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@RoseyLittle @NickyMoon @MissNMTX @kimmybunny @Zina @SquirtleSquad @mecwmello @littlegala @browneyedgirl Hello all its that time!!! We are going to start with 3 chapters but I will check in and we may up it if everyone wants. So for this week read the prologue and chapter 1 and 2. Normally assignments will go out on Wednesday and I usually have questions up by Sunday. Let me know if yall have any questions. @DaddysCosmicBunny @BabyGirlEmber I havnt heard from yall so we got started. Please let me know if you are still planning on reading with us.

💬 What Is Ghosting? Ghosting means suddenly cutting off all communication with someone—no replies, no explanation, just silence. It often happens through DMs, dating apps, or social media. ⚪ Why People Ghost (3 Common Reasons) 1. Avoiding Conflict: They fear awkwardness or hurting someone’s feelings. 2. Loss of Interest: They no longer feel connected or engaged. 3. Feeling Overwhelmed: Stress or emotional burnout makes them withdraw. 💔 How Ghosting Affects the Person Ghosted Confusion and self-doubt 😕 Feelings of rejection 💭 No closure, lingering questions ❓ Anxiety about future relationships 💬 🌱 Coping with Being Ghosted Acknowledge your feelings — it’s okay to feel hurt. Don’t overanalyze — their silence reflects *them*, not your worth. Lean on friends or support — talk it out. Refocus on self-care — do what makes you feel grounded. Set healthy online boundaries — protect your emotional space. How to End Things Respectfully (Instead of Ghosting) ✨ Be kind, clear, and honest: “I’ve enjoyed chatting, but I don’t feel this is the right connection for me.” ✨ Use “I” statements: “I need some time for myself right now.” ✨ Keep it short, gentle, and respectful. ✨ Remember: clarity is kinder than silence. 💡Final Thought Ghosting may feel like the easy option—but honest communication builds empathy, trust, and maturity online. 💛

Thank you for trusting us enough to share all of this. Truly. The amount of courage it takes to open up while you’re in the struggle, while everything feels heavy and dark, is enormous, even if it doesn’t feel that way to you right now. What you wrote is honest, brave, and incredibly human. I want you to know that you’re not alone in this pattern. So many people, far more than you’d ever guess, feel exactly what you’re describing: needing support the most right when it feels hardest to reach for it… worrying about being “too much”… fearing that showing the darker moments will push people away. That doesn’t make you broken; it makes you human and sensitive. And those qualities, even when they feel like burdens, are actually signs of how deeply you care. It also makes complete sense that past experiences have taught you to hide your pain. When you’ve been celebrated only for being the “happy, bubbly” version of yourself, it trains you to think that your darker moments are unwelcome. But the people who truly care about you, the ones who deserve a place in your support system, want all of you, not just the polished parts. You don’t have to present a guidebook or have the perfect words. Reaching out can be as simple as: “Hey, I’m having a rough day. Can you check in with me?” or “I don’t need solutions, I just don’t want to feel alone right now.” It’s okay if your voice shakes when you ask. It’s okay if you cry. It’s okay if you don’t know exactly what you need. Support doesn’t require perfection, it just requires connection. And you are not “too much.” You are someone who is trying their best while carrying something heavy. People who care about you don’t want the edited version of your life; they want the real one, even when it’s shadowed. Learning to stop pushing people away is a process, not a switch you flip. You can start very small: Send a single message to someone you trust. Practice saying one honest sentence about how you feel. Let yourself receive something without apologizing for it. Little steps count. They build the muscle. You deserve support. You deserve softness. You deserve people who stay, even in the dark. And the fact that you’re here, reaching out, tells me you’re already moving toward that. One day, you’ll look back at this version of you with so much compassion and pride for how hard you fought to show up for yourself. You’re not doing this alone, even right now. You’re doing better than you think. Keep going. 💛

