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i’m a switch, but not a frequent switch. i enjoy being baby but i can be momma too. lately, my boyfriend has been baby a lot more than i’ve been baby. i love making him happy and looking after him and he’s always super happy when he’s little, but i want to be little sometimes too. i’ve been little for one night in the past month and i miss it. but he enjoys being little so much, it breaks my heart when i want to be baby but hes in little space. i know it’s an option for us both to be little, and he finds it adorable, but i want to be taken care of. i love him so much and he and i are both jealous types, so another person is kind of impossible. any advice?

I'm a little and I don't think my boyfriend really likes it very much... We've been together for about three years and I only came out to him maybe a year ago but I dont think he really likes having to take care of me. I'm very insecure when I'm big but it gets worse when I'm in my headspace, and I've tried to Express to him that I want his attention or just to tell me I did good at something. I had colored him a picture once in little space that was messy and outside the lines, he didn't say he was proud of me or anything like I see other daddies do. He just told me to color in the lines next time and didn't understand why I got upset. (I am an artist so I kinda understand why he would think it's bad compared to what I do in big space) He says I'm always good at making him feel better, but he can never return the favor and usually just leaves because he gets too upset... He's said that he's ashamed of me being a little before and that he doesn't want me to slip when we're out in public. I've tried to make a rules list and everything but he always forgets about it and he usually doesn't color or play with stuffies with me. He says it's cute and that he likes when I slip and I'm happy but he get irritated when I feel bad. Is it my fault? Should I just force myself out of little space more often? I really love him but I feel like the relationship got a whole bunch more difficult since I told him I was little, what should I do...? Distressed_Kitten

So because I am a new parent, we've had like no time to do Little Space, but the thing is, I really REALLY want to. How do I get my Daddy to let me regress and actually interact with me in little space? We put our daughter to sleep around 7-7:30, so it's not like we don't have time. He just never seems to want to play with me anymore. I'm in Kik groups with other littles, so I get to interact with other littles on a regular basis, and I get to read and color and play my DS and stuff like that, but you know what I'm saying, I need Daddy attention.

Hello! Not sure why I decided to turn to the internet, but here I am haha. As the title states, my "daddy" of four months decided to suddenly end things with me last night and I couldn't be more heartbroken. He was new to being a daddy and dom, however seemed to be natural at it. Things were very good between us, and he was really loving and affectionate. He didn't really enforce rules or anything, which upset me. (That's besides the point though). He never made any indication that being a "daddy" made him uncomfortable. I would check in with him regularly to see how he felt about it, and he always seemed positive and seemed to like it. Last night he suddenly called and said I was too much for him to handle, and he found the dynamic "gross" and me "disgusting." Before our relationship started, I told him what the dynamic was, and that I was into it. I told him of my separation anxiety and fear of him leaving. I told him everything. He seemed to take what I told him and just throw it in my face. I am so incredibly crushed by this. Has anyone else had to deal with a similar situation? Any tips on self care during this time? Thanks -Chloe

So, when me and my daddy started our relationship, we were fine and everything was perfect. A little bit later he told me how he used to be on the other side of the ddlg spectrum and was a little himself in a past relationship, and he also told me he still feels that way sometimes. I want to help him soooo badly, but I can't be dominant. I've tried so badly to be dominant to help him out, but it never worked. He tells me he can't vent to me or anyone about it. He even says the only one he can talk to to make him feel better is the person he used to be in a relationship with, and that hurts me so much. He says "You have no idea how much I've done for you" and "I just wish I could be myself around you. " and I WANT HIM TO BE HIMSELF AROUND ME! I want to be there for him, but I can't be a caregiver and it hurts me so fucking much that I can't do that for him. What do I do? Can someone help me or give me advice? Am I a terrible person because I can't take care of him?

Im really sad. My daddy and i have been fighting about a lot and my daddy really needs to feel okay right now. Problem is im not sure if ive been feeling okay. And when daddy tries to talk to me i get scared and i cry. I dont want to make it about me and i dont want to see my daddy hurting. I dont know what to do... i also have another problem too. I want to be obedient and listen to everything my daddy says but sometimes i just cant seem to. Why cant i if it is something i really want to do?? I think it would help my daddy and i be happier but i dont know how to always just shut my mouth. I dont really know how to talk about really important things either. I tend to just go silent and i know that doesnt help anything. Please help... i dont want to loose or dissapoint my daddy any more than i have and no matter how many times he tells me i wont loose him i cant help feeling like i will :'(

I've had a ldr daddy for several months who I used to get along great with, we clicked on a lot of things and have a lot of the same world views and everything, but recently I feel like we aren't connecting as well. Any advice?

Little Problems I wrote a list of problems littles face feel free to add more that you've encountered or for daddies write problems you've had with littles or faced being a daddy Spilled sippy cup Lost safety binkie or stuffie alone with no daddy dark and no lights things are too high up and can't reach them ripped safety blanket cut finger with scissors broken crayons ripped coloring page too much ate too much candy not enough sleep hangry

Hi! So, like many littles I love my stuffed animals...and I want more. But I have too many already, maybe. I still have a lot from childhood, plus many I have bought in the last couple years since discovering my little side. My problem is I can't resist a cute little face of a new stuffie...but I get too attached and can't get rid of my old ones. I have thought of donating them but I am so attached. It's silly I know. I don't have like hundreds or anything but I probably have at least 30. My question is how many is too many and how do I let go of those I no longer snuggle with or play with without feeling too sad? Thanks all!

Hello! So I have a predicament. I love diapers I love the soft feeling and the security of them. My daddy knows and he let's me wear them but he isn't really comfortable around them. He gets kinda squemish it seems and won't really touch it or aknowlege I'm wearing one. Since he isn't interested in them its fine since he let's me wear them. My problem is I don't want to make him uncomfortable when I do wear them. Doesn't anyone have any advice? Should I just let him pretend its not there and keep it as my lite secret under my clothes? I'm not sure how to approach this. We have talked about it and he is "ok" with them but then he changes the subject very quickly. Has anyone gone through this?

Hi everyone! I've been having this problem for a little while...I feel like I'm a bit too needy when I'm both little and big. I've been called too clingy and needy and annoying before by people I considered important to me, so its always a thought in my head now. I guess I feel like I'm being too needy when I want more attention than Daddy can give me. Like if I get sad while he is at work or baseball practice. Today I wanted him to sit next to me while we were working (me on my coloring, him on his work) and he said he couldn't and then told me to go play... I know Daddy is busy, but still he's not mean at all and he usually gives me so so SO much attention and affection but it makes me sad when he can't, cuz I feel like I'm asking for too much cuz he gives me so much already... He's always been the type of Daddy to answer my calls at the second ring, even when he is at work or sleeping (cuz he knows I need him if I call him without asking first). But I feel bad for calling in the first place... So my question is, am I being too needy? Do you ever feel the same way? How to you get over this feeling?

My daddy doesn't really get to talk over weekends so sometimes i have to go two to three days without talking to him what so ever. Does anyone have any help with keeping occupied while daddy cant talk?