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Don't "grow up" It's a trap!! Gonna stay little forever and ever!!!

There are soooo many littles over 40 it's really silly, but we kinda hide coz most daddies want littles who are younger, in their 20s or early 30s. It's difficult to hear all the time, so we don't talk about our age, instead we build friendships and see what happens. Best of luck in your searching!

Here's a couple more pictures I did.

A cute Dragon!!!

I am not going to give our exact ages, but my wife, who is a middle, is over 40, and I am over 50. We married when she was 26. Things have changed over the years. She went from Spongebob and stuffed animals when we first married to anime and playing on her phone now that she is older, but she is very much a middle. She tends to hover around 11 or 12 these days, as far as age regression goes. She thinks and behaves like she is 11, and is interested in things an 11 year old would would be interested in. And when she does act like an adult, it feels more like a 12 year old trying to act like an adult. Despite being over 40. It has become a lifestyle. She is basically permanently regressed to 11, and I treat her as if she were 11, as that is when she is happiest. And, quite frankly, when I am the happiest. As long as I am being a good daddy, she is well-behaved, loving, and affectionate. Give her love, attention, and food, and that takes care of most of her needs. When we married, she made me promise that I would allow her to be a child for life. And while I made mistakes along the way, I am doing my best to fulfill her desires. So being a little or middle while older is just fine... especially if it makes you happy.

I found this picture and it was super cute... so I put on some Star Trek (my favorite) and colored it tonight.

This truck reminds me of something my uncle had when I was a kid!

I stopped labeling myself with a Littleage recently. I'm an adult with cute hobbies. Other people's opinions about my regression don't really matter, as I'm not doing it for their benefit.

Hello , I am back ! Two stories - first one very quick and sweet. 1. A client that regularly comes in noticed I was a little down the other day - so the following day she came up to my teller window and smacked some gifts down. No words - just tossed the gifts at me , smiled and walked away. (I was stuck on the phone.) She made my day that day :3 It was really really sweet of her and they are PERFECT. A giant pack of Kuromi pens and a whole book of Kuromi themed sticky notes !!!! HOW CUTE AND PERFECT FOR WORK ✨😭 2. I get ten minute breaks at work so I usually go outside and vape and fuck around ok my phone. I go out to the little stoop by our drive up and ATM drive through and sit there but lately… on my second break of the day… there’s been someone sitting in my spot. They’ve offered the seat back to me and I deny it , I don’t mind standing. We’ve had small conversations here and there over the past month or so and I’ve learned they just moved recently from Alaska , they have no family around , and they kinda feel like an outcast in town. (My town admittedly is a little cold to outsiders and are extremely tight knit. We’re not mean , but also like.. why are you in our town ? lol ) They paint on rocks and write messages on the rocks or little pieces of paper and they hide them around town. I’ve told them how cool it is and I’ve told my coworkers about this person and how neat it is they’re spreading little bits of happiness with their rocks. The other day I went outside and found this ; That’s an example of what he does :3 They just leave little notes and rocks all over town. How fuckin cool is that ? Well today , I went outside on my second break. Over time I’ve learned their name so when I walked over to the stoop and saw them painting rocks I said “Hey , how’s it going Jet ?” He smiled at me and said he wanted to thank me for being a friendly face and encouraging them so much. They presented a handmade gift to me 😭✨ It was a little hand decorated baggy ! I talked with them for a while and they told me their father just passed away the other day - they got the phone call right after I walked away from him the other day to go back inside. He said that for some reason he felt like he was supposed to talk to me , I thanked them over and over again for my gift and hit my vape a few more times before my break was up. The bag was decorated like the tattoo on my right forearm 😭 rainbow leopard print ! Inside was a poem with their name and number , hand painted rocks , and a pin from where they are in Alaska ! How freakin cool. My coworker was joking around that I’m a deity 🤭people are always bringing me gifts and trinkets and hand made things hehehe. Im so blessed and grateful 🥲✨🫶🏼

@Daddy Bear 77 @LissyLu @Ariguin @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Beanie19 @kimmybunny @Aikko @TeenyRena @Kyuu_chan_san @MyMy Chapters 10-12 are now assigned. Please all of you check in here so I can make sure we are all doing ok. This is a fairly easy read so thinking of increasing the pace by a chapter or two. Let me know yalls thoughts. I will also be scedualing our first group discussion so be on the lookout for a pole. Happy reading.

@Daddy Bear 77 @LissyLu @Ariguin @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Beanie19 @kimmybunny @Aikko @TeenyRena @Kyuu_chan_san @MyMy Alright friends you know what time it is!!! Go ahead and read chapters 10-12! I will have questions ready within a day or two. I would love to hear from yall to make sure you are still with us so please check in in the Discussion group where I will also post!

