Where did you all find your partner?

[Guest Bratty_little_princess]

Hey where did you all find your Mummy, Daddy or Little? 

just curious to how everyone meets  

[Guest pacibrat]

I found my ex-Daddy by accident. We were friends first and I didn't know he was a Daddy when we started flirting.  I knew I was little, but had been afraid to tell anyone because I thought they'd be horrified (at the time, I didn't know that communities like this existed and as a sexual little, I just felt I was a deviant).  He subtly let me know it was okay to tell him and the rest was blissful self discovery.  He's the only Daddy I've had.  I think I will meet my next Daddy online somewhere like this forum.  You can't really go on a regular dating site and talk about wanting to find a Daddy.

[MrJohnny]

I haven't found mine yet. All my previous were subs only. Found out it wasn't quite my thing. Then I found out about DDlg. Researched, found this Community, and the rest is future history.I am patient but persistent. At the right time she will pop up looking for me, and be found by me. In the meantime, this is home-away-from-home. I am comfy here.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2-how-did-you-meet-your-littledaddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/462-how-did-you-meet-your-daddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/566-where-did-you-meet-your-littles/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3442-i-cant-find-a-daddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/6013-how-to-find-a-daddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/8523-how-do-i-find-a-daddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12169-i-need-a-daddy/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12436-how-did-you-meet/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/23661-where-did-you-find-your-ddcg/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/25734-who-met-their-daddybabygirl-organically/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/27885-how-did-you-meet-your-current-so/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28175-how-did-you-meet-your-daddymommy/

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

I found my ex-Daddy by accident. We were friends first and I didn't know he was a Daddy when we started flirting.  I knew I was little, but had been afraid to tell anyone because I thought they'd be horrified (at the time, I didn't know that communities like this existed and as a sexual little, I just felt I was a deviant).  He subtly let me know it was okay to tell him and the rest was blissful self discovery.  He's the only Daddy I've had.  I think I will meet my next Daddy online somewhere like this forum.  You can't really go on a regular dating site and talk about wanting to find a Daddy.

So true!

[Guest MellieMeow]

[daddy1992]

I found my little one on tumblr lol 2 years and 6 month strong! also very glad she only lives like 45 mins from me  

[LittleKitten13]

I actually met papa through my ex....

[Leilei]

We were both active in modified car clubs and such.

Neither of us knew the other was a DD or little or had a BDSM interest when we first started dating.

Serendipity!

[Guest Ginger]

I met my Daddy through work!

[PrincessClara]

We met at a LARP many years ago and have been friends for forever. It wasn't until after we were married that I found DDLG and really figured out who I was and approached him about it. 

[Daddy's Meg]

Met online in the 90s playing RPing on AOL. ❤

[DaddysLittleMonkey]

I found mine on Reddit by posting nudes

We didn't know either of us was into DDlg when we started talking.

 

No regrets, I love him to pieces :3

Edited January 3, 2018 by DaddysLittleMonkey

[xpaciprincesss]

Met Daddy at a friend's party last February.

We didn't talk much through the night, but a couple days later he added me on Facebook and we started talking more. When we first hooked up, neither of us said anything about our likes but it was obvious there was sth more and we had excellent chemistry. Until one day when he called me "little one" and I melted, he said it ws pretty obvious I was a little but was too afraid to ask <3

[CuriousC2010]

[trvppydxddy]

I found my little on tumblr on a dating blog. I saw a picture of her and I immediately hit her up but at the time I didn't even know she was into ddlg. We talked for about 2 months and then she told me about it and I kept talking to her and she later became my girlfriend. The rest is history lol.

[DemureKitten]

[Little Illy]

Daddy waltzed into my life in chat in October 2016.

 

 I was in chat (like always) and he popped in and started chatting everyone up. There was something about his energy that caught my attention so I spat fire right back at him. It was casual and fun and like everything else you see in chat. But then, the next day, I realized he had messaged me - because of course I accepted his friend request the night before. And I felt a liiiiittle flutter in my stomach. And wouldn’t you know it… he got me right away because he commented on my igloo and on my title (Sapiophile). And thus our exchange began.

