New relationship

[Wittle_MarBear]

[Guest Nocent]

The fact that he has seen that side and believes that it is cute is a positive sign.

There are several manners that you could approach the topic, you could inquire about whether or not he has some kinks and bridge from there, you could come out and tell him straight forward but at the end of the day you have to do what is right for you, in the manner that is right for you. 
You can do this, and the community will be here for you each step of the way.

[Wittle_MarBear]

Thank youu

[tayiie]

You could bring the BDSM topic up. See what he thinks of it. You could say you saw a post on Facebook in some group, you could ask if he's seen 50 shades or if he want to watch the new movie Book Club which to me looks like a fun movie and perhaps a fun way to start the topic.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Here are some previous topics that discuss this issue. Oldest on top, newest on bottom:

How To Tell Partner/Transitioning to DDLG from Vanilla
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/211-how-did-youyour-daddy-ask/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/660-ideas-for-beginners/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/1530-how-did-you-introduce-ddlg-into-your-relationship/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2212-new-to-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3056-transitioning-from-a-vanilla-to-ddlg-relationship/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/3924-convincing-my-master-to-accept-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4436-how-to-tell-bf-that-im-little/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4532-talking-to-people-about-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4745-how-to-explain-to-my-boyfriend-as-be-daddy/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5619-help-telling-vanilla-partner/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5689-coming-out-about-being-little
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5802-how-to-tell-my-boyfriend-about-my-ddlg-fetish/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/6017-new-relationship-help/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/7254-how-to-encourage-ddlg-to-boyfriend/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/8951-introducing-ddlg-to-someone-new/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/9630-my-boyfriend-doesnt-like-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/10414-how-do-i-introduce-ddlg-to-my-partner/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11646-how-to-tell-him-im-a-little/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/11956-explaining-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12028-advice/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/13107-introducing-my-bf-to-the-ddlg-lifestyle/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/14101-need-advice-im-a-new-little-and-my-boyfriend-is-really-put-off-by-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/14969-how-to-talk-to-my-husband-about-trying-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/14905-how-do-i-bring-up-ddlg-to-my-boyfriend/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/15347-introducing-ddlg-to-a-vanilla/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/16742-getting-husband-on-board/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/16903-how-to-tell-my-husband/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17019-how-should-i-tell-my-daddy-to-read-more-into-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17141-i-want-my-bf-to-be-my-daddy-but-he-doesnt-like-it/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17395-getting-my-partner-into-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/17793-afraid-to-tell-him/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/21314-little-needing-advice-nice-daddys-only/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/24255-how-do-i-tell-my-boyfriend/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/24204-help/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/26545-how-do-i-tell-himcome-out-about-ddlg/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/26645-i-need-advice/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/27210-how-do-you-explain-ddlg-to-someone-who-doesn%E2%80%99t-know/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28198-advice-and-help/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/30922-telling-my-so-about-my-little-side/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/31811-ddlg-or-not-new-little-here-and-i-need-advicehelp-pwetty-pwease/
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/32286-how-do-i-tell-him/

Edited July 31, 2018 by Sachita