@RoseyLittle @NickyMoon @MissNMTX @kimmybunny @Zina @SquirtleSquad @BabyGirlEmber @mecwmello @browneyedgirl @littlegala (This is my current participation list. If you dont see your name I dont have you added and ypu need to contact me!) Hello all Pigtail book wurm extraordinaire here again! It is that time!!! Another vote for our next group read. Yall almost unanimously wanted something more involved and intense so I have provided! I still tried to give some variation but these will all be longer more involved reads often with more mature themes. If these arnt your cup of tea we will see you on the next one (most likely a modern day sappy one! No magic). I have tried to provide a even better description for each this time. Since they are more intense if you have alot of serious triggers please look up a full list for your selection. Each person can vote once and if needed I will do a tie break vote. Pole will be up a week, please only vote if you are in NNC and plan on reading. OPTIONS: Option 1: Fairydale by Veronica Lancet Paranormal Romance TRIGGERS: (A few of the more intense ones please look up full list if you have alot of triggers because this has many): Attempted SA, loss of a child, blood play, torture, violence and mass death, and self harm. Blurb: Fairydale is a dark gothic historical romance with horror, paranormal & fantasy elements. This is NOT a traditional love triangle. It features a villainous love interest that would end the world for his beloved and an all-encompassing love story spanning millennia. This is not suitable for anyone under the age of 18. Please check the triggers before reading. Pages: 772 📖📖📖📖 Option 2: Heir by Sabaa Tahir Fantasy Romance TRIGGERS: (One of a few but less triggers by far than Option 1): Genocide, war, loss of a child, grief, and torture Blurb: Beloved storyteller Sabaa Tahir interweaves the lives of three young people as they grapple with power, treachery, love, and the devastating consequences of unchecked greed, on a journey that may cost them their lives―and their hearts. Literally. Pages: 484 📖📖📖📖 Option 3: Night Market by Jesikah Sundin Fae Fantasy Romance TRIGGERS: (Seems to have low triggers): Grief, violence, psychological abuse, and trauma. Blurb: A mortal seer enslaved by a traveling faerie market. A Raven shifter forced to marry to save his Caravan tribe. And a future not even the cards could predict. Pages: 548 📖📖📖📖 Option 4: Noticadia by Keri Lake Dark Academia Gothic Romance TRIGGERS: (Seems to have a fair list but less than option 1) Murder, child abuse, SA, torture, and autopsy scenes. Blurb: a dark academia gothic romance about a young woman who enrolls at the prestigious Dracadia University to find a cure for her mother's mysterious illness, only to become entangled in a forbidden relationship with her enigmatic and cold professor, Devryck Bramwell, also known as "Doctor Death" Pages: 682 📖📖📖📖 Option 5: The Undertaking of Hart and Mercy by Megan Bannen Fantasy Romance Light Hearted TRIGGERS: (medium number of triggers from description) Autopsy and body parts, blood/gore, gun violence, cancer, and animal death. Blurb: a lonely marshal named Hart and a competent undertaker named Mercy who initially despise each other. They anonymously become pen pals, forming a tentative friendship through letters, unaware they are corresponding with the person they most dislike in real life. Pages: 449

@RoseyLittle @NickyMoon @MissNMTX @kimmybunny @Zina @SquirtleSquad @mecwmello @browneyedgirl @littlegala Hello all!!! The first chapters are officially up!!!

I have an imaginary one lol he’s called Sebastian

That's one of the reasons I became a Mommy Dom, because I wanted to feel the love I never received and to be able to love those around me. We all deserve love and we are worthy of being loved. When I was single I would talk to myself the way I would a little, because I needed a reminder that I wasn't broken and I definitely wasn't bad. What a beautiful community we truly have here ❤️

@LissyLu @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Aikko @MyMy @Zina @RoseyLittle @Married_Lg Alright friends.... go ahead and finish the book! I will be giving an extra week for folks to finish but you are free to read till the end. I will be making a topic for those who finished to give a reveiw! Enjoy!

It honestly is nice to see people being able to relate and reading bout the experiences. Brings me a lot of comfort 💛

I like having only a few chapters to worry about that way I don't get overwhelmed and feel bad because i'm a terrible procrastinator lol. The 2-3 chapter reads are also so nice since I do most of my reading at work so being able to knock out the chapters in the few hours of "down time" I have at work are so nice too!

I have it!! It was on my TBR too so I just had to return some kindle unlimited books to get it 🤭

@RoseyLittle @NickyMoon @MissNMTX @kimmybunny @Zina @SquirtleSquad @BabyGirlEmber @mecwmello @browneyedgirl @littlegala @DaddysCosmicBunny Alright friends we have enough votes in that even the few who havnt voted wouldnt change the outcome, so our book this time is Nocticadia by Keri Lake! Feel free to purchase and over the next couple days I will be setting up the topics so yall will want to familiarize yourself with them especially if you havnt done a group read with us before. Please check in here when you have the book and are ready to go.

