Even if you are afraid of the consequences, talk to your partner. A lot of people worry that infidelity in a LDR is common. Rest assured this is not the case, affairs are generally caused by people and personalities. Distance has no effect. Respect Your Partner & Their Needs ~ Everyone is different and we all have our own hectic personal lives to maintain. Communicate with your partner what you need and want and respect their needs as well. If you have a partner who requires a lot of contact, keep a steady flow of communication with them. If you are going to have a busy day, let your partner know, don't leave them worrying. Expectations Vs. Reality One of the greatest challenges of a LDR is a feeling of being disconnected from each other, missing out on the little things that happen. Below there are some apps and sites you can try to keep connected. Another idea is keeping a journal of your day and sharing it with your partner. Let them in on those tiny little things that happened to you and let them share your day with you. When you first enter a LDR there are some things you need to establish right away. Will you ever meet irl? Are yearly visits possible? How will you make and enforce rules? What are you hoping to get out of the relationship? Be clear on what the relationship is. Are you exclusive? Are you monogamous? is it okay to go on dates with other people? What is your level of commitment? Don't be afraid to talk about these things and keep talking about them if they are important to you. Remember that because of the distance date nights are not going to be conventional, you have to be creative! You can try a movie night together with rabbit, Skype or just messaging each other. Play real time games together. Make the same food and Skype to have a dinner date! FaceTime or Skype each other while you go on walks! Even if you don't have the time to do it together, you can still watch movies or read books and discuss it with each other later on! Games & Apps Avocado ~ Available on Apple, GooglePlay or desktop, free. Your all inclusive LDR app. Allows you to send messages, pictures, doodles and videos. Make and share lists & reminders! Works with Google Calendars to share each others calendars! Has private photo sharing abilities to keep albums. You can even send your partner hugs & kisses to let them know you are thinking about them! Choremonster & Mothershp ~ Available on Apple or GooglePlay market, free. Mothershp is the login for the user setting the chores and rewards, Choremonster is for the user doing the chores and earning rewards! Super easy way for a Long Distance CG to set chores & rewards for their Little! Couple ~ Available on Apple, GooglePlay or desktop, free with in-app purchases. Your all inclusive LDR app. Has options for sending messages, videos, voice recordings, doodles and locations! You can Live Sketch with each other, keep track of your anniversary, birthdays and make lists! It even keeps tracks of your shared photos to keep the memories! Draw Something ~ Available on Apple or GooglePlay, free. Social game where you can Draw or Guess what was drawn! Flockdraw ~ Primarily for desktop, available in Apple market, free. Allows multiple users to draw, sketch and doodle together in real time, with direct messaging. Rabbit ~ Primarily a desktop site, available on Apple or GooglePlay, free. Allows you to watch television, movies or listen to music together. Includes video chatting, mic chatting and direct messaging. Great for date night, movie night or just a group of friends binge watching their favorite show! Skype ~ Primarily a desktop app, also available on Apple or GooglePlay market, free. Allows people to video chat all around the world for free! Great for bedtime stories or a weekly date! Snapchat ~ Available on Apple or GooglePlay market, free. Most of us already use this app to interact with friends! It can be used to update each other on our days, meals or outfit choices. Can also be used as a messaging app, though it does not store messages. SNOW ~ Available on Apple or GooglePlay market, free. Essentially the exact same app as Snapchat but with way more and cuter filters! QuizUp ~ Available on Apple or GooglePlay market and desktop, free. Real time quiz games with fun topics including; Disney Movies, Disney Princesses, Cartoon Network, Name That Animal and so much more! Great for an easy Game night! Snail mail! A totally underrated way to keep in touch. Mail each other post cards, love letters and even gifts for each other now and then! Finally, if you have ideas, tips or tricks to help with LDR, please message me so I can add them! *glitter* *glitter* http://data.whicdn.com/images/174718551/large.jpg

The following are some easy & brief ways to add more information to your About Me, Profile and Personals!! Big thanks to users Praetorian & 8-bit chan~ for answering my questions and helping me! General Tips for Profiles, About Me & Personals Figure out what your audience is, are you looking for friends, significant others or both? Cater to your audience, what do you want/need them to know? Musical interests: favorite bands, songs, albums, or genres. Do you play an instrument, sing or dance? TV/Movies: what shows, movies, actors, genres or directors do you like? Literature: favorite authors, books, animes or series. Video games: types of video games, game series or game counsels. Do you play for fun, professionally or maybe design games? Hobbies: what cool things do you like to do for fun? Crafts, fishing, hiking, etc. Art: art lover, art creator, crafty, writer, photographer? Share some of your best work! Collections: from coins to stamps! Maybe add a picture or two of your collection to your gallery! Dietary: are you vegan, vegetarian or gluten free? Do you cook/bake? Share some of your best recipes or pictures of your creations! Test results: Bdsm test, Meyer-Briggs, Hogwarts House, etc. Kinks: what are your kinks, turn ons, turn offs and limits? Favorites: seasons, colours, animals, weather, etc Link your tumblr if you have one! Use a background, gifs/pictures and fun fonts to dress up your page or personal! Personal Specific Figure out what your audience is, are you looking for friends, significant others or both? Cater to your audience, what do you want/need them to know? LDR or nearby? Web cam necessary? *insert texting/messaging app* necessary? Do you drink/smoke? Would you like your partner(s) to drink/smoke? Is drinking/smoking a deal breaker? Ideal date: are you more of a picnic, stay at home or go out on the town kind of person? What is your schedule like: going to school, average work hours/week, volunteer? Are you a self motivated, driven person? Would you like your partner(s) to be self motivated and driven? Are you monogamous, polyamorous, open to either? Introverted or extroverted, does it vary? Your body type/Ideal body type Pets: what type of pets do you have? Any allergies? Be clear on what you do or do not want. (Saves time and energy on both ends) You do not have to include all of these but hopefully they can give you some inspiration if you are looking to add more information about yourself!