 

 That day we met in chat again. This was back when we had direct private messaging (think of FB messenger) and we started our own private chat. That was the longest, but quickest, most fun, yet most intense, chat I have ever had. In 4 hours we hit every major topic you can think of; we talked about philosophy, political views, views on marriage, childbearing, body type, travelling, schooling, psychology, kinks (in general), technology, music, movies, commitments, and everything else. I can honestly say, when we finally stopped chatting - because at that point, I wasn’t in main chat, it was just Daddy and me - I was so exhausted, my brain hurt because our conversation was so rapid and deep. It was amazing. And it was then that the initial hook sincerely sank in.

 

 I can’t honestly tell you how much we communicated back then. Why? It was too much. We quickly exchanged skype information, but didn’t video or audio until weeks later. Then when that wasn’t enough we did video. When that wasn’t enough, we downloaded Whattsapp and texted throughout the day. We had skype dates while watching documentaries, while listening to Alan Watts lectures, while discussing whatever we could think of. We revealed so much of ourselves that I thought… surely this wasn’t even happening. I am NEVER this open with something. But I was with MisterJ, because since day one, there was this Spark that drew me to him.

 

 I was graduating that semester and we decided that we had to meet. We clicked every single box for one another, we needed to be in the same place with one another to see if it was real, or all just internet magic. At some point, we aren’t even sure, we knew that this was it and we were going to be together. I had broken my cardinal rule committed myself to him by the end of that October and just knew he was my Daddy. So we made plans and it was decided I would fly over and stay with him for two months.

 

 But let me be honest. We weren’t vocally sure of anything. It was too good to be true. The distance was too heavy of a reality. We still didn’t know if we were compatible physically and mentally yet when in person. We didn’t know if we could live together - and we knew we couldn’t have an online relationship permanently - we both DO NOT believe in LDRs, at all. There was doubt. There was hurt feelings. There was crying and torture. But it was because we felt so deeply for one another that, well, how could there not be a rollercoaster?

 

 So. We bought a ticket, made arrangements, and I flew out. And those next two months? Were literally the happiest months of my life. And (as he has told me) they were for him too. We finally realized we clicked on every level. We stayed up all night talking and opening up more and more until finally, there was nothing left that the other didn’t know. Now… we both are stubborn and strong-willed so this was not the honeymoon phase - this was reality. We fought over stupid stuff sometimes because, well… we are human. But every fight brought up closer together because we made it paramount to ALWAYS trust and practice our belief of 100% communication. So though we fought, we grew stronger every day.

 

 But then… I had to come back to the states. But it didn’t matter. Because while I was there, Daddy had asked me to spend the rest of my life with him. And when Home is asking you to stay, you say yes.

 

 The moment I got in the car and went to the airport, we knew that I would be back. The states wasn’t home. He was. Daddy was my home. And I was his. So we knew it was only a matter of time.

 

 I have been in the states for eight months now. It it has been the most torturous experience of my life. I have cried more, my health has declined and my stress has been up… I literally have silver hair now (dusted in). And its not because I am so dependent on Daddy. It is because I have finally found a place that made me happy - a geographic location that made me feel safe and energetic. A town that made me feel proud to be there. And of course, my Daddy who is my very best friend. It made me realize that I had been living a hollow life all these years because I knew I was missing something. And it was my ability to take control of my life. My life has always been dictated by others, even when I have been making the decisions. But Daddy help liberate that in me. I was now taking control of my life. I was now going to do things that made me happy. I was now going to do things I have always wanted to do (outside of finding my partner). I was now going to be ME.

 

 So now… eight months later. I have my visa. I have my plane ticket. And I have boxes around me. I leave the states in 2 weeks! And I get to be with Daddy once more. We get to find a house together. We get to build a life together. And I know, trust me I know, it is going to be so hard. I am literally moving across the world. It will be the hardest phase of my life. But I know it will be the happiest.

 

 I have waited for so long. Dreamt of finally being able to reveal and be my true self. To not have to hide who I was, to fear my partner running away or fear my partner simply not being able to measure up. I have been waiting to let me embrace my identity on my own and be proud of who I am. Finally, finally, finally.