I had never thought of it that way, but you all put words on how I feel. I do have an internal CG! That’s soooooo helpful to realize. For me, it feels like a soothing voice inside my head that helps me take one thing at a time, reminds me to take breaks and to take care of myself. If I had to describe it, I would say my internal caregiver is more like an older (and wiser) version of myself, taking care of my actual self. Thank you all for this topic and all of your replies ❤️

The link below explains in detail what a BIOS is. What it is in very basic terms is a set of instructions on a small chip that checks the basic running of the PC and allows the Operating System to load https://www.lenovo.com/us/en/glossary/what-is-a-bios/?orgRef=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F&srsltid=AfmBOooncHKbJJQxFPh2BNsxFZMYcGftejJ9iYRnC_nA1mFvM6ypq3cb Some people don't like that some OS (Operating System) providers, like microsoft, force their changes on users. Sometimes they take good things away and add functions of little to no use for most users. The link below explains what an OS is. It basically allocates computer resources like memory, graphics, processing power or storage space (hard drive) to software you might install. It is what allows you to interact with the programs you install. It also attempts to keep you and your data safe in a world where threats exist. https://www.ibm.com/think/topics/operating-systems

Trigger warnings: themes of abuse I just wanted to reach out and connect to let you know there are absolutely people here who hear you and how hard all these pieces are. Ghosting (unless we are talking putting on a ghostly costume and going booooo) can be so harmful. I often have to hold friends or clients when they experience this from others. It’s sad how often it is. Most people don’t do well with either conflict, or endings. They are hard and so they are avoided. And unfortunately the internet makes it really easy to avoid. Even a simple ‘I don’t feel the connection but I wish you the best’ is avoided. For myself, I try to remember most of it is anxious avoidance on the parts of others, from their own wounded parts. Aaaand sometimes it’s just plain inconsiderateness. But it is completely reasonable that it hurts you, and that you expect more. You deserve to be treated with integrity. You have the right to ask for that. And I’m so sorry your experiencing it. I wanted to offer that having a temporary caregiver (or some pre set boundaries) for some, is a beautiful option. Especially in windows of time when you know you’re going to be in the grind and need that extra voice to help you. For myself, because of the trauma I grew up in, I didn’t date at all when I was younger. I was very terrified of men. In university the first dynamic I ever connected to was a discipline dom, with no romantic or sexual elements. Totally platonic. He was married and deeply in love with his non-kinky wife. She loved him and gave him permission to connect in non sexual dynamics. She became close friends of mine. And having him was the first time in my life I started really taking care of myself and it moved me towards therapy and a lot of amazing healing. He was a caregiver to me in many ways. It allowed me to be my best self in school. And he was the first man who taught me men can be safe. I got to witness his beautiful love for his partner and how happy they were. With his support, I eventually started dating for the first time and connected to my first personal/dynamic relationship. I even talked to him about how I would know when I was ready and felt safe enough to have consensual sex with my first partner. In terms of how we did it, I had rules and a system of punishments/rewards, we met at least every two weeks for dynamic, talked often in chat, but we also just did things for friendship and bonding. And I became a part of their friend group and actually met my first partner/daddy through that. Keeping it platonic was not difficult for either of us. And it fed both of us what we needed. We both needed that boundary. And it even supported his marriage. And we ended it naturally when it came time and remained friends. In the beginning I used to feel worried about me getting so much out of our connection, and somehow “using” him. But he loved to remind me just how deeply good it feels for him to be needed. And how the same way it soothes me, it soothes him. I also wasn’t sure of if I could be in a dynamic and not, well…fall in love? Or get mixed up by feelings. But for us it worked. I did love him, as a friend and as a caregiver. But that never shifted into anything else. I think the thing that really helped us. Is we both wanted the same boundaries. And we were able to be very clear and communicative from the very beginning. I hope this helps a little bit to normalize what you are maybe looking for right now. And I’m sure others in this space have wisdom or stories too. It’s completely okay to do things temporary and/or platonic however you need. It would be your dynamic. There is no one way or right way to do this stuff. ♥️