This started as a resource for the single pringle littles! It quickly evolved into some monsterous taking care of yourself master post. Regardless I think anyone can get something from this post! Relaxation No frill, no fluff, just good old fashioned relaxing. Meditation, for how to and techniques check out this site! Bubble baths, doesn't even have to be bubbly, just relax in some warm water! Light candles and play some music. (You can ball out and get some relaxation orientated bath salts and bubble bath too!) Lush bath bombs are all the rage right now. You can make your own bath fizzies, great for personal use or a gift! Make alone or with friends/family! Take a walk! Lavender everything! Lavender essential oil, candles, bedding spray, candles, air fresheners. The most soothing scent known to mankind, just inhale and relax. Get away from screens! Set a task for yourself that isn't screen orientated, dust off those old cooking books, do some light cleaning, take the pooch out for a walk and take some time away from the digital world. CLEAN CLEAN CLEAN!!!!!!! Cleaning can be so therapeutic for you. A clean home is a happy home. You will feel the benefits of a clean home/room immediately. Colour! Colouring books can be super cheap and super easy to do, fantastic for focusing on something and calming down, you can get more expensive and better detailed books that are relaxation orientated. Relaxing Online! Watch a guy make bread ~ Okay, I know how silly this seems but oh my gosh, it is SO soothing! Sand Art ~ Create art with sand, super duper soothing and relaxing. Available on iPhone and Android! Calm ~ A free program for daily peace and mindfulness Flow ~ Super calming game, like super chill Mental Health! Many of us suffer from a variety of mental disorders, even if you don't surely you have felt some pressures, anxiety and sadness. The following is bunch of random happy, healthy sites and apps to help you cope! Apps! Moodtrack Diary ~ For Android Phones free, offers in app purchases. Does what it says, really nice way of tracking your moods and seeing what triggers certain moods. Coach.me ~ For both iPhone and Android, free, offers in app purchases. Make a goal and record your progress towards it! Super easy to use! Booster Buddy ~ For both iPhone and Android, free! Super cute app, complete with furry friends to help you! Tracks daily moods, helps keep track of medication and appointments, even has self care routines! Websites! myNoise ~ Customized sounds for peace and tranquility, iPhone users can even get the app for it! BlahTherapy ~ Vent to or listen to vents from strangers! You can pay to talk to a therapist as well! Strangers are free! Things you can do every day! Don't forget your medication, it can often be a downer on us but medication is so important, make sure you are taking yours properly Write it out, I am such an advocate for journals. Mood journals, goal journals, health journals, JOURNAL IT ALL!!!! Writing is amazing for putting things into perspective. Even if you don't daily journal, it can be so helpful for you! It is also super fun to look back on old journals and look at how far you have grown as a person. Don't beat yourself up. Regardless of what mental disorder you are struggling with, you are guaranteed some bad days. Everyone is guaranteed some bad days. Don't let them get you down and stop you from growing, learn from your mistakes and make the most of it. Make a comfort box! Take an old box and fill it with comfort items (soft blankets, glitter jars, herbal tea, puzzles, stress balls, stickers, essential oils, notes with positive quotes, stuffies, candy, colouring books, soft sweater, pictures of loved ones and pets), get out the box whenever you are feeling overwhelmed and use it to get comfortable! Happy Light! These are super cool and super great, they help a lot in the winter to keep your energy up and revitalize you. Also great if you are up late studying/working. Exercise! Exercising is so important, not just for physical health but mental health as well. Studies have shown that exercising is beneficial for anxiety, stress, depression, improving sleeping patterns, memory and so much more! Whether it is a walk around the block or some intensive weight lifting, it all helps!! Yoga ~ Yoga with Adriene, my personal recommendation for online yoga. Free YouTube videos!! This woman is incredible, so positive and happy. Whether you are a beginner or yoga master, you will love her. Regardless of shape, size or current exercise regiment, you can do yoga! Benefits and more about yoga. SWORKIT ~ an app for iPhone or Androids, free (some costs to upgrade, in my experience not necessary). Shows you how to do individual moves, good for cardio, weight lifting and yoga! Daily reminders and so easy to use! MapMyWalk ~ an app for iPhone or Androids, free. Maps your walk! Shows you how far you have walked, time per walk and split miles! You can add friends and compare or challenge each other! Fantastic regardless of your intensity or frequency. Food! No matter what, it is important to feed yourself! The following are some yummy links you can make alone or with any friends or family members! No More Ramen ~ Cheap, easy recipes. Categorized and includes; Vegan, Vegetarian and Gluten Free. Really amazing blog with tons of options!! ` Really Nice Recipes Ever Hour ~ seriously, every hour