 

 I love my Daddy with all my heart and he is perfect for me, even when we don’t see eye to eye. I love this man and I couldn’t believe I was lucky enough to have him stumble upon me.

 

 And I can honestly say… thanks to the DDlg Forum, I am able to finally, finally have my Daddy..

[plumflower]

My Daddy and I met by chance. We were both on a role-playing site, one that is now lost to me, but at the time I had another Daddy. That Daddy wasn't responding to me on Skype. I'd thought that it was because he was busy at work and as a good little you shouldn't bombard Daddy's Skype with too many messages. My muse was all but gone and so I popped into the site's chat soon where if I remembered correctly my current Daddy had just entered. I was admin on the site and remembered approving him so I went and said hi. He'd mentioned that he was a mechanic and I made a passing comment that mechanics were sexy. I didn't stick around too long after that.

 

A few days later he sent me a pm and it was nice and sweet. He'd signed it, your friendly neighborhood mechanic. We got to talking and planning a to set in the 1930s which was later moved to the 1950s. After a few days, my then current Daddy, the one ignoring me, broke this off because he found someone closer to him. The LDR came to an abrupt halt and even though it hasn't been a full fledged relationship, he'd been Daddy and I'd been kitten. It hurt bad...worst than any rejection or end had before. It was the first time I'd ever cried so hard and so much my tears burned my cheeks. I could barely functioned.

 

I logged on and wrote my current Daddy an apology explaining that I was depressed and couldn't write for him because I was scared of the sadness overwhelming the love story our characters were embarking on. He asked why and I told him honestly that I'd lost my Daddy and I am a homeless kitty. To my surprised he confided that he had recently lost his slave and knew what I was going through. He wanted me to know he was there if I needed to talk.

 

That's all he did. Talk.

 

There were other Daddies vying for me but they immediately went for the jugular and promised grandiose promaclations of happiness and horniness. He just talked and wanted to be my friend. I asked him to be my protector so that I didn't throw myself into the den of hungry guys. Respectfully, he urged me to find a Daddy and a new home while becoming my friend.

 

I pursued him but he refused and s stayed a protector. We talked a lot! I was lost and couldn't see what was happening. I didn't get that he was showing his interest already. That all started April 4th, 2017 and we're still together. I love Daddy and he loves me and all my neediness and faults.

[Guest bunnybear11]

Me and daddy met through a mutual friend, a friend who'd moved away and I hadn't seen in years, and even the fact we met that day was kind of a miracle. He happened to be going to a party in my neighborhood though and he called me saying he'd stop by so we could hang out for a while.

 

He was showing me a picture of the boy he was hooking up with and next to him was another boy and I said "hahah he's okay but this other one is cuter", and that was that, we didn't talk about it anymore.

 

We'd made plans to go to a bar the next night (which is so rare because I literally never leave the house), and after convincing my parents to take me (I still don't drive heheh) I showed up there, and guess who was with my friend, the boy from the picture. And me being me, I was super scared and shy, but my cousin and her girlfriend were there with us and I ran into some old friends too, so I was a bit more at ease.

 

I go too excited about running into my old friends tough and ended up kinda ignoring the boy, and it wasn't until later that we ended up hooking up.

 

And after that we started talking everyday, and even on our first dates I just knew we were meant to be, I just knew I wanted that "getting to know each other" phase to be over and I wanted to be together with him forever.

[Guest kddlg]

Daddy waltzed into my life in chat in October 2016.

 

 I was in chat (like always) and he popped in and started chatting everyone up. There was something about his energy that caught my attention so I spat fire right back at him. It was casual and fun and like everything else you see in chat. But then, the next day, I realized he had messaged me - because of course I accepted his friend request the night before. And I felt a liiiiittle flutter in my stomach. And wouldn’t you know it… he got me right away because he commented on my igloo and on my title (Sapiophile). And thus our exchange began.