This is the bestest season of the year! A time to celebrate all the warm, rich beauty of the earth as the crops are harvested and the trees left go of their burdens to make room for new growth! A time to prepare for the months of darkness and cold that will push people together indoors before we can burst back outside in joyous celebration of new life and warmer weather again! Time to be thankful for all the beauty, fun and abundance we experienced this year before taking a nice rest with those we love during winter! I love the season of autumn!

I like being "grown up". I gained so much freedom that I never had as a child, teen or young adult. Growing up and becoming an adult was scary at times but I'm happier now. And getting to be little or middle is really percious to me!

yes, and i hope i never do. i think restricting yourself into what society thinks is "being grown up/adult" is so narrow and depressing, i want no part in that. I can still go to work, pay taxes and do all those other adult responsibities without being "grown up" so to speak 😄

nuggies!!!! all the nuggies!!! *giggles*

I so mentally exhausted with everything that my physical exhaustion is at its peek. I have no where to go and I feel like I'm not wanted anywhere. I just want one person to talk to

hi, i'm new here and only a little but sometimes when i feel very alone it's just great to talk to someone so please if you just want to vent, you can do that with me ❤️

I just wanted to let all the littles know that Clare's jewelry store has a whole bunch of new clip on earrings that are absolutely adorable. If you're like me and can't get your ears pierced (for any reason, whether medical or religious or otherwise) Clare's has just rolled out a new line of animal themed clip ons! They're so cute and I just wanted to share!

I met my wife when she was 26. She's over 40 now. I'm over 50. So you are not alone.

I grew up, but I chose to have a child like innocence in all I do, which drives most grown-ups totally crazy! They don't know how I can be responsible and child-like at the same time.

I loved reading this! Thank you for sharing Thats what my partner tells me...kind of "You LARP pretty well as an adult most of the time"...although I am more mid-teens as my middle.

@JammyJamie Welcome! happy to have you with us!! @Journey thank you for sharing your lovely story of you and your wife! Welcome! @DaDinosaur there are most certainly lots of Littles here age 30 and above! For now I would simply suggest just trying to make friends! We have a lot of clubs, you might see if any of those interest you, and it's a good way to meet a lot of the regulars on the site. I would also recommend checking out the caregiver café forum, that's an excellent area to meet a lot of the more experienced caregivers on the site and ask questions! Welcome!

This is exactly how I feel I feel I dont really have a specific age, but more of a range or a developmental stage.

@Daddy Bear 77 @LissyLu @Ariguin @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Beanie19 @kimmybunny @Aikko @TeenyRena @Kyuu_chan_san @MyMy Hello friends! So it seems our chapters are going by quick. Soooo I am taking a pole to see if we should add a chapter or two every week. This will be up until next Wednesday so please weigh in with yalls thoughts. Pigtail

Does it really matter though? If she thinks she's 12, that's what she is. I am a middle who regresses to a 12 yo, but i enjoy baby things like pacis, bottles and diapies, but i also like more "grown up" things while in middlespace too. Still a proud 12 yo though! She might have a reason why that age range feels special/comfortable to her, and that's why she chose that. But i don't know her, so who knows, maybe she could still be figuring things out. i just don't think a specific little age really matters that much at the end of the day.

I love carrots and veggies cut into cute shapes like little flowers and stars!

I want to get a little backpack ASAP. The tiny ones that like HotTopic has! I want a kawaii pink lacie frilly or a Rilakkuma or something else equally cute. ☺️ It would have my blinged pacis (at least two!), a sippie, stickers!!!!!! A nice little cutie plushie, lippie smacks (chapstick), SNACKS AND CANDY! 🍬 I like gum to make bubbles 🫧 ! A little coloring set. Pink money to buy things

well last year i dressed up like angel 🏹 my mom gived me the idea xD ima blondie so it looked pretty nice, i get all sparkly with pixie dust (makeup glitterr) i think this year maybe ill be a pirate and i will qatch movies with my stuffies i don’t like lots sweets but i love chocolate 💞💝

hii there<33 a bit of my afternoon *-*

kori wants to say goodmornin ☆

Builds a habitat for the dinosaurs

I grew up. I'm just reclaiming my stolen childhood.