something new and delicious, easy to follow recipes Molten Lava Cakes ~ I am secretly obsessed with these, so yummy and rich! Strawberry or Blueberry Frozen Fruit Popsicles ~ takes some time to make but so delicious and refreshing! Three Ingredient Brownies! ~ Nutella Brownies, can you say YUMMMO Cookie Dough Yogurt ~ takes less than five minutes to make your normal yogurt yummy For Vegans!! Blueberry Muffins ~ a classic muffin with a healthy, vegan twist Strawberry Cheesecake Bites ~ they look so CUTE and yummy! Can replace with any berry! Peanut Butter Cups ~ SUPER SUPER SIMPLE! takes about 15mins and only two ingredients! Chocolate Chip Banana Bread ~ super yummy! TREAT YO SELF Cheap easy ways to TREAT YO SELF!! Self manicure/pedicure. Almost everyone has some nail polish lying around and if you don't, your local pharmacy is sure to have some for cheap! Martha Stewart's Bath Fizzies, super easy, with a video to follow along with! I had molds and essential oils lying around so it was pretty cheap for me to make these but if you splurge once on the more expensive stuff, you can make them over and over again for super cheap! Did I mention they are superb gifts?! Netflix & Chill with yourself! Take a day off to unwind and binge watch your guilty pleasures! Dark Chocolate! Dark Chocolate is full of Antioxidants and full of nutrients! Get rid of some junk! Yeah it seems less fun than some of the other ideas but you will be thanking yourself when you donate all those never worn clothes and make room for some new ones Epsom Salts, super cheap and super soothing If you have a nearby Target, get yourself a 99 cent face mask and relax! Take a nap! Make some comfort food! Browse through Amazon, there are some amazing deals on there and at the very least you can make a cart for the future Drink water!!! STAY HYDRATED! If you want to get fancy with it, add some cucumbers, lemon, watermelon or any other fruit you have on hand! I will more than likely be adding things to this post over time, I hope you guys enjoy!!!

The following is a very general and very basic list and explanation of different types of Littles! ADULT BABY ~ An Adult Baby is a little with the youngest age regression. Think diapers, pacis and sippy bottles/cups, cribs and tons of stuffies! BABYGIRL ~ A Babygirl doesn't necessarily identity with a certain age. They are emotionally sensitive and child-like in life. Tend to be submissive. BRATS ~ A brat can be either submissive or a non-submissive. Some like to disobey to be tamed or just enjoy mild to extreme punishment. Whereas some just do not wish to submit or to be punished, just want their way. A brat can be in any age range! LITTLES ~ Little is just a broad term for a wide age range! A term for someone who isn't sure what their little age is, or just has a fluctuating age range! MIDDLES ~ A middle is a general term of an older little. A bit older on the age scale, anywhere from 7 to the double digits. Generally more independent and enjoy cartoons, colouring and tons and tons of stuffies! NYMPHETS ~ A middle who is generally bratty, promiscuous and sexually forward. PETS ~ This is a more broad range, including; kittens, bunnies, wolves, puppies, foxes and many, many more. Much like a kitten they can be any age range and enjoy being played with, pet and taken care of! Again, think collars, cute ears, tags, toys and tails! KITTENS ~ A kitten is a more popular pet in DDLG. Enjoy being pet, played with and taken care of. A Kitten can be any age as well. Think cute little kitten ears, collars, tags, toys and tails! IMPS~ An imp is similar to a pet, many of them enjoy being collared, played with and taken care of. What defines an imp is their mischievous ways (similar to a brat). SWITCHES ~ A switch is someone who identifies as both a Little and a Caregiver. How often one goes into Caregiver or Little mode is dependent on the individual. DOMINANT LITTLES ~ A dominant little is a little that “calls the shots” in a DD/LG relationship, they still like to be taken care of and need the same amount of nurturing and love as any other little. SUBMISSIVES~ A submissive is a broad term that can encompass and be embodied by any little at any age. They enjoy being dominated and being taken care of. Keep in mind these are all very general and very basic archetypes of different types of littles. You can be more than one type of little or maybe none of these of all! What defines you being a little is not the terminology, just the fact that you are a little. If you don't feel as though you fit into any of these terms, do not fret! If there are any missing Little Types, please feel free to message me and I will add it on! If there is anything more I should add to any definitions, message me!

Actually, I've been thinking about this lately. I don't have a daddy and for some reason it seems the holidays seem to make not having one a bit worse. Let's see what I can come up with... 1. The structure. Knowing that you are going to talk to daddy at certain times and certain things are expected of you throughout the day. 2. The care and nurturing. Some is going to care to check on you. Did you sleep well? Eat? How are you feeling? Did you have a good day? Did you do anything fun? 3. I think just the way a daddy talks to you. Words and tone are important to me and I respond to it. Daddy voice and Dom voice and both real things.