 

 That day we met in chat again. This was back when we had direct private messaging (think of FB messenger) and we started our own private chat. That was the longest, but quickest, most fun, yet most intense, chat I have ever had. In 4 hours we hit every major topic you can think of; we talked about philosophy, political views, views on marriage, childbearing, body type, travelling, schooling, psychology, kinks (in general), technology, music, movies, commitments, and everything else. I can honestly say, when we finally stopped chatting - because at that point, I wasn’t in main chat, it was just Daddy and me - I was so exhausted, my brain hurt because our conversation was so rapid and deep. It was amazing. And it was then that the initial hook sincerely sank in.

 

 I can’t honestly tell you how much we communicated back then. Why? It was too much. We quickly exchanged skype information, but didn’t video or audio until weeks later. Then when that wasn’t enough we did video. When that wasn’t enough, we downloaded Whattsapp and texted throughout the day. We had skype dates while watching documentaries, while listening to Alan Watts lectures, while discussing whatever we could think of. We revealed so much of ourselves that I thought… surely this wasn’t even happening. I am NEVER this open with something. But I was with MisterJ, because since day one, there was this Spark that drew me to him.

 

 I was graduating that semester and we decided that we had to meet. We clicked every single box for one another, we needed to be in the same place with one another to see if it was real, or all just internet magic. At some point, we aren’t even sure, we knew that this was it and we were going to be together. I had broken my cardinal rule committed myself to him by the end of that October and just knew he was my Daddy. So we made plans and it was decided I would fly over and stay with him for two months.

 

 But let me be honest. We weren’t vocally sure of anything. It was too good to be true. The distance was too heavy of a reality. We still didn’t know if we were compatible physically and mentally yet when in person. We didn’t know if we could live together - and we knew we couldn’t have an online relationship permanently - we both DO NOT believe in LDRs, at all. There was doubt. There was hurt feelings. There was crying and torture. But it was because we felt so deeply for one another that, well, how could there not be a rollercoaster?

 

 So. We bought a ticket, made arrangements, and I flew out. And those next two months? Were literally the happiest months of my life. And (as he has told me) they were for him too. We finally realized we clicked on every level. We stayed up all night talking and opening up more and more until finally, there was nothing left that the other didn’t know. Now… we both are stubborn and strong-willed so this was not the honeymoon phase - this was reality. We fought over stupid stuff sometimes because, well… we are human. But every fight brought up closer together because we made it paramount to ALWAYS trust and practice our belief of 100% communication. So though we fought, we grew stronger every day.

 

 But then… I had to come back to the states. But it didn’t matter. Because while I was there, Daddy had asked me to spend the rest of my life with him. And when Home is asking you to stay, you say yes.

 

 The moment I got in the car and went to the airport, we knew that I would be back. The states wasn’t home. He was. Daddy was my home. And I was his. So we knew it was only a matter of time.

 

 I have been in the states for eight months now. It it has been the most torturous experience of my life. I have cried more, my health has declined and my stress has been up… I literally have silver hair now (dusted in). And its not because I am so dependent on Daddy. It is because I have finally found a place that made me happy - a geographic location that made me feel safe and energetic. A town that made me feel proud to be there. And of course, my Daddy who is my very best friend. It made me realize that I had been living a hollow life all these years because I knew I was missing something. And it was my ability to take control of my life. My life has always been dictated by others, even when I have been making the decisions. But Daddy help liberate that in me. I was now taking control of my life. I was now going to do things that made me happy. I was now going to do things I have always wanted to do (outside of finding my partner). I was now going to be ME.

 

 So now… eight months later. I have my visa. I have my plane ticket. And I have boxes around me. I leave the states in 2 weeks! And I get to be with Daddy once more. We get to find a house together. We get to build a life together. And I know, trust me I know, it is going to be so hard. I am literally moving across the world. It will be the hardest phase of my life. But I know it will be the happiest.

 

 I have waited for so long. Dreamt of finally being able to reveal and be my true self. To not have to hide who I was, to fear my partner running away or fear my partner simply not being able to measure up. I have been waiting to let me embrace my identity on my own and be proud of who I am. Finally, finally, finally.

 

 I love my Daddy with all my heart and he is perfect for me, even when we don’t see eye to eye. I love this man and I couldn’t believe I was lucky enough to have him stumble upon me.

 

 And I can honestly say… thanks to the DDlg Forum, I am able to finally, finally have my Daddy..

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