Hi. I'm James (Jamie). I'm 31 in a week. Lots of stuff happening in my little corner of existence. I finaly came out as trans to my husband about 2 years ago and my sibling about a year ago. Ftm (Trans man). They are both very supportive. I also told my husband about this a few months ago. About being little/pretending I'm little/wanting to be little with him. He was really supportive on that as well. I feel like it's even helped some aspects of our relationship. So, now he's my Bubbies! (my daddy) I cried while having that conversation! Haha When we play/have little time, I know I'm 3. I have nonverbal time and I use my paci. I feel SO MUCH BETTER when I have paci time. Like, I need it. Like, now that I've had it, I can't go back. I used to suck my thumb when no one was present before talking things through with him. I didn't even know this community was a real thing until I started researching what was "wrong" with me. I thought I was "strange" for wanting these things. But my Bubbies didn't find it strange before I even had words for it! (I love him so much💗) And now I know I'm not alone! I'm just a small part of this big wonderful community! I guess what I'm trying to say is, it took me so long to figure all of this stuff out about myself. But the feelings haven't changed. I've always wanted these things. I've just now started allowing myself to have them. * I feel more like myself. * I feel so validated. * I feel so loved. After growing up - abused/neglected/shamed for feelings out of my control - I'm finally FREE! Thank you for listening! 🦕❤️🦖 I'm always open to chat/message if y'all want to be friends!

More scarecrows!

Dino nuggies, happy meals and juice boxes, just to name a few. Or just regular food served on kiddy plates or stuff from kiddy lunch boxes.

Sweeties in general but my favourite for a little mood are Smarties, I loved them when I was little. For those outside the UK, like M&Ms but... flatter and softer?

Here is my coloring.

I'm going to agree and disagree with everyone just because I believe in looking at all sides of an issue. To me delusion in this case would be more based off of where and how this person was raised. If they are in Los Angeles, Boston, Dallas, then that 850K euro, $950k US, house may not seem that extreme. Where I live I can buy 20 acres of land and build a 3 bed/3 bath house with a playroom, pool, garage, and barn for under $950k. If you told someone in Hollywood you were building a million dollar house they would ask how poverty feels. If you told someone in a small rural area you were building a million dollar house they would think you were nuts or won the lottery and are wasting your money. Most people actually have no idea what the cost of houses in their area are unless they have been actively looking. And let's be real, most people nowadays rent because they can't afford to buy a house, the market is stupid expensive. Personally I'd rather buy land and build a home that is comfortable and spend the rest of that money on things that make my partner and I happy. Like adding a small hobbit house or cottage in the woods for playtime or just relaxing. Buy some animals to enjoy as company, maybe goats, sheep, highland cows, and have a small farm/petting zoo of my own. Take trips and make memories that we can cherish when we are old and can no longer travel. But to each their own. I also don't understand why someone needs to set a numerical value on a possession in order for it to be what they want. It would make much more sense to say I want a house that has all these things, and list the amenities you want. Cost is irrelevant if it has everything you want. $150k or $2.5m doesn't matter if it is your dream and you can afford it. That's like saying I won't eat at a restaurant that doesn't cost at least $500 for a meal. Then you are missing out on some of the best food you could ever get by thinking that way. To me any time you put cost over worth you are missing the point. I won't go into the ads because I don't feel the need to step on the toes of those with dreams. I love those who still dare to dream, if they work towards turning a dream into a goal and then a reality. I will say that maybe, just maybe, give that person with drive and ambition a chance and maybe you can build that dream life together. To me that would be more satisfying than finding someone that already has a dream life and just hopping into it, but that's just my opinion.

They also have sticker earrings that hold decently the first time. ♡

In many ways, the whole point of age regressing is to get away from adult concerns and burdens. A caregiver, on the other hand, has to think about these things when taking care of a little or middle.

I’m still reading and up to date , I just haven’t been feeling well sorry for the late response

TW- mentions of childhood abuse . . . . . . . Sometimes when I'm scrolling through social media, I come across posts that talk about DDlg type dynamics in a hurtful way and it make me anxious as someone relatively new to this space. I was abused frequently during my childhood and never got to experience tenderness from a parental figure- I have CPTSD from all the events that happened during that time. I always found comfort in the idea of a partner treating me like I was little and them having a parental role in my life. When I started dating my current boyfriend, he was into me calling him daddy and so I did. As time went on I confessed that I enjoyed calling him daddy because I enjoyed him taking that parental type role. Were very happy in our dynamic- Its not frequently secual. He loves to hold and carry me and spoil me with presents and has bought me items for this type of dynamic like pacifiers. I've seen the kind of stuff people say about this dynamic. That it's gross and pedophilic. I get worried that my boyfriend thinks that way. I know he doesn't and that he knows I just need that extra type of care and love. But I worry about what others think. I realistically know that what I consensually do with my partner is no one else's buisness, but I still have this nag in the back of my head.

