If you are looking for how to write a "daddy/mommy searching" ad, go here: https://www.ddlgforu...le-personal-ad/
"If you don't ask for what you want, you won't get it."
I have read tons and tons of "babygirl/little/middles/Princess/Kitten" personal ads and tons and tons of "Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver" personal ads. I think that the "right" "Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver" will respond better to you if you speak their language.
Here are some suggestions on how to write your personal ad to be:
-Get the responses you really want
-Don't waste anyone's time.
If you think the below suggestions are TMI, Too Much Information, that's up to you, choose what works for your comfort. The more you share, the more you will get responses closer to what you want.
Your personal ad should be written in your "voice." How you talk, the kind of energy you have, your sense of humor and your sense of purpose. This may seem over the top, but write it as if you were talking to them in person. Don't try to act the role of a "babygirl/little/middle/Princess/kitten," be yourself.
Your headline/hook, what you are looking for in a one liner. Sizzle! Be clever, be sweet, be sassy and tell them who/what you want.
Things to include written in a list or written into conversational story telling.
Be specific about what kind of relationship you are looking for. It will help you out so much so take the time. If you know great-tell them. If you don't know, think about it and do research. Use the following if they apply:
-LDR, Long Distance Relationship
-Online, contact is only online and not in person
-24/7, you want to interact as DDlg all day long.
-LTR, Long Term Relationship
-Exclusive, Monogamous, Poly and any other type of term that defines how you want to be with involved with your "Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver"
-Sexual or Non-sexual
-ABOUT THEM, the "Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver". Some of the things you want in a "Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver." If you don't know, read Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver profiles and Personal Ads to see how they describe themselves. These are the things that get you interested/excited and who, in the DDlg Lifestyle you want to hang out with.
-Experience in the DDlg Lifestyle: Do you want someone that is experienced? If you are new and they are new, you can learn together? Think about it, because they are conscious that they are in the position that requires them to know what to do and how to do it.
-What is their "Real Life" age range. Be specific...they are most conscientious of this too.
If you desire a younger or older, say it in a range of years. If it doesn't matter, say that.
-What do you want them to look like?, height, tattoos?or not, long/short hair...they are concerned about their appearance too
These are your personal preferences. Asking for what you want in appearance is vital. If it doesn't matter to you say so. If you don't say, you will get everyone responding for no reason.
-How are they on Rules? How are you on Rules? If you don't know say so and you want to learn.
Do you like them to be strict? Laid back? What kind of punishments are you into...you like giving/getting spankings or are you a more "time out" kind? This is very important because a Daddy/DD/CareGiver is looking for a match in this area since they believe this is a big part of their role.
-How do they like to care for you?
This is the place for them to say how much they are into being a Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver. You want to hear all this stuff. If they don't come up with stuff here, then I would question are they really into the Lifestyle really or are they posing? This is a great way to test them.
-Their Location: Be sure to say where you want them to be...Local, in the same state, in the same country, in the same time zone..
-What they like to do in RL - Real Life: You are looking for them to share the same interests, hobbies, music.....
-Experience in the DDlg Lifestyle: Do they want someone that is experienced? If you are new and they are new, you can learn together? Think about it, because they have preferences of whether they want to start from the beginning or be with someone that can roll along right out of the gate.
-Your age. Your real age.
Why lie? Heck, if I can be 51 years old, the rest of you are all younger than me anyway.
-Your "Age Play" age range
If you don't know what this is look it up. Babygirls are from birth to out of diapers. "Littles" tend to play the ages of 18 months to 11 years old. "Middles" tend to play the ages of 12 years old to 17 years old. You can also be a hybrid. Be specific, because they are. If you don't Age Play, tell them.
-Your body type, height in numbers and/or short, medium height, tall, thin, curvy, athletic, petite soft, tattoos?or not, long/short color of hair, piercings...You are talking to their personal preferences. Telling them how/what you look like in appearance is vital. Men/Women/Alpha's usually know exactly what they want to look at. It's just a fact. If you don't say, you will get everyone responding for no reason.
-Your "babygirl/little/middle/Princess/kitten Space" personality type...Likes to snuggle, laugh, play with their stuffies, wear diapers, glitter, dress up...use words that the Daddy/DD/Mommy/CareGiver will be looking for as what to expect from you in your space.. Really talk this part up. If you don't know, then read some "babygirl/littles/middle/Princess/kitten members profiles.
-How do you want to be cared for?
-This is the place to say how much you are into being a babygirl/little/middle/Princess/kitten. Tell them what you want.
"I like (EXAMPLES) to hold your hand crossing the street, wash your hair, sit on my lap, wipe your tears, help you succeed in your goals...."
-Your Location, country, city or near to recognizable city and if that doesn't work for you at least give them your time zone. Their Location, Be sure to say where you want them to be...Local, in the same state, in the same country, in the same time zone.
-What do you like to do? Hopefully they will be looking for how what they like matches your like.
"I like (EXAMPLES) Music-Genres, Anime, Traveling, Sky Diving, Italian Food, The color blue, I have a dog, Video Games."
Say what you want. Get what you want.
Feel free to question/suggest any of the above.
PS: Originally, I wrote the same idea and posted the "How to write for a Daddy/DD/Mommy/Care Giver looking for a babygirl/little/middle/Princess/kitten for the CareGiver Cafe section. I have customized this for your version.
Edited by Sachita, 22 January 2018 - 12:10 AM.
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