I love this, I always thought it was weird I wouldn't take care of myself without my internal cg telling me to. It just feels depressing until then. When I was single, it felt more like a mothering side of me but now I picture it coming sweetly from my fiancé. It makes me happy to imagine but sad if I think about it too much because he would ever say those things. I'm happy with acceptance though, I don't need him to participate even if I'd like him to. But maybe one day... 🙂

I just have to say, I felt this moment of awe reading this thread, the collective creativity, vulnerability and wisdom is just beautiful. It can be so powerful when we connect to our inner child work, especially through an IFS lens or any way where we internalize a caregiving energy/role or reparent ourself through our adult ego state. I did many years of IFS with EMDR in my own trauma therapy journey. And I definitely needed the creation of an internal caregiver part. I learned to be able to listen to that part’s soothing and guiding voice when needed, and they are always in my imagined safe space when I need it. I’ve noticed over the years that they got me through periods of being alone as sub/littles too. Like it was this part of me that reminded me to eat or take good care of myself. I actually went out and got a stuff bear Mr. Top, like a gift from this part of myself. I’ve had Mr Top for about 18 years, through different relationships. But this internal caregiver part is a consistent that never goes away. Since being with my Daddy, he added a voice message into my bear from him. But he still ultimately represents the part of myself that will never abandon me. ♥️

Hi there!! 💖🧃✨ princess snack time of today 💐 i <33 fruitss, mango is amazing :0

@LissyLu @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Aikko @MyMy @Zina @RoseyLittle @Married_Lg Be aware folks that our discussion over most of the book (through chapter 32) will be this Sunday October 26th from 7-8 pm PST (reach out if you need to know what time your time!) I will be making a calendar event for it as well. Per usual we will be in out chat linked below. Can't wait to see you! Pigtail https://www.ddlgforum.com/chatbox/room/4-pigtails-playpen-reading-chat/

@LissyLu @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Aikko @MyMy @Zina @RoseyLittle @Married_Lg Pigtail here with questions from chapters 25-28!!! It was a busy week but remember that saying abput adscense and the heart? As a result I think this weeks questions are excellent and there is even an extra one. Per usual remember to spoil and post in the link below!

We would like to welcome everyone that reads this to our home and family. We know there are other places you can go and groups you can join so we do appreciate you choosing us. It is an honor and a privilege to be allowed to share this journey with you. We understand how important the people you surround yourself with and the environment you hang out in is to your development and growth as a person. These things help to shape you and can either be a blessing or a mistake, we wish to be the former. So we are happy you are with us. You will see us refer to this place as our home, our village, and the members as our family quite often. That is because that is what this place and these people mean to us. This is not just a site we log into to kill time and escape for a few minutes. And by us I do not mean the staff, I mean each and every one of us that shares a love for our community and our extended family. This is our home and we care about it and those that are with us. So to all of you we say hello and welcome and enjoy your time with us, you are home.

This is such an interesting topic! I've only recently started doing inner child work and reparenting, but I've always had imaginary caregivers in my fantasies. Like, TV or book characters with strong caring and nurturing vibes. I imagine them comforting me, helping me calm down when I'm stressed, and guiding me through difficult situations. It feels weirdly like I've externalised an internal caregiver by projecting it onto a character. Does that even make sense?! I'm starting to integrate these characters into my own system by learning that I've always been the one generating these fantasies, and therefore taking care of myself. My therapist calls it my 'wise self,' which I really like. Thank you for opening up this discussion!

Alright folks this is where most of the day to day chat will go on! I will post important stuff here as well as the Important posts topic so yall dont miss it. You may discuss anything in the book here the week after it is assigned just make sure to use spoilers that state what page number it is from. Happy chatting!

I agree!!! The last two were good but my tastes lie much darker 🤣🤣🤣 so this is REALLY GOOD. But thats is a good sign it means we are getting good variety between books which is perfect. Also the Alex meme was PERFECT 🤣🤣🤣

Loving it so far!! It captured me right away, finding this one much harder to put down at the chapter limits than the last one. Oh the willpower!!

@RoseyLittle @NickyMoon @MissNMTX @kimmybunny @Zina @SquirtleSquad @mecwmello @browneyedgirl @DaddysCosmicBunny Alright folks its time to check in! Let me know how the first few chapters are going for ypu please since new assignments come out tomorrow!!! Remember if I dont hear from folks weekly I remove them from pings.