Hey guys 👋🏼 As most of you know by now - I work at a financial institution. I work VERY closely with people about their personal finances and that can be a very sensitive thing for majority of people. Especially with deaths in the family , people being low income ect. My job can be mentally exhausting and draining. No matter how hard this career can be - it’s my favorite line of work I’ve ever been in and I think I want this to be a lifelong career. I absolutely LOVE helping others , especially my tight nit community small town. I’m very blessed to work in the town that I live in. Naturally - this means a lot of clients know me from inside work and outside work (community events and me just being a goober talking to people when I’m out and about.) I love spreading positive energy and being there for people through hard times , and what happens more than I realize is how much I help people without even knowing it until later - if at all. A client came in during a huge rush , everyone was busy and there was a line out the door. The gentleman sat down and let everyone else go in front of him and I was curious why he would do that. After him waiting almost 20-30 minutes - the building was clear (about 5 people walked in after him and formed a new line , and he did this in front of everyone in the building now.) and he came up to my desk. I was ready to start handling cash for him and he goes “Hey , slow down a second. I want your attention.” I was shocked and I was like I’m so sorry ! It’s really busy so I’m just geared up and ready to go , so you have something going on that you’d need to sit in a private cubicle for ? He shook his head and told me no , he just wanted to make sure I was paying attention. He pulled out three pieces of paper and kept them in his hands , and while it might not be word for word because I got so emotional … he said : “You have no idea how much you mean to me , and to this community. Our small town bank needed someone like you to finally show up - the envelope you gave me my cash in the last time you helped me said “spread joy and stay positive”. My son died 15 years ago on that day you helped me and gave me that envelope and that was my son’s motto. That day was very emotional and difficult for me and I was so curt with you that day , and you did nothing but treat me with love. My son only ever wanted to spread joy and positivity to others and he worked with the church helping the community doing exactly that. I cried and cried and remembered my son’s life motto through you. I brought you this picture , this saying my son and I used to say to people , and a picture of my deceased son. I hope you know how special you are and you are living proof that my son is still here with me everyday and so is his message he spread everywhere. Thank you for being the little angel you are.” I cried , he cried , he told my co workers and managers how special I am , then I continued to sob like a fucking baby. Even when my home life , work life is hard , the mental stress and exhaustion is too much … I still always choose to treat people with love , gentleness and the kindness I wish I would’ve been treated with my whole life. It’s not always easy , but moments of tenderness and pure love like I had with this gentleman … it just makes me want to be that much more kind and pure and spread my love as far as my arms can reach. Sure , I make business deals , I make over 1mm$ deals , I touch hundreds of thousands of dollars every day in my career. None of it matters. Moments like this with my clients is what truly matters to me. Always remember , being kind is worth it. You may never see the results - or you may see them a day later or weeks later. It’s always worth it. These are the pictures he left and quote / excuse me while I go cry some more over my lunch.

We would like to welcome everyone that reads this to our home and family. We know there are other places you can go and groups you can join so we do appreciate you choosing us. It is an honor and a privilege to be allowed to share this journey with you. We understand how important the people you surround yourself with and the environment you hang out in is to your development and growth as a person. These things help to shape you and can either be a blessing or a mistake, we wish to be the former. So we are happy you are with us. You will see us refer to this place as our home, our village, and the members as our family quite often. That is because that is what this place and these people mean to us. This is not just a site we log into to kill time and escape for a few minutes. And by us I do not mean the staff, I mean each and every one of us that shares a love for our community and our extended family. This is our home and we care about it and those that are with us. So to all of you we say hello and welcome and enjoy your time with us, you are home.

personally I think you're never too old to dress up! I'm 48 and I still do it every year! If you wanna go trick-or-treating go trick-or-treating! Who cares what anyone thinks, do what makes you happy! Or if there are any little fall festivals in your area lots of adults go to those and dress up. If you like seeing the costumes and you live somewhere where you can pass out candy dress up to do that. I don't currently live somewhere where I get trick-or-treaters, but when I was at my dad's house I dressed up to give out candy. I love interacting with all the kids and telling them how much I love their costumes! I used to throw a Halloween party every year. We did apple bobbing, rock painting, pumpkin painting, face painting. at one time I had a lot of friends with smaller kids so I set up games all over my yard, and set up a little Photo Booths. I actually had kids of all ages from my neighborhood pop in. even the adult adults were bobbing for apples! (no alcohol was even required ! haha) lol I still do the Photo Booths for the girls that I work with for holidays! I buy funny eyeglasses and props that I get on Amazon and everybody loves it! We take all kinds of pictures and just have fun with it! If you need a fun twist on watching movies I have a projector and a big blowup screen that I set up in my backyard to do scary movies! I light up the fire pit, then we chill and relax! They've been years when I've gotten together with my girlfriends for pumpkin carving, and toasting seeds. (there may have been some wine involved lol) If you need need fun activities for your little side, find Halloween coloring and activity books! You can find all kinds of great crafts on Amazon! The possibilities are endless! Be you and have fun!! 🥰

Here are my questions 5-8

Just thought I'd share my recommendation on my favourite "guilty pleasure" reads. If you like DDLG romances that aren't all about kinky sex and the like, I definitely recommend reading the DDLG series by Everly Raine. I've read all her books! They are my absolute favourite! There is some "spice" towards the end of the story, but it's mostly about the relationship. They're only on Kindle Unlimited, but there are some free ones. I've also been able to find most of them in PDF format which I was able to read for free. If anyone would like some recommendations or would like to talk about the books, feel free to message me. Happy Reading! 📚😊

tough one! there really is too much to choose from, if I were to pick just one I would probably say the Lake District was beautiful, I spent a day traveling Windemere and it was glorious, that being said anywhere in Scotland is gorgeous! example below!

I was reading comments today about the use of the word dominant and its interpretation. Here is an article that I posted last year - for what it’s worth. I think there is a lot of confusion about what a power exchange in a relationship is, and what are the specifics behind the role of dominant and submissive. In recent conversations I have witnessed how damaging that misusing of power can be (be it intentional or not) and the lasting effects a toxic relationship can have on someone. In a relationship, the Dom is laying down his various forms of conditioning be they classical or operant. He is working to remove the negative and implement the positive through reinforcement and repetition. Though if the Dominant doesn’t understand his role/ability and power and it’s more of a subversive kink than that inherent natural role to guide/provide, then negative effects can be embedded, and cause more harm than good. Anyhow, I digress - here is the original post. What Dominance means to me - what does it mean to you ? The word Dominant comes from the Latin Word “Domanari” it refers to “a ruler” or “ of government power”, in loose interpretation a voice of reason, a leader, a guide - an example that others choose to lead and desire to follow. There are other definitions, in science it references the more dominant gene. Though, as this is not a science class - I am sticking with the first example as it’s far more fitting for this generation. I am pleased that there is a site like this to give those of in the lifestyle a place to mingle and a platform to converse on. I also think it’s great to be able to browse the site, read articles and educate yourself. I feel that to become a better dominant, you should always learning and improving on who you are - that goes without in all areas of your life when you think about it. I surprised when I read profile comments like “ I have many years experience as a dominant, “I know when to yell and use strong words when needed but can also be soft and caring as well” or “ I will have to power to show you what you need” or “ I will teach you that need to follow rules”. Has the essence of the 20th Century Dominant become that of chest beating and bravado. Do you rule by force and demand submission - is the new age Dominant in essence a bully. Has this become the acceptable norm. I will be the first to admit, I am not a perfect dominant, I get frustrated and annoyed, I get angry and struggle to find the right answers. I am always seeking ways to grown and improve, I understand that will make me better at who I am and the role that I wish to convey. These are areas that I need to work on. I am a better Dom because I am privileged to have had some wonderful submissives in my life and they have taught me as much about who I am as I have taught them about themselves. What I do try to do though is be kind, be understanding, listen and remain calm. Dominance (to me) is about renaming calm and retaining control of a situation. It’s not about shouting, yelling or showing any indication that you are out of control. In my experience a key component of being a good Dom is that of always being in control. This is done by listening, assessing and understanding your role and feeding off the signals given off be her - these could be conscious and subconscious. You are the rational, mind, voice and hand that should be guiding - not tainting because of your own toxic agenda. It’s not about saying to your partner that you will “need” to do this - it’s about saying and conveying that you will “want”to do this. That you will want to follow my lead because you believe in my guidance, my knowledge and the care I have for your over all well-being. To those who meet me - I want experience you have to be positive. I want to set a high bar of what’s acceptable and what you should call acceptable. I want to be a good steward to the community and a facilitator of knowledge and good practice. As I said before, I am not an expert - I am merely a student, though as a student on his journey of knowledge to become a better dominant, I am very concern by the teachings and conveyors of this role. Especially on this site. It’s frustrating when I read about the loads of experience that some profess to have and wonder how this experience is measured and gauged. I am fascinated by string theory and watch loads of videos on YouTube - this doesn’t mean I will be heading the Quantum Physics program at NASA anytime soon. We need to educate, question and understand before the pendulum swings and the beauty of guidance, love and protection becomes a form of acceptable bullying and toxic behaviour. Thanks for the read Drew