I wanna know if some of y'all have thought of or are using an (IFS) Internal Family System (or something close to it) as a way to cope without having an actual caregiver. Like having a mature presence in your mind, a fleshed out one that acts as a caregiver to your younger part of your self? This have been the case for me for years (and I'm talking more than a decade) although the mature/CG part of my psyche isn't perfect, they took their role seriously and have helped me in soothing myself for years. (Using They to refer to my Internal CG) How they came to be isn't something that I could explain clearly as they came out of nowhere after a traumatic event. I think they developed naturally rather than me being consciously/intentionally making a "Caregiver" part of me. Personally though? I think everyone has a mature "part" of themselves in their brain. It just depends on how active they are in your life and psyche. I get to have a Caregiver that's curated for ME and my needs which helped me lots in navigating life as a whole(which I do talk to, sometimes verbally or through writing letters to them—which may sound crazy but it did help me greatly in maintaining stability. Stability is something that is a luxury for most who went through a very traumatic childhood). They can never replaced an Actual physical CG (someone that you could actually bond with in every sense) but they helped me in the process of getting into any kinds of relationships by discerning the red flags in people I meet and avoiding getting myself (the body and mind) hurt— which little me finds hard because they're too trusting and gullible (ಥ⁠╭⁠╮⁠ಥ) I'm opening this discussion in hopes of getting people (who've done something similar or close to) to discuss about it and talk about how our internal caregiver have helped us. Think of it as us honouring our unseen heroes (⁠灬⁠º⁠‿⁠º⁠灬⁠)⁠♡

Yay so glad you liked it friend!!! Thank you so much I appreciate it and know its hard. I just really want us all to stick tpgether and exsperience it as a group. Its hard for me too so I do at least two books at once! I make the non book club book a really really appealing one so I dont mind stopping the book club book when I finish the chapters. Thats just my hint!

Buhahaah love this as it is me too. Enjoy friend

I often find people who say things like this... especially in regards to moving forward is to simply forgive. That's often impossible depending on the scars they've made. You can forget but never forgive and even still you'll never forget. Truly, healing is prioritizing you and your little humans and move forward with your head held high and hope and faith in yourself for a good future without harm being done to you or them. Healing doesn't always include forgiveness. To share, I'm adopted because my Birth mother was heavy in drugs. She passed this year and many people suggested I forgive the abandonment because I would heal. There s still anger, frustration, pain, and deep anxiety but you know what! It doesn't rule me. I won't let it. I move forward knowing that my boundaries have kept me sane and safe and moving on with my life will not include forgiveness but it includes her being put aside for a happier me and life. I hope you get to have that. You deserve it. I often, when people try to share their thoughts on that touchy topic for me is very honestly say that I'm not seeking advice for that and I've made my decision. I dunno if you can do that but strong boundaries around that topic has brought me peace.

Oh wow... this hit very close to home. I'm so sorry you've been through this. I can actually say that I understand because it seems we've had similar experiences with an abusive person. When I was going through therapy the idea of forgivness came up and I hope it's okay if I share my thoughts on this. The way that I understand it is that forgiving the person that did these awful things isn't about them at all, it's about you and your healing. Forgiveness is about changing your emotions and your actions regarding the person that hurt you. Forgiveness is not about "letting it go" and the abuser facing zero concequences for their actions! It's also not about reconciliation because that's not always desirable or even possible. Perhaps you need to figure out how you can forgive this person? For me, it means not giving in to strong feelings of anger and resentment (sometimes I feel so angry at what he did to me and how unfair it was that he got off with such little punishment!), not being bitter and allowing that to seep into relationships with others (my now husband doesn't deserve for me to react to him as though he were the abuser from my past) and it means not trying to create difficulty in my abusers life (boy! would I love to message his "new family" and lay it all out). Of course this is a complicated and painful topic. It's also unique to your individual circumstances. Perhaps you need to have a bigger conversation with your eldest child about forgiveness and what it means to you and to them?

Was hoping to get a physical copy of the book but of course my local book stores and libraries aren't carrying it lol but I got the book and ready to start reading!

Goodmorning/evening you shoudn't forgive him, a person who abused you once he will do it twice and even more... my father is the exact same, but my mom always forgived him.... you do not have to forgive him, you have to heal first do it for your children. I can tell by experience it's better to not have a father if he has to be abusive and cheater.

Yesss I am excited too. Honestly I did a fair bit of research to make sure to bring good titles for yall on this one 🤣 I want to read most of these

Great advice as always!! thank you for sharing this!!

Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s beautiful and soul baring. ♥️

@LissyLu @SquirtleSquad @littlegala @Aikko @Zina @RoseyLittle @MyMy This is the topic for your final reviews on the book! So warning if you havnt finished dont come in here or it will be spoiled. Feel free to post without spoilers in this section as those in here have been warned. Use the following template to help guide ypu. You can leave certain parts blank if you don't have an answer. Also this reveiw is a requirement if ypu want the achievement badge for this book! TEMPLATE: Book Title: Rating (1-5 stars): Favorite Quote: Favorite Scene: Strongest Book Quality (Character development, plot, humor, sub characters, angst, ect): Weakest Book Quality (Se previous question): Favorite Character/Sub character: Would you recommend and why: Full Descriptive Reveiw:

My Sun sign is Capricorn but my Moon Sign, Rising Sign, and like 3 of my houses are in Scorpio and that describes me sooooo much better lol: "Capricorns are known for being ambitious, disciplined, and practical, often driven by a strong work ethic and a desire to achieve long-term goals. They are also characterized by their loyalty and responsibility, but can sometimes be seen as pessimistic, serious, or stubborn" -the loyalty and work ethic are about the only things matching "Scorpio moons have intense, mysterious, and complex emotions, a strong need for emotional security, and deep loyalty to loved ones. They are often insightful, emotionally intelligent, and can be fiercely protective of those they care about, but can also hold grudges or be prone to holding onto things." -very much me, every single word lol

My sun sign: Pisces ♓️ (8th house) pisces is empathetic, intuitive, deeply sensitive and spiritual. a sign that feels everything deeply and needs solitude to recharge. ruled by Neptune, planet of dreams, and is symbolised by two fish swimming in opposite directions, representing duality and emotional depth. accurate traits: I absorb moods and atmosphere like water im creative and intuitive I need quiet time to process emotions and refill my energy traits I differ from: im not directionless, once I commit to something that actually matters to me, im all in I don’t idealise people easily, I can see the shadow side I think this is because my Pisces sun lives in the 8th house and is balanced by earth placements (Venus in Capricorn) that gives some structure. I still feel everything, but I’ve learned to contain it. 🌙

Also, if you’ve never heard of Bug Hunter, so cute. I love his songs.

New soul by Yael Naim makes me feel so much. The wonder and curiosity of new things, the mistakes we inevitably make exploring and a feeling of safety from being taken away from it all

I’m a Virgo sun and always curious how that lines up with my personality. I’ve used trusted-psychics to explore zodiac sign meanings more deeply, and it added insight into how my traits connect with daily stuff, like relationships and stress. It also helps me learn more about how other signs vibe, which is fun when chatting with friends who are super into astrology too.

You don't. You use the knowledge you've learned to recognize tactics and cycles. This is how you avoid future bad behavior- getting out before the behavior gets worse. Unless this man has genuinely apologized and bent backwards to right his wrongs, forgiveness is absofuckinlutely not required by you or anybody else he's victimized. I'm a strong believer in FAFO. Actions do have consequences. There are other more meaningful ways to heal, that don't require you to become a pacifist. Utilize your coping mechanisms, positive hobbies, and the people in your life that bring you joy.

only you know what's in your heart and what feels right for YOU. Just know you don't "have" to do anything other than love yourself, and love your daughter! Big hugs my friend!

This is exactly what I mean!!! And it's so cool that you've externalised them because it makes the self-work easier (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠) !! Plus you get to enjoy your favourite characters at the same time

*waves frantically* HIIIIIIII GUYS ! 😬 Dad took me to Lush this weekend , and I got to pick out some of their new early releases for Halloween ! Halloween is my favorite Holiday and I’m very much a bubble bath enthusiast , so needless to say IM FUCKING HYPED !!! ^ This one is three in one ! It has bath salts inside , the lid to the space ship is it’s own bath bomb and so is the body of the ship ! ^ Alien head bubble bar ! ^ Cute little ghostie bath bomb ! ^ Cutie Dracula